I'm not butch btw
I'm being honest that I have some features, like facial hair, that I am ashamed of, that I try to cover up, but that doesn't make me a man. I don't think anyone has thought I am a man.
I'm worried that someone could use the law maliciously against me, people like me, because it feels like an impractical law.
I'm big on boundaries too, I think lying about marital status should be rape by deception. If someone explicitly lies about the sex they were born, that's deception.
But it feels like there's an enormous amount resting on assumptions, on what people look like, and if those rules apply to trans people, they are going to apply to people who aren't trans too. Including people like me.