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Republican Congresswoman bring forward Bill to ban transwomen from female facilities in Congress

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Hoardasurass · 19/11/2024 07:26

The quoted comments from the congresswoman are brilliant

First trans member lawmaker blasts GOP after bill blocks bathroom use https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14098953/nancy-mace-trans-lawmaker-bathroom-capitol-hill-sarah-mcbride.html?ito=native_share_article-nativemenubutton

First trans member lawmaker blasts GOP after bill blocks bathroom use

A trans war has broken out on Capitol Hill after a Republican lawmaker proposed a measure to block transgender women from using biological women's restrooms in the U.S. Capitol. 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14098953/nancy-mace-trans-lawmaker-bathroom-capitol-hill-sarah-mcbride.html?ito=native_share_article-nativemenubutton

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PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 04:42

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 04:08

So if Mace said “I don’t align with Trump” and still tried to enforce single sex spaces, you think that would then be a reasonable thing for her to do? So it’s only reasonable if she fulfils your small ask of denouncing someone you don’t like?

Is there anyone else she can’t be aligned with before she’s legitimate, in your eyes?

Is Seth Moulton correct in wanting single sex sports for his daughters, given he’s a Democrat and not aligned with Trump?

I certainly would respect Mace's motives if she denounced the rapist in charge of her party who has bragged about assaulting women and barging into change rooms where young women were naked. But she hasn't and she won't because she is fine with Trump and his misogynistic ways. She never introduced a bill because Trump, who has violated women and women's spaces, is about to come onto the hill. She didn't say "oh we've a rapist and a felon moving into the White House, so we better be sure he's not legally allowed in the bathrooms!" That's how I know her motivations are merely to score points by targeting trans women. She does not care about women's safety or she would not have helped put a rapist in the White House.

At least Moulton isn't a hypocrit, and I respect his motivations (concerns for his daughters vs Mace being punative to people she doesn't like).

I am still undecided about single sex sports. I participated in both mixed and single sex and in certain events was the only girl competing amongst boys (and placed often enough), so I haven't made up my mind personally about it.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 04:53

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 04:42

I certainly would respect Mace's motives if she denounced the rapist in charge of her party who has bragged about assaulting women and barging into change rooms where young women were naked. But she hasn't and she won't because she is fine with Trump and his misogynistic ways. She never introduced a bill because Trump, who has violated women and women's spaces, is about to come onto the hill. She didn't say "oh we've a rapist and a felon moving into the White House, so we better be sure he's not legally allowed in the bathrooms!" That's how I know her motivations are merely to score points by targeting trans women. She does not care about women's safety or she would not have helped put a rapist in the White House.

At least Moulton isn't a hypocrit, and I respect his motivations (concerns for his daughters vs Mace being punative to people she doesn't like).

I am still undecided about single sex sports. I participated in both mixed and single sex and in certain events was the only girl competing amongst boys (and placed often enough), so I haven't made up my mind personally about it.

She didn't say "oh we've a rapist and a felon moving into the White House, so we better be sure he's not legally allowed in the bathrooms!" That's how I know her motivations are merely to score points by targeting trans women.

You’re going to have to explain how part A of this paragraph leads to part B.

Why would she need to push for clear rules to keep a man who knows he’s not allowed to be in women’s spaces, and is clear about the need for women’s spaces, (regardless of his previous attitudes) instead of for a man who has clearly stated his intentions to enter women’s spaces in the building?

Who’s more likely to enter a woman’s space in the Capitol building? POTUS with all of his secret service agents, or a man who has publicly said he will?

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 05:00

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 04:53

She didn't say "oh we've a rapist and a felon moving into the White House, so we better be sure he's not legally allowed in the bathrooms!" That's how I know her motivations are merely to score points by targeting trans women.

You’re going to have to explain how part A of this paragraph leads to part B.

Why would she need to push for clear rules to keep a man who knows he’s not allowed to be in women’s spaces, and is clear about the need for women’s spaces, (regardless of his previous attitudes) instead of for a man who has clearly stated his intentions to enter women’s spaces in the building?

Who’s more likely to enter a woman’s space in the Capitol building? POTUS with all of his secret service agents, or a man who has publicly said he will?

