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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

FFS disability is now on the pride flag

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sashh · 16/07/2024 08:58

I'm livid. I'm disabled and I do not want to be represented on the LGBTQ+ flag.

Also this quote: Dayna Halliwell (she/her), Content and Engagement Manager at Evenbreak, led the collaboration and organised the Pride visit. She said: “It was very moving and amazing to see the reaction of disabled people in the audience. You could see the joy on their faces of being represented in the parade.”

https://blog.evenbreak.co.uk/2024/07/02/new-disability-inclusive-pride-flag-unveiled-at-london-pride/

New Disability-Inclusive Pride Flag unveiled at London Pride

Image description: Evenbreak team members in pink t-shirts carry the new Disability-Inclusive Pride Flag in the London Pride Parade alongside Valentino Vechietti, dressed in white. Photo credit: Ma…

https://blog.evenbreak.co.uk/2024/07/02/new-disability-inclusive-pride-flag-unveiled-at-london-pride

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MrsToddsShortcut · 16/07/2024 13:01

Yes, that makes sense. I think I may be confusing myself and thinking of the old Disability Discrimination Act, but you're right - I think this only applies to buildings built after a certain date.

I maintain that it's not brilliant practice, but yes, I stand corrected re it being illegal or in breach of EA2010

Waitingfordoggo · 16/07/2024 13:11

oOiluvfriendsOo · 16/07/2024 11:10

How about just going out and living their lives then instead of putting on a song and dance about it.

' oh look at me, I'm gay, I want everyone to know I'm gay so I'm going to put on a funny voice and walk to prove it'.......

Why the need to bring attention to yourself.
Obviously the TQ+ is a whole different matter, but my god.

Eg, I work with a trans person. He goes about his job with no fuss wearing a male uniform and just being himself.
At a wedding for a work colleague he was in a dress, heels make up the lot and not one person batted an eyelid. Not even other guests that didn't know him.
Why was that......because he didn't put on an 'oh look at me' show. He danced and had a great time like everyone else.

You come across as pretty homophobic. What about all the gay people who don’t have a ‘funny voice/walk’? What about all the straight people with funny voices/walks?

You’re talking about people deliberately seeking attention- yes such people exist and always have. Some of them are gay, some of them are not. Some are even trans and NB.

SeeSeeRider · 16/07/2024 13:12

sashh · 16/07/2024 11:43

Even though you are being told by people with disabilities that we do not want this?

You do know there is a fetish about having sex with disabled people don't you?

How about my daughter? A wheelchair user? Does she count? Are you speaking for everybody with any kind of disability?

VictorianBigot · 16/07/2024 13:20

MysteriousUsername · 16/07/2024 11:29

If they were going to use it to actually spread disability awareness and inclusion it would be fine. But they won't. It will self-identified "neurospicy" people who aren't actually diagnosed but think that being autistic is just being "quirky and non binary" and will then shout disability discrimination at any given opportunity, as well as transphobia.

I'm autistic, although straight (but hey, I technically come under the demisexual and non binary flags if you look at the descriptions 🙄) and I don't want adding to their stupid flag. Any of the stupid bloody flags.

I was just about to say this. By disability they no doubt mean ND and the freedom to identify as such, which I think is where it crosses paths with gender identity. Campaigns for people with physical disabilities aren’t really on the radars of virtue signallers or the ‘gender diverse’ from what I have seen, presumably because it doesn’t fall under the umbrella of ‘Identity’. MH has also fallen out of fashion among this crowd. In my experience the ‘awareness’ around MH only went so far as MH Lite. People with schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder or by and large bipolar disorder (as it actually presents, not just ‘ooh I’m so bipolar today’) barely got a mention. Similarly, people with autism who experience profound difficulties such as epilepsy, violent behaviours and being non-verbal aren’t represented in the same way.

I think the Identity movement is basically just an endeavour in narcissism and look at me, dressed up as Awareness. Meanwhile people complain about wheelchair ramps looking unsightly and huff and puff about making space for a wheelchair on public transport or someone having an autistic meltdown (not helped by things like ‘woke’ fuckers playing music through speakers in public places). Just look at the recent AIBU thread about intolerance of disabled people.

I say all this as a technically ND person (although I find that term problematic for a number of reasons) who has a diagnosis of ADHD. I fear this kind of celebration of diversity or whatever it’s supposed to be is harmful to education on the subject. Other than relevant professionals and one or two close friends, I don’t tell anyone IRL about my diagnosis because I’d get an eye roll. Because of shite like this.

RubyTrees · 16/07/2024 13:34

So it will just be identifying as a rainbow then?

SeeSeeRider · 16/07/2024 13:35

@VictorianBigot

‘woke’ fuckers playing music through speakers in public places

What, in the name of fuck has playing music through speakers got to do with being 'woke', and did you know that 'woke' is actually a hate word?

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 16/07/2024 13:39

What IS a hate word?
Who decides?

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 13:45

You've heard of greenwashing.

This is Pridewashing

Basically selling t-shirts to anyone gullible enough. and Making the lovely $$$$$$ off them. Being very homophobic and anti-disability on the way.

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 13:47

Which STILL doesn't help the guide dogs who get confused by these crossings. Who needs guide dogs?? anyone?

NameChange0101010101 · 16/07/2024 13:54

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 16/07/2024 13:39

What IS a hate word?
Who decides?

Words like 'cis' and 'birthing parent' I'm assuming.

Chersfrozenface · 16/07/2024 13:55

They're not actually crossings, though, as the stripes aren't parallel with the pavement/footway. They're just propaganda decoration - probably why the word crossings is in quotation marks in the BBC story.

Any traffic allowed along the road is not obliged to stop for pedestrians at that point, since it doesn't conform to zebra crossing standards and there are no traffic lights.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 16/07/2024 13:58

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 13:47

Which STILL doesn't help the guide dogs who get confused by these crossings. Who needs guide dogs?? anyone?

Ah but now you can identify as being disabled and being disabled is to be celebrated in a totally non specific way, so who needs those pesky adjustments to make things easier? That just gets in the way of all this joy. Just embrace the fact your guide dog can't see and you might end up walking out in front of a car - pride joy! Or something.

Funny how you actually have to provide proof to get disability benefits and can't just self ID into that. Talking about processes which lack dignity - any attempt to make applying for or even keeping disability benefits more dignified or easier? No?

VictorianBigot · 16/07/2024 13:59

@SeeSeeRider Well, this is an example of movements hijacking the original meaning of something (in the case of woke - racial prejudice and discrimination) and diluting it to the point it becomes a parody. Like what is happening with biology, disability, sexuality and DSDs among others.

DawsonsFreak · 16/07/2024 14:00

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 13:47

Which STILL doesn't help the guide dogs who get confused by these crossings. Who needs guide dogs?? anyone?

The guide dogs need to reframe their victimhood and check their privilege. Clearly they are brimming over with hate and prejudice.

Devonbabs · 16/07/2024 14:06

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 13:47

Which STILL doesn't help the guide dogs who get confused by these crossings. Who needs guide dogs?? anyone?

It’s fine, surely the dog will now understand his owner is now included.

On a sort of side note, How the fuck have people who are affected by racism not kicked up a stink about being dragged into this shit show?

gummigwer · 16/07/2024 14:13

Devonbabs · 16/07/2024 14:06

It’s fine, surely the dog will now understand his owner is now included.

On a sort of side note, How the fuck have people who are affected by racism not kicked up a stink about being dragged into this shit show?

Maybe they are? But you don't hear from them...

Dominoodles · 16/07/2024 14:15

Meaning aside, the flag has started to become real ugly. Can we please at least make it aesthetically pleasing?!

DawsonsFreak · 16/07/2024 14:17

Devonbabs · 16/07/2024 14:06

It’s fine, surely the dog will now understand his owner is now included.

On a sort of side note, How the fuck have people who are affected by racism not kicked up a stink about being dragged into this shit show?

Those of us who don’t live our lives framed in victimhood get drowned out by those who do, and their white allies who have much louder voices than we do. You might want to see what has happened to women of colour who have spoken out.

SeeSeeRider · 16/07/2024 14:28

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 16/07/2024 13:39

What IS a hate word?
Who decides?

If a far-right demagogue or newspaper calls people like me 'woke' for having progressive or inclusive views and means it pejoratively, then I decide.

SeeSeeRider · 16/07/2024 14:35

VictorianBigot · 16/07/2024 13:59

@SeeSeeRider Well, this is an example of movements hijacking the original meaning of something (in the case of woke - racial prejudice and discrimination) and diluting it to the point it becomes a parody. Like what is happening with biology, disability, sexuality and DSDs among others.

You have not explained why you call people who play music through speakers in public places "woke". It seems to me that you have not so much hijacked the meaning as destroyed it altogether.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/07/2024 14:37

PriOn1 · 16/07/2024 09:06

Forced teaming. It’s a pointless branding exercise to make their cause look better.

I assume it’s as a results of folks taking health damaging drugs… there always seems to be a high proportion of folks with canes, walkers and wheelchairs at demos. Not sure if it includes people with autism but they’d be a fair chunk too.

why can’t they just leave the flipping rainbow to cover sexuality. Personality and disability… come off it. What next?

MarieDeGournay · 16/07/2024 14:55

Apart altogether from the offensive politics of that vexillologist's nightmare known as the Progress Flag, there's the stupidity of messing up the original rainbow flag - a rainbow contains all colours anyway, why add more?

It doesn't contain black, and it also doesn't contain white, as these are absence/presence of light, not colours.
It was a perfectly adequate symbol of diversity without all these garish and clashing additions.

But I suppose ignoring scientific fact about the rainbow ties in well with ignoring scientific fact about human biology...

StainlessSteelMouse · 16/07/2024 14:55

I suppose stupid neo-Pride flags that almost erase the original rainbow are the in thing nowadays. In the past couple of years I've seen Pride logos incorporating Palestinian or Ukrainian colours.

To properly reflect the economics of Pride, the flag should really include a vodka bottle.

On a more serious note, I have a long-term chronic illness. It is debilitating, has visible symptoms and it's not an illness that the trendy neurospicy crowd would ever self-ID into. My illness sucks, I wish I didn't have it, and I certainly don't need a fucking flag to wave. Easier workplace adjustments would be nice though.

Quietnights · 16/07/2024 14:59

SeeSeeRider · 16/07/2024 14:35

You have not explained why you call people who play music through speakers in public places "woke". It seems to me that you have not so much hijacked the meaning as destroyed it altogether.

I'd presumed that poster means self-identified progressives who take along loud speakers to drown out the public voices at public events of anyone they disagree with.

Ironic that those who identify as anti-fascist seek to literally and forcibly drown out the voices of those they disagree with, thus stopping anyone else from hearing those views and forming their own opinions on what they are saying. Hard to think of something less democratic really.

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