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Algerian boxer filing legal claim over online harrassment

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GoogleWhacking · 10/08/2024 22:26

news.sky.com/story/algerian-boxer-imane-khelif-at-centre-of-olympic-gender-row-files-legal-complaint-over-online-harassment-13195264

She could have put this to bed by sharing DNA tests. I'm struggling to feel sympathy, although it must be horrid.

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RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 12:01

I appreciate the very recent interest shown by people who've previously known nothing about any of the relevant issues but have been quite free with their "reckons".

I applaud the generosity of seasoned FWR posters who've been discussing the relevant issues for 8 years and longers and are so patiently dealing with what seems like voluntary ignorance and faux naivety alongside not-so subtle digs about their tone and 'more in sorrow than in anger' encouragement to #BeKind and recall the tenets of basic decency. As if these haven't been the underpinning of all the posts but FWR posters tend to have the temerity to include other women as those whose dignity they should respect and to whom they should display compassion.

Omlettes · 11/08/2024 12:02

CautiousLurker · 11/08/2024 11:38

I pretty much had my XX chromosomal status confirmed at about 9 when my menses began and breast buds developed. If they hadn’t, as was the case with a friend’s niece who was anorexic and nothing had happened by 14, then I would have expected my parents and GP to insist upon a full raft of tests, which would naturally have included karyotype/sex tests.

It beggars belief that in either Tawain or Algeria that this was not done. And if, for some inexplicable reason it wasn’t, then they had an inkling in 2022 and confirmation in 2023 when they were banned.

14? Period at 9?
Good god
16 is more like it

HPFA · 11/08/2024 12:04

softsummerrain · 11/08/2024 11:27

It’s utterly heart breaking to imagine what Imane Khelif must be going through. To have your identity questioned and to be publicly called a man must be incredibly painful, especially after dedicating your life to your sport and achieving such success. I can’t even begin to fathom how devastating it must be to face that kind of scrutiny and cruelty from people who don’t know you.

How many of us have ever had our chromosomes checked at birth? Most of us simply take our identity for granted, without ever having to prove it to anyone. At what point do people think she “became” a man? The idea is absurd and dehumanizing. Imane has been living her life as a woman, facing all the challenges and triumphs that come with it, and now she’s being forced to defend her very existence.

No one deserves to go through this kind of public trial. The focus should be on supporting her as a person, respecting her identity, and recognizing the hard work and dedication she’s put into her sport. It’s a reminder of the importance of empathy and kindness, especially in situations where we might not fully understand someone else’s experience.

They will know themselves whether they have the particular DSD which gives a male advantage or not.

If they do then there is no excuse for not knowing that they are clearly putting female boxers at risk. No excuse for not withdrawing from that particular sport, or fighting in the male category.

I thought Caster Semenya was wrong to keep on competing after they knew they were male but at least they weren't putting female safety at risk.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 11/08/2024 12:05

softsummerrain · 11/08/2024 11:54

Thank you for sharing your perspectives, and I appreciate the passion everyone has on this topic. I stand by my original comment because I believe it’s essential to approach this situation with empathy for Imane Khelif as a human being. Being publicly attacked and having your identity questioned in such a personal and painful way is something that no one should have to endure.

That said, I fully understand the concerns about fairness in women’s sports. Those are valid and deserve to be taken seriously. But I think we can advocate for fairness without resorting to dehumanizing language or making assumptions about someone’s life and experiences. We don’t have to agree on everything, but I believe there’s a way to express our views that still respects the dignity of all individuals involved.

It’s easy to get caught up in the heat of the debate, but at the end of the day, kindness and respect go a long way. This is a complex issue, and while we may differ in our opinions, I hope we can all agree that treating others with basic decency is non-negotiable.

I'll save my sympathy for the women who had their chance of Olympic glory taken from them by having to get in a ring with someone who is biologically male with all the physical male advantages.

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 12:11

I think if I were representing the two Independent labs involved in the sex tests on these athletes, and our professional integrity and accuracy were being decried, I'd be considering legal action.

I don't think anyone from either athlete's team has said the results are wrong. Both athletes accepted the results and subsequent bans, despite being offered full support to appeal to CAS.

I'm pretty sure that implies these 2 are indeed XY individuals, both have been through male puberty and neither should ever be eligible for XX events.

I'm not sure who Khelif is thinking of suing, nor why (seems deeply stupid to me) but if it goes ahead, I guess they'll have to prove, via tests, that the "they're XY" statements are false.

I'd like to see that.