I will, for this exercise, pretend we are talking about two cis men.

One goes into women's spaces and relieves himself in the privacy of a bathroom stall, washes his hands, and leaves.

The other goes into women's spaces and rapes them.

These two are not the same.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 05:05

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 05:00

I will, for this exercise, pretend we are talking about two cis men.

One goes into women's spaces and relieves himself in the privacy of a bathroom stall, washes his hands, and leaves.

The other goes into women's spaces and rapes them.

These two are not the same.

No I am talking about a specific man, McBride, who was intent on entering women’s spaces in the Capitol building where he is known to take selfies.

So why would Mace need to implement policy for POTUS, given the chances of him ever using the toilets at all are slim (maybe a nervous pre-State of the Union wee?) and will be guaranteed to be in a private POTUS toilet?

But it’s completely logical she needs to implement policy for a specific man, McBride, who has specifically said he intends to use the women’s toilets, isn’t it? So it’s not motivated by hate, it’s motivated by reality.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 05:09

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 05:05

No I am talking about a specific man, McBride, who was intent on entering women’s spaces in the Capitol building where he is known to take selfies.

So why would Mace need to implement policy for POTUS, given the chances of him ever using the toilets at all are slim (maybe a nervous pre-State of the Union wee?) and will be guaranteed to be in a private POTUS toilet?

But it’s completely logical she needs to implement policy for a specific man, McBride, who has specifically said he intends to use the women’s toilets, isn’t it? So it’s not motivated by hate, it’s motivated by reality.

Lots of girls take selfies in bathrooms. I certainly do. Why is the selfie taking an issue?

It seems to me you want to skate around Mace's inconsistent track record of supporting women's rights to reinforce your belief that she is doing this current pony show for the benefit of women. She is not. This is for her own political gain, and she will use your support and the support of other gender criticals like you to justify that she has mandate as she takes away nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence.

Women will die from illegal abortions and because their abusive ex-husbands have gotten their hands on guns.

And you'll cheer Mace on regardless. Unfathomably naive.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 05:24

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 05:09

Lots of girls take selfies in bathrooms. I certainly do. Why is the selfie taking an issue?

It seems to me you want to skate around Mace's inconsistent track record of supporting women's rights to reinforce your belief that she is doing this current pony show for the benefit of women. She is not. This is for her own political gain, and she will use your support and the support of other gender criticals like you to justify that she has mandate as she takes away nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence.

Women will die from illegal abortions and because their abusive ex-husbands have gotten their hands on guns.

And you'll cheer Mace on regardless. Unfathomably naive.

Lots of girls take selfies in bathrooms. I certainly do. Why is the selfie taking an issue?

It’s a man taking a selfie in the women’s bathroom. Do you think it’s appropriate for men to have cameras and recording equipment in women’s spaces?

It seems to me you want to skate around Mace's inconsistent track record of supporting women's rights to reinforce your belief that she is doing this current pony show for the benefit of women

I am not skating around anything. I am interested in this single thing. She has done this one thing which is to the benefit of women. Regardless of any perceived inconsistency, she has got this right. Hasn’t she?

This is for her own political gain, and she will use your support and the support of other gender criticals like you to justify that she has mandate as she takes away nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence.

🤣 more doom mongering. “Dear Congresswoman Mace, we agree with you on single sex spaces, but disagree with you on nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence. Have a nice day. Kind regards, etc”.

That wasn’t difficult was it?

Women will die from illegal abortions and because their abusive ex-husbands have gotten their hands on guns.

You’re blaming this on people supporting single sex spaces in a building in Washington DC? Decades old problems of abortion rights and gun control is now our fault? Do you have any idea how that sounds?

And you'll cheer Mace on regardless. Unfathomably naive.

You do realise no one is marrying Mace, don’t you? It’s not in sickness or in health, till death do us part, lifelong commitment? What makes you think we will cheer everything she does forever more? You don’t sound naive, you sound inflexible.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 06:04

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 05:24

Lots of girls take selfies in bathrooms. I certainly do. Why is the selfie taking an issue?

It’s a man taking a selfie in the women’s bathroom. Do you think it’s appropriate for men to have cameras and recording equipment in women’s spaces?

