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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Times Lead Story - Labour Set To Annihilate Women's Rights

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Arealnumber · 23/06/2024 23:07

Labour to simplify ‘undignified’ gender transition process

www.thetimes.com/article/29648ec1-5b29-4b35-97df-2a443c71d7e0?shareToken=fd3bf0c5a080ae78044dd82770d8e1a7

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SilverElf · 25/06/2024 13:19

Daffodilsugar · 24/06/2024 16:48

Having read all your comments, I can see you are mostly just afraid of men.
I’m very sorry for the things that must have happened to you to make you fear men this way. I hope you all come to terms with it.
I personally feel there are some bad people in the world, some are men and some are women.
I don’t live my life in fear of anyone, and in my 41 years have never come to any harm at the hands of anyone male or female. I’m obviously lucky.
I don’t think this board is the place for me though, so I’ll leave you to it.
I hope that the day that trans people are as accepted as other previously marginalised groups that you are big enough to admit you over reacted and won’t sound like the racist and homophobic grandparents we are all slightly embarrassed by.

So, Daffodil, there is nowhere you wouldn’t walk, especially after dark, you’re not concerned if someone is following you down an otherwise deserted street, you don’t hold your car keys in your hand when returning to a car park alone late at night, you wouldn’t arrange with friends so nobody was travelling home alone after a night out? It’s not great that these things represent most women’s experiences, but I think they do, and it’s a natural female response to male violence. If you don’t understand that, I can only assume you’re male!

SilverElf · 25/06/2024 13:22

Labour are making it very clear where they stand on women’s rights and child safeguarding. I just hope enough MP’s in the new parliament understood the implications and can provide a moderating influence. I’m not hopeful though :-(

ifIwerenotanandroid · 25/06/2024 15:00

LonginesPrime · 25/06/2024 08:47

It's not about the spouse having plenty of time to act - it's about the fact the responsibility is on them to act to end a contract which will be automatically and unilaterally altered in a fundamental way by the transitioning party automatically unless the spouse takes action.

With something as important as a marriage contract, it's not just or acceptable to say "right, your marriage contract is changing and we assume you agree to this change if we don't hear from you by x date". This is a marriage, not a credit card.

The two parties enter into the marriage contract as two distinct legal entities, and transitioning converts one party into a new legal entity with fundamentally different legal features.

This isn't like when a company changes its name and you can easily go on companies house and check its old name to show this company is still on the hook for the same contract - this is more akin to when a company fundamentally charges its nature (e.g. a limited company listing as a plc or other change of majority ownership), which obviously affects the other party to the contract and may well have affected their decision to enter into it in the first place.

A change that alters the fundamental nature of the other party in a business contract, would typically be an automatic breach of the contract in order to protect the other party (and so consent would be required from the other party to enable the contract to continue) because changing the fundamental legal personality of one party necessarily changes the contract, and one party can't change a contract unilaterally.

PPs have cited religious and administrative reasons why the spousal exit clause might be needed, but ultimately it comes down to the fact that a person has a right to consent to marriage and to refuse to marry if they wish. If the person they married doesn't legally exist anymore, they shouldn't be forced into continuing the contract with a different legal entity chosen by the original spouse.

To deem inaction as implying consent for a marriage contract is to force people into a new marriage without their actual consent. Can you imagine if silence implied consent for entry into marriage in the first place? This is no different.

This is an interesting summary of the workings of & need for the spousal exit clause:

https://labourwomensdeclaration.org.uk/the-spousal-consent-clause-in-the-gra-an-important-protection-for-women/

I had no idea of this (my bold):

'The pause provided by the spousal exit route clause and interim GRC award allows the rights of those wishing to exit their marriage to be dealt with properly and fairly. Without it a spouse might not even know about the GRC application and revision to their marriage contract, before a certificate is granted.'

Who would think THAT was a good idea??

Interesting also to note the figures for the use of the spousal exit clause, which are higher than was being claimed here recently.

One might also note the final paragraph & date. Labour not listening to women Part 94...

'In our view, UK Labour’s current commitment for the clause to be removed from the GRA would compromise women’s existing rights, and we urge you to reconsider.
Labour Women’s Declaration, 3 March 2023. '

The spousal exit clause in the GRA - an important protection for women - Labour Women's Declaration

UK Labour has indicated that it wishes to remove the spousal exit route clause from the Gender Recognition Act (GRA). It claims that the clause gives the right for a spouse to block a partner from being awarded a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC). T...

https://labourwomensdeclaration.org.uk/the-spousal-consent-clause-in-the-gra-an-important-protection-for-women

SilverElf · 25/06/2024 15:54

Thankyou for this, I really hope there is at least one journalist reading this who will ask some informed questions about the spousal exit clause

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 16:33

TinselAngel · 24/06/2024 19:17

I'm basing it on
A- your not giving a fuck attitude
and
B- you saying on a thread recently that you no longer supported trans widows because I don't think women should be shunned for attending legal marches

If you do give a fuck, maybe show it by listening to women who know more than you instead of blithely assuming you and Kier know best.

No tinsel. I said I'd think twice about referring women because of your support for KJK. That's quite a different thing. That's my opinion, that I'm entitled to hold.
I also said I was upset by at because I'd got helpful support in the past.

Don't twist my words to suit your agenda.

Iwishihadariver · 25/06/2024 16:34

EvangelistaSister · 25/06/2024 08:41

Just checked out my independent candidates and one of them sounds great. It is a wasted vote but better than not voting or voting for Labour.

It's a wasted vote in as much as they are unlikely to be elected to Parliament, however the message we are sending in possibly putting lots of independent candidates in 3rd place behind the big parties (e.g.) will be worth it.

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 16:35

PickledMumion · 24/06/2024 20:33

There's no such thing as "living as a woman" anyway, so removing that condition is meaningless.

How often do doctors refuse to give a medical report, or give a report that doesn't support the transition? I imagine it's vanishingly rare, so it seems like this is another non-change.

I hate the whole premise of the current Act, and the ridiculous nonsense around "legal sex", so I would definitely like to see it changed in a significant way. But I'm not convinced the potential changes mentioned here would make it much worse?

Quite

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 16:41

EdenPalmersTerfAuntie · 25/06/2024 06:09

You admitted that you don't care about trans widows.
"And the "annulment" - well I would be more sympathetic about it if people weren't such total arses to me on here."
I was married to a man who used to say he wouldn't be violent if I behaved myself. You sound just like him.

And I used to be married to a sexually coercive, fetishistic entitled arsehole who I had to divorce in the normal acrimonious way (and continue to co parent with).
Makes no odds though, people can be as rude as they like because I have no "lived experience" 🙄

motheronthedancefloor · 25/06/2024 16:43

Karmer keeps talking about 'respect' but he doesn't respect my sex.

He's been sitting on the fence for so long he must have a zillion splinters in his arse.

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 16:48

LonginesPrime · 25/06/2024 08:47

It's not about the spouse having plenty of time to act - it's about the fact the responsibility is on them to act to end a contract which will be automatically and unilaterally altered in a fundamental way by the transitioning party automatically unless the spouse takes action.

With something as important as a marriage contract, it's not just or acceptable to say "right, your marriage contract is changing and we assume you agree to this change if we don't hear from you by x date". This is a marriage, not a credit card.

The two parties enter into the marriage contract as two distinct legal entities, and transitioning converts one party into a new legal entity with fundamentally different legal features.

This isn't like when a company changes its name and you can easily go on companies house and check its old name to show this company is still on the hook for the same contract - this is more akin to when a company fundamentally charges its nature (e.g. a limited company listing as a plc or other change of majority ownership), which obviously affects the other party to the contract and may well have affected their decision to enter into it in the first place.

A change that alters the fundamental nature of the other party in a business contract, would typically be an automatic breach of the contract in order to protect the other party (and so consent would be required from the other party to enable the contract to continue) because changing the fundamental legal personality of one party necessarily changes the contract, and one party can't change a contract unilaterally.

PPs have cited religious and administrative reasons why the spousal exit clause might be needed, but ultimately it comes down to the fact that a person has a right to consent to marriage and to refuse to marry if they wish. If the person they married doesn't legally exist anymore, they shouldn't be forced into continuing the contract with a different legal entity chosen by the original spouse.

To deem inaction as implying consent for a marriage contract is to force people into a new marriage without their actual consent. Can you imagine if silence implied consent for entry into marriage in the first place? This is no different.

If you found your husband was a habitual user of prostitutes and had been since you were married, you'd have to divorce. To me that's a similar level of "lack of consent".

I have every sympathy with women not wanting to be in a legally same aex marriage. I'm less sympathetic about the "altered marriage" piece - lots of women have been there. It's shit, but to me there's nothing about transition that's different to all the other ways some men lie, cheat and disguise