It does make me question why it's important now but not important enough to appeal 2 years ago. Is there money riding on it? Sponsorship? Ad revenue? Or just a thwarted XY athlete not receiving the adulation the XY athlete feels is the XY athlete's due? A hissy fit, in other words.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:11

No one deserves to go through this kind of public trial. The focus should be on supporting her as a person, respecting her identity, and recognizing the hard work and dedication she’s put into her sport.

No. All my sympathy is for the women who had to fight males and be gaslighted and humiliated about it into the bargain.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:13

I imagine the line will be that Khelif was fully eligible to compete, not that Khelif has XY chromosomes.

StealthSpinach · 11/08/2024 12:13

CautiousLurker · 11/08/2024 11:28

@GoogleWhacking I think he’d struggle to prove bullying and harassment when the interview with his own coach published overnight states categorically that they’ve known all along he is an XY male, however he identifies.

If there have been death threats etc, then these should absolutely be investigated, though I have no idea whose jurisdiction this is. No matter what my feelings about his cheating lying ass status is, or my disgust at the physical harms inflicted up on multiple female competitors by Khelif and Lin, no-one should be threatened.

Personally I’d like to see a class action by all the female competitors in this Olympics against the IOC and then, given the evidence is clear that Lin and Khelif utterly knew that their XY status renders them karyotypically male, the individual boxers for assault and fraud.

Do you have a link for the interview with the coach, please?

OvaHere · 11/08/2024 12:14

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:11

No one deserves to go through this kind of public trial. The focus should be on supporting her as a person, respecting her identity, and recognizing the hard work and dedication she’s put into her sport.

No. All my sympathy is for the women who had to fight males and be gaslighted and humiliated about it into the bargain.

Yes. This.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 12:14

HPFA · 11/08/2024 12:04

They will know themselves whether they have the particular DSD which gives a male advantage or not.

If they do then there is no excuse for not knowing that they are clearly putting female boxers at risk. No excuse for not withdrawing from that particular sport, or fighting in the male category.

I thought Caster Semenya was wrong to keep on competing after they knew they were male but at least they weren't putting female safety at risk.

Exactly.

And I think Caster Semenya continuing to compete and being supported to compete by their national team shows up differences in attitudes to fairness in women's sport and women in general. Both on national and international levels.

We don't talk about the cultural difference between why we'd think that was unacceptable in the UK but other countries think it's fine.

Why?

Why do we only focus on how it's unfair to these individual athletes and not how it's unfair to all the women who didn't get a medal or a place in the final.

We know Caster Semenya's name. There's financial opportunities from that.

I had to make a bit of an effort to find the names of the women who came 4th, 5th and 6th in Rio. I didn't know them off the top of my head. I would probably know Lyndsey Sharp's name if Semenya hadn't been there. Melissa Bishop and Joanna Jozwik not so much because they aren't British, but it still has affected them massively.

And we haven't talked about the abuse and harassment all the women who have raised concerns about fairness of women's sport. What about them?

zibzibara · 11/08/2024 12:15

softsummerrain · 11/08/2024 11:54

Thank you for sharing your perspectives, and I appreciate the passion everyone has on this topic. I stand by my original comment because I believe it’s essential to approach this situation with empathy for Imane Khelif as a human being. Being publicly attacked and having your identity questioned in such a personal and painful way is something that no one should have to endure.

That said, I fully understand the concerns about fairness in women’s sports. Those are valid and deserve to be taken seriously. But I think we can advocate for fairness without resorting to dehumanizing language or making assumptions about someone’s life and experiences. We don’t have to agree on everything, but I believe there’s a way to express our views that still respects the dignity of all individuals involved.

It’s easy to get caught up in the heat of the debate, but at the end of the day, kindness and respect go a long way. This is a complex issue, and while we may differ in our opinions, I hope we can all agree that treating others with basic decency is non-negotiable.

Khekif brought this upon himself by choosing to compete in the world's most publicised sports event despite knowing that he is male.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 12:16

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 12:11

I think if I were representing the two Independent labs involved in the sex tests on these athletes, and our professional integrity and accuracy were being decried, I'd be considering legal action.

I don't think anyone from either athlete's team has said the results are wrong. Both athletes accepted the results and subsequent bans, despite being offered full support to appeal to CAS.

I'm pretty sure that implies these 2 are indeed XY individuals, both have been through male puberty and neither should ever be eligible for XX events.

I'm not sure who Khelif is thinking of suing, nor why (seems deeply stupid to me) but if it goes ahead, I guess they'll have to prove, via tests, that the "they're XY" statements are false.

I'd like to see that.