It seems to me you want to skate around Mace's inconsistent track record of supporting women's rights to reinforce your belief that she is doing this current pony show for the benefit of women

I am not skating around anything. I am interested in this single thing. She has done this one thing which is to the benefit of women. Regardless of any perceived inconsistency, she has got this right. Hasn’t she?

This is for her own political gain, and she will use your support and the support of other gender criticals like you to justify that she has mandate as she takes away nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence.

🤣 more doom mongering. “Dear Congresswoman Mace, we agree with you on single sex spaces, but disagree with you on nofault divorce, women's healthcare, redflag gun background checks, and protections against domestic violence. Have a nice day. Kind regards, etc”.

That wasn’t difficult was it?

Women will die from illegal abortions and because their abusive ex-husbands have gotten their hands on guns.

You’re blaming this on people supporting single sex spaces in a building in Washington DC? Decades old problems of abortion rights and gun control is now our fault? Do you have any idea how that sounds?

And you'll cheer Mace on regardless. Unfathomably naive.

You do realise no one is marrying Mace, don’t you? It’s not in sickness or in health, till death do us part, lifelong commitment? What makes you think we will cheer everything she does forever more? You don’t sound naive, you sound inflexible.

A lot of words to tell me you know nothing about lifetime appointments to the SCOTUS or the IDU or Project 2025.

Shrug. When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

Snowypeaks · 22/11/2024 06:08

PinkChestnut

Just for context:
You don't believe that women are a discrete sex class and are happy to deny us our fundamental human rights of privacy, dignity and safety and the right to be separate from men in certain circumstances.

Do you think convicted sex offenders Katie Dolatowski or Andrew Miller should have had unfettered access to women's single sex spaces because they claim to be women and are therefore not a threat in your eyes?

Do you think Trump should be allowed in women's SS spaces if he claims to be a woman?

Don't try to make this about NM personally. You oppose single sex spaces for women and everything else is a distraction from that fact.
There is no logical connection between protecting women's SS toilets and removing access to no-fault divorce. You only see a connection between them because you regard them both as right wing positions. Women's rights are not a right wing position.

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 06:09

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 06:04

A lot of words to tell me you know nothing about lifetime appointments to the SCOTUS or the IDU or Project 2025.

Shrug. When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

A lot of words to tell me you know nothing about lifetime appointments to the SCOTUS or the IDU or Project 2025.

I know about those things. Can you explain what they have to do with supporting Mace enforcing single sex spaces in her workplace?

When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

You clearly don’t value single sex spaces for women and girls. Millions of American woman do, and billions of women and girls around the world do. They provide safety, dignity and protect women. The fact you see it as trivial is telling.

334bu · 22/11/2024 06:12

Shrug. When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

I am sorry but I don't understand this , which country do their cousins live in , where they have no rights and what does that have to do with single sex spaces in the USA?

mamechange · 22/11/2024 06:18

It's so fecking depressing to agree with Republicans ( with the tangerine buffoon as President ) And did you see the guy he wanted as Attorney General - he looked like he was ready to be cast as the next villian in a Bond movie. Stooopid Democrats have dug themselves into a hole they can't get out of. The dude who it turned out had stolen the dresses he was wearing, appeared to be dumber than a 5yo but was an advisor to the Biden admin.Seriously, it's so hard to be left wing because you have to say ( agree except for the TRA stuff) under your breath. That photo of the heads of the UK(?) military chiefs was just embarassing for everyone.
Canada appears to have gone bonkers.
In Australia we had a court case this year (Giggle vs Tickle) I'm not lying. And Giggle( an online womens only forum) lost to Mr Tickle with his beard as they had screened him out as not being a woman - a wee bit more complicated than that but that was the crux.
It's getting very worringly Orwellian.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 06:19

334bu · 22/11/2024 06:12

Shrug. When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

I am sorry but I don't understand this , which country do their cousins live in , where they have no rights and what does that have to do with single sex spaces in the USA?

Their cousins live in America. Our entire family is flung across two continents and four countries. No one is thrilled at Mace's antics because we know what it means.

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 06:20

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 06:09

A lot of words to tell me you know nothing about lifetime appointments to the SCOTUS or the IDU or Project 2025.

I know about those things. Can you explain what they have to do with supporting Mace enforcing single sex spaces in her workplace?

When my nieces ask me why their cousins have no rights south of the border I will assure them "at least McBride can't take a selfie in a bathroom! Phew! We are all saved!"

You clearly don’t value single sex spaces for women and girls. Millions of American woman do, and billions of women and girls around the world do. They provide safety, dignity and protect women. The fact you see it as trivial is telling.

You wouldn't listen regardless, so I won't waste my time.

334bu · 22/11/2024 06:24

Their cousins live in America

I am still unclear about their lack of rights when south of the USA border and what that has to do with women not being forced to share female only spaces with men?

NotBadConsidering · 22/11/2024 06:28

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 06:20

You wouldn't listen regardless, so I won't waste my time.

You have spent the entire thread with your arms outstretched telling us to look at one hand and imploring that it has everything to do with the other hand but you’re yet to bring your hands together in any meaningful way.

So I am willing to listen, but I don’t expect a coherent explanation as to how lifetime appointments to SCOTUS has anything to do with single sex spaces being enforced in the Capitol building. Because they have absolutely nothing to do with each other.

ArabellaScott · 22/11/2024 06:54

Women will die from illegal abortions and because their abusive ex-husbands have gotten their hands on guns.

So in order to avoid this situation, UK feminists must refrain from saying they agree that women are entitled to single sex spaces?

I always knew US politics was weird but it seems to have got even weirder.

Runor · 22/11/2024 07:33

Lots of girls take selfies in bathrooms. I certainly do. Why is the selfie taking an issue?

Really Pink? I never have, and have never seen anyone else do it. Honestly if I saw a woman do this I’d think it was odd - yet men in women’s bathrooms seem to do it a lot 🤷‍♀️

RedToothBrush · 22/11/2024 07:35

UtopiaPlanitia · 22/11/2024 01:32

I posted this on the thread discussing the Democrats post US election but I think it applies here too - particularly the photos and videos in the second TwiX link at the bottom of my post.


I came across this tweet thread from an American Left-leaning man discussing what’s going on in the US at the moment with regards politics, election fallout, Congressional toilet policy, free speech and I thought it might be of interest to the thread:

https://x.com/Rob_ThaBuilder/status/1859276515508199830

Ok, time for a nuanced discussion on this topic, and some backstory:
I suspect a large chunk of ppl who currently are absolutely opposed to ANY man in women's spaces today (myself included) would have probably agreed with Chad here 5+ years ago (myself included).

Most of us probably would have thought something similar, like "well, if the person is passing and looks like a woman, I don't see the problem with them just using the bathroom". And if that's all that was happening - ppl who pass as women just using the bathroom - the current backlash occuring now likely would never have happened.

But that isn't all that happened, is it?

Over the past few years, it became increasingly clear that something else was going on, and that accelerated when Elon Musk bought this platform and prioritized the ability to speak truth against politically convenient narratives. We started seeing videos of men masturbating in women's bathrooms, started seeing SM posts of very obviously non-dysphoric men taking "trophy hunting" pictures of themselves triumphantly posting pictures of themselves in women's bathrooms, smugly bragging about their new access to these spaces, and gloating about the fact the actual women whom these spaces were created for couldn't do a thing about it. All of these things that we saw were things that we never saw on pre-Musk Twitter, and anyone posting them was banned.

And very quickly, we were radicalized.

There was a window - albeit brief - a few years ago when the trans community could have done something to prevent much of this. They could have acknowledged that self-id was a disaster, that it was a safeguarding nightmare, and that the so-called "true trans" (for lack of a better term) was outnumbered 10 to 1 by predators, perverts, sexual deviants and sex pests PRETENDING to be trans just to satisfy their paraphilic desires. This was obvious to any impartial observer easily a few years ago. Had the trans community correctly recognized the issue, recognized the safeguarding nightmare it was creating, and began policing itself and made very clear that these types of men did not represent their community, things MAY have turned out differently.

