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Waterstones come out as GC and fire TRA for social media post

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woman2womanmeetswomanparrish · 08/07/2024 18:14

Fantsatstic news, Christina Dalcher has sucessfully managed to get this TRA fired from their job at Waterstones for X comment.

https://x.com/TillyLovesBooks/status/1810337926850445453?t=WABH0ieBQdnUtaQL5FVlyQ&s=19

Waterstones come out as GC and fire TRA for social media post
Waterstones come out as GC and fire TRA for social media post
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Alltheprettyseahorses · 09/07/2024 14:14

thestudio · 09/07/2024 13:20

I really disagree with the fetishisation of books though. There are a lot of shite books in the world and if i'm honest Vox sounds like one of them. I always think the handwringing about 'no bookshelves in the house' or binning hardbacks is performative liberalism/aspirational haute-bourgeoisie-ing.

The reason book-burning is seen as so significant is because it's powerfully symbolic of the destruction of the human right to free speech.

It's the words, not the books as aesthetic or sacred objects, that are so important.

Vive la vie dust-free!

I agree with this. The tweeness booksellers aspire aspire to can be a little nauseating. Books are great, I have lots of them, but so is a dairy milk. If Tilly and others treated bookselling as a regular retail assistant job instead of some special sparkly ascended plane none of this would have happened.

Vox is a really good book though imo!

TheCadoganArms · 09/07/2024 14:48

Alltheprettyseahorses · 09/07/2024 14:14

I agree with this. The tweeness booksellers aspire aspire to can be a little nauseating. Books are great, I have lots of them, but so is a dairy milk. If Tilly and others treated bookselling as a regular retail assistant job instead of some special sparkly ascended plane none of this would have happened.

Vox is a really good book though imo!

For many bookshops though it's all about asperational living, the coffee table book has become an asscesory for a room like a cushion, rug or scented candle. You are right about the tweeness though, the effort that goes into book covers, especially womens popular fiction (aka chick lit) with its swirly font writing, bold colours and montage graphics is a bit nauseating. I am an avid reader, mostly travel writing, history and politics. I will confess that I am quite proud of my bookshelf and I have actually read about 95% of its content and still use them for reference. I guess it is a feature of the room of sorts, if only accidental..

UtopiaPlanitia · 09/07/2024 14:52

RufustheFactualReindeer · 09/07/2024 08:17

Could be worse, when dd was in an online class for college i commando crawled across the room behind her, fondly imagining that i couldn’t be seen

oh and i gave her a kiss when she was typing not realising she was in a lecture because i couldn’t see people on the screen

technology and me are not friends

Ach, Rufus, you’re so sweet - how could anyone be miffed with someone behaving so adorably 😍

lechiffre55 · 09/07/2024 14:54

womens popular fiction (aka chick lit) with its swirly font writing, bold colours and montage graphics is a bit nauseating

Horses for courses. It probably signifies to a certain readership that this book is in their wheelhouse, and you probably look for different visual clues.The bright colours seem superficial, and maybe that's a clue as to what lies inside the cover.

alittleprivacy · 09/07/2024 14:58

jacksonlambsregulardisorder · 09/07/2024 08:38

I didn't think this was how UK employment law worked, you can't surely be told you're fired straight out like that. Unless she was on probation and they told her they weren't going to permanently offer her a job, or there have been two other incidences on her employment record with this company.

Are there any HR people who could comment?

You can be fired instantly for gross misconduct, which this very clearly is. It was also breach of contract, which can also lead to instant dismissal.

DidYerAye · 09/07/2024 15:03

WaterstonesHelp Twitter account has spoken:

We have received some messages about an employee who has been dismissed. This was on the grounds of contravening Waterstones policies and has nothing to do with transgender rights.

ColinMyWifeBridgerton · 09/07/2024 15:31

thestudio · 09/07/2024 13:20

I really disagree with the fetishisation of books though. There are a lot of shite books in the world and if i'm honest Vox sounds like one of them. I always think the handwringing about 'no bookshelves in the house' or binning hardbacks is performative liberalism/aspirational haute-bourgeoisie-ing.