It does make me question why it's important now but not important enough to appeal 2 years ago. Is there money riding on it? Sponsorship? Ad revenue? Or just a thwarted XY athlete not receiving the adulation the XY athlete feels is the XY athlete's due? A hissy fit, in other words.

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Or is it merely hot air for publicly and no court case will emerge?

All I can smell is financial grift from this.

TheKeatingFive · 11/08/2024 12:17

The focus should be on supporting her as a person, respecting her identity, and recognizing the hard work and dedication she’s put into her sport. It’s a reminder of the importance of empathy and kindness, especially in situations where we might not fully understand someone else’s experience.

Why is all of the focus and sympathy on Khelif and none on the women who are losing out on opportunities because of men or having their safety compromised because of men choosing to enter their sport?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:17

Or is it merely hot air for publicly and no court case will emerge?

My assumption.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 12:18

zibzibara · 11/08/2024 12:15

Khekif brought this upon himself by choosing to compete in the world's most publicised sports event despite knowing that he is male.

Indeed.

They knew there was a question after the ban. A ban that wasn't contested.

And then they entered the Olympics knowing that was hanging over them as a question mark and did nothing to resolve that question mark.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:18

Maybe also to try to force media and social media to lay off criticism.

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 12:20

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 12:16

Or is it merely hot air for publicly and no court case will emerge?

All I can smell is financial grift from this.

Good point.

What a mess.

CocoapuffPuff · 11/08/2024 12:22

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:18

Maybe also to try to force media and social media to lay off criticism.

Another good point.

Yet it looks to me that the women's tears and objections resulted in forced public apologies.

One rule for thee, another for me.....

PinkTonic · 11/08/2024 12:22

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:04

Why? Generally we are told, over and over again, if you have a penis you are male. With some of these conditions there isn't a penis so by that logic they aren't men or at least they probably have no reason to think they are men.

It must be pretty bloody horrific to find this out when you are an adult.

It would be horrible. We can all feel compassion for someone in those circumstances.

Do you think that women’s prizes, accolades and in this case safety are appropriate to give away to such a person to make up for the distress of that discovery? This is what you appear to be arguing. It’s a terrible thing for someone to find out they’re not the sex they thought they were, so we should all pretend it hasn’t happened and let them play.

Newbie232 · 11/08/2024 12:23

Omlettes · 11/08/2024 04:12

We havent heard a squeak about the women he beat since.
None of their backstories, the sacrifice they made to get here and what it means to them not having a chance, once there.

Are you talking about the Italian boxer who trained and knew imane personally from a young age.

She embaressed her publicly on stage, probably out of jealousy and to take advantage of the ongoing media campaign against imane.

CautiousLurker · 11/08/2024 12:23

Omlettes · 11/08/2024 12:02

14? Period at 9?
Good god
16 is more like it

Yep, it was rather traumatic for me at the time as I’d not had ‘the talk’ and thought I needed the doctor, but is considered average according to most GPs now.

It’s considered late if not started by 15, but will be investigated earlier if there are no other signs of female puberty (breast buds for example).

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2024 12:24

It seems like some of the IBA material inadvertently disclosed his email address. Though I only heard that from a couple of sources, so may not be correct.

It did, I saw it. So Khelif may have a case against the IBA for that, I think fair enough.

CautiousLurker · 11/08/2024 12:25

PinkTonic · 11/08/2024 12:22

It would be horrible. We can all feel compassion for someone in those circumstances.

Do you think that women’s prizes, accolades and in this case safety are appropriate to give away to such a person to make up for the distress of that discovery? This is what you appear to be arguing. It’s a terrible thing for someone to find out they’re not the sex they thought they were, so we should all pretend it hasn’t happened and let them play.

Yes, it’s meant to be a contest of technical and athletic ability between two people matched for biological sex and weight; not a pity contest.

BeyondOlympicLevelProcrastinator · 11/08/2024 12:28

@CautiousLurker Flowers I had what would border on precocious puberty too, luckily my mum was always open on body stuff so it wasn't as worrying for me

I'm now late thirties and heading into menopause, so it has its bonuses 🤣

Helleofabore · 11/08/2024 12:29

Newbie232 · 11/08/2024 12:23

Are you talking about the Italian boxer who trained and knew imane personally from a young age.

She embaressed her publicly on stage, probably out of jealousy and to take advantage of the ongoing media campaign against imane.

You mean the woman who was punched in the nose and felt she couldn't breathe? The one who knew that Khelif was very likely male and felt that she had lost because the IOC would not guarantee either a safe or a fair fight because the IOC prioritises inclusion above fairness?

That woman?