But they didn't. Instead, they doubled down, they said "anyone who claims to be trans IS trans" and called anyone concerned about the safety of women and girls in these spaces bigots, Nazis and transphobes. They refused to compromise even one inch, while demanding women give up everything. Absolutely no sacrifices were required by the men who wanted in, and every sacrifice demanded by the women who said no.

And so we were forced to come to the logical conclusion that, well, apparently these predators and sex pests must actually BE part of the trans community. And since they're the majority of the trans community, that must mean the community as a whole is a degenerate, sexually deviant group of predators who are a danger to women and girls, even while we acknowledge that there DO exist trans ppl who are not that, who really just DO want to live their lives in peace. Unfortunately, they are the minority. And in short order, we were radicalized.

And so that window for an alternate scenario closed. Positions have hardened on both sides, and all of the people who might have considered compromise a few short years ago have landed on the only reasonable position: that since the trans community refuses to police itself, we will have to do it for them. And since women CAN NOT TELL which men in their bathrooms "just want to pee" and which ones want to jerk off in the next stall listening to THEM pee, the only safe and effective solution to this problem is that ALL men - regardless of how they identify - must be kept out of women's spaces. And for all these ppl, there is no going back.
And the trans community has absolutely nobody to blame but themselves for that.”

Link below to the rest of his thread (with videos & reports of men behaving inappropriately in women’s public toilets - content warning) which gives examples to explain his change of mind on the issues he discusses above:

https://x.com/Rob_ThaBuilder/status/1859277572359463091

I agree with all of that bar the word radicalise.

Basic level safeguarding isn't a radical idea and I think it's dangerous to categorise recognition of the Staniland Question as 'radical' in any way.

To call it as radical actually legitimatises certain behaviours by the back door.

SinnerBoy · 22/11/2024 07:49

PinkChesnut · Today 06:19

No one is thrilled at Mace's antics because we know what it means.

Why are none of them thrilled that Mace has legally prevented Lady LARPers from accessing women's toilets and changing rooms? Why do they want potential abusers to be allowed access to them? What is wrong with them?

SinnerBoy · 22/11/2024 07:51

I've got to say, it seems to be a common theme for these lunatics (Mace death threat chap) to bang on about how they only want to pee, that they're real women, are no threat etc and then go on to promise to harm women in the ladies' toilets.

"I'm no threat and to prove that, I'll invade your space and kill you." doesn't seem to me to be a well reasoned position...

DeanElderberry · 22/11/2024 07:54

I have never seen a woman take a selfie in a public loo and if I did I'd think there was something deeply wrong with her. I don't think men would take to a man doing it in public loos either.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 22/11/2024 07:55

@PinkChesnut

You don't see the difference between the selfies you take and those transwomen take really?

x.com/rob_thabuilder/status/1859277572359463091?s=46&t=AjtjSItRj-kgZwRzL-pdyQ

OldCrone · 22/11/2024 07:58

We started seeing videos of men masturbating in women's bathrooms, started seeing SM posts of very obviously non-dysphoric men taking "trophy hunting" pictures of themselves triumphantly posting pictures of themselves in women's bathrooms, smugly bragging about their new access to these spaces, and gloating about the fact the actual women whom these spaces were created for couldn't do a thing about it.

@PinkChesnut can you explain how you protect women and girls by encouraging these predatory men to use women only spaces?

PinkChesnut · 22/11/2024 08:03

OldCrone · 22/11/2024 07:58

We started seeing videos of men masturbating in women's bathrooms, started seeing SM posts of very obviously non-dysphoric men taking "trophy hunting" pictures of themselves triumphantly posting pictures of themselves in women's bathrooms, smugly bragging about their new access to these spaces, and gloating about the fact the actual women whom these spaces were created for couldn't do a thing about it.

@PinkChesnut can you explain how you protect women and girls by encouraging these predatory men to use women only spaces?

Oh look, libel.

OldCrone · 22/11/2024 08:04

DeanElderberry · 22/11/2024 07:54

I have never seen a woman take a selfie in a public loo and if I did I'd think there was something deeply wrong with her. I don't think men would take to a man doing it in public loos either.

PinkChesnut refers to themself as a 'girl' and takes selfies in women's toilets. There is a particular category of people who tend to do that.