The reason book-burning is seen as so significant is because it's powerfully symbolic of the destruction of the human right to free speech.

It's the words, not the books as aesthetic or sacred objects, that are so important.

Vive la vie dust-free!

Every room in my house has at least 2 full bookshelves, and I still agree with this. There is nothing inherently sacred about a book as an object. It's the contents that count. There's nothing wrong with getting rid of a book because you think it's bad, there's everything wrong with preventing others from obtaining information or perspectives simply because you don't like the consequences of it.

TheCadoganArms · 09/07/2024 15:35

lechiffre55 · 09/07/2024 14:54

womens popular fiction (aka chick lit) with its swirly font writing, bold colours and montage graphics is a bit nauseating

Horses for courses. It probably signifies to a certain readership that this book is in their wheelhouse, and you probably look for different visual clues.The bright colours seem superficial, and maybe that's a clue as to what lies inside the cover.

No different to the bright red military font machine gun and cross hairs imagery for 'Andy I'm Dead Hard McNab' books titled Executive Death Zone or Ultimate Trigger Point or similar..

Grammarnut · 09/07/2024 15:36

Redshoeblueshoe · 09/07/2024 12:56

Tinysox - wouldn't it be hilarious if that was why she was actually sacked. Waterstone's can't say anything. Anyway I'm sure she will have no trouble getting another job

Certainly not in Brighton!

RedToothBrush · 09/07/2024 16:01

Christinapple · 09/07/2024 08:48

Good analogy.

Noone is literally going to pour Cola down the sink just because you said so, and people are capable of deciding what soda to drink for themselves regardless of such statement. If this was all that was said and it was reported Asda would probably give an informal telling at the worst.

@@Rightsraptor, who was Linehan talking about? It's clear the woman who was fired is included in his definition of "worst people in the world". Yes Graham, if you so say [rolls eyes]

https://archive.ph/iu60n

And just look at the state of this thread. Anyone would think this wasn't about helping women at all (this is supposedly a feminism/women's rights forum) and people here are just out to inconvenience anyone who doesn't share gender critical views (including women) then celebrate if anything bad happens to those who aren't gender critical as a result. This place isn't women looking out for women. It's people with gender critical views looking out for people with gender critical views.

OP: Fantsatstic news, Christina Dalcher has sucessfully managed to get this TRA fired from their job

Comment 1: Great news!

Comment 2: Brilliant!

Comment 3: My goodness, that clip..."poor little me" [referring to the fired woman]

Am I reading the same thread?

Ultimately Waterstones have decided this person was in breach of contract and bringing the company into disrepute and potentially harming their sales / business.

Imagine this was about any other subject and the suggestion was that you shut out others and then talked about destroying property?

How is it, we always get this tone policing and how 'women have double standards' when a) that's not a reflection of the thread b) no one gives a shit about the comments regarding vandalism of property and ruining the careers of others in an industry which should be focused on encouraging free speech.

Why is it always women who are wrong and somehow have to be held to higher standards than anyone else??!

The biggest enemy of knowledge sharing is the very concept of shutting down of ideas. It's crucial to publishing and book selling.

Yes maybe they should have been given a warning or talked to. But we also don't know whether this has previously happened before - it could well have done in the past.

Ultimately Waterstones needs to be focused on selling books. Not promoting the political ideas over and above another.

Is it appropriate to take your politics to work and to impose them on others? Employers should really be being neutral and having zero tolerance for those who who don't respect differences of opinion and instead encourage the harassment of another. It's not that hard.

YellowAsteroid · 09/07/2024 16:16

Well, I’m not sure that “women looking out for women” is a complete definition of feminism.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 09/07/2024 16:29

An employee is entitled to her own views about gender - of course.
She should not be sacked for her beliefs.

This one is an influencer on social media - so her attempts to manipulate her audence (with tears for herself and her point of view) shouldn't be all that surprising.

