This transgressive aspiration of queer theory seems to be the allegedly leftist mirror image of the 'disruptive' aspirations of populist right-wing thinkers such as Dominic Cummings.
In both cases there is this idea that it is intrinsically progressive to challenge and upset some perceived set of received wisdom. On the alleged-left the received wisdom is conceived as socially constructed boundaries; on the right it is conceived as the product of a political establishment composed of elites.
In both cases, there is a mistrust of expertise. On the right Gove spoke that literally ("this country is sick of experts") and Cummings performed it in his politicised challenge to the civil service. On the alleged-left of queer theory it is expressed (for example) in the idea that you can critique biology not on the basis of biological research but on the basis of ideology.
Of course there is something to be said for shaking up received wisdom, but it isn't productive of new knowledge unless it is done from a position of sensitivity to evidence and reason. This is lacking in both right-wing 'disruptors' and allegedly left-wing queer theorists, who both rely on the populist assumption that expertise as such is suspect and that every alleged application of evidence and reason is distorted by some version of establishment bias.
What's needed, to advance knowledge, is a disciplined challenge to received wisdom, ie one that respects evidence. Where do we actually find that disciplined "queering"? We find it in the scientific method, which above everything involves challenging every hypothesis at every stage, subjecting then to interrogation, seeking to falsify them with new research and only then accepting them.
But the scientific method (Gove's expertise and the queer theorist's pre-post-modernism) is exactly what the populist disruptors of left and right want to undermine. Not surprisingly because it has the gratifying effect that from day one of your undergraduate class in gender studies or whatever you have greater insight than people with a huge, hard-won hinterland of knowledge.