However, breaking her employer's rules - being rude to her employer's client do sound like sacking offences.

I don't really want to celebrate someone's downfall (even if self-inflicted and even if her response is unattractively whiney)

However, I can celebrate Waterstone's protection of an actual author and her work. (She too is entitled to her own opinion and should not be silenced or banned for it.)

Ohyoudodoyou · 09/07/2024 16:37

Look at the way this all escalates... there is now a man on twitter inciting people to go along and smash up Waterstones windows - someone with a history of doing this 'allegedly'... our world has gone mad. Once upon a time an employer would be sacked for something such as this and quite rightly. Now the world and his dog get involved publicly and dickheads start inciting violence against bookshops. Waterstones were some of the only shops unscathed during the riots in London in 2011 Confused

ArabellaScott · 09/07/2024 16:43

Ohyoudodoyou · 09/07/2024 16:37

Look at the way this all escalates... there is now a man on twitter inciting people to go along and smash up Waterstones windows - someone with a history of doing this 'allegedly'... our world has gone mad. Once upon a time an employer would be sacked for something such as this and quite rightly. Now the world and his dog get involved publicly and dickheads start inciting violence against bookshops. Waterstones were some of the only shops unscathed during the riots in London in 2011 Confused

Yes, this is a very disturbed individual.

Waterstones come out as GC and fire TRA for social media post
zibzibara · 09/07/2024 16:44

Weird to see advice on "juice snacks" in the middle of an incitement to criminal damage.

Ohyoudodoyou · 09/07/2024 16:47

zibzibara · 09/07/2024 16:44

Weird to see advice on "juice snacks" in the middle of an incitement to criminal damage.

In a sippy cup with a fucking rainbow unicorn on it.

CrossPurposes · 09/07/2024 16:49

ArabellaScott · 09/07/2024 16:43

Yes, this is a very disturbed individual.

They are mentally arrested children.

Brefugee · 09/07/2024 16:52

Tinysoxxx · 09/07/2024 14:06

Hope you won

The company closed and opened under another name. But the prosecutor managed to eek it out so I could get my legal dues before maternity "leave". It was all a bit horrible tbh.

I see Waterstones have clarified she was fired for her conduct not trans issues.

lcakethereforeIam · 09/07/2024 16:54

Waterstones sound like they're trying to damage control. Fear of the 'be kind' brigade.

alittleprivacy · 09/07/2024 16:56

lcakethereforeIam · 09/07/2024 16:54

Waterstones sound like they're trying to damage control. Fear of the 'be kind' brigade.

I don't think so. They are just stating a fact in the face of lies being spread about them.

lcakethereforeIam · 09/07/2024 16:59

I don't disagree, my post was poorly worded, but I think they're trying to stop false rumours from spreading.

ArabellaScott · 09/07/2024 16:59

Waterstones won't be able to expand on the reasons they sacked an employee, that would be a breach of privacy.

lechiffre55 · 09/07/2024 17:20

Its so sad that for some people violence is the only percieved solution.

Tinysoxxx · 09/07/2024 17:26

https://uk.bookshop.org/shop/TillyLovesBooks

It would appear Tilly has an association with this organisation.

This is what the New Stateman says about the bookshop.org
‘The biggest fear among those I spoke to is that Bookshop.org is not denting Amazon’s sales, but that it is instead attracting customers who usually shop on the high street – whether at a chain such as Waterstones, Blackwells or Foyles, or at an independent.’

So many be this is the reason?

She also gets money for ‘links’ which she talks about in her Instagram because people have been offering her money. Despite saying she is having ‘the worst bout of covid yet’ she went to a chalet in France and walking around outside with no discussion on if she is avoiding people at all. Bizarre how no one mentions it other than ‘poor you’ comments. She is very keen to show the supportive comments from people with big followings. Also, if this is her having a bad bout of covid, I would refer her to several newly disabled people I know who would beg to differ.

Thats just two google clicks that took me five mins to read through. The instagram has more of the same woe. I am not going to google more. It’s too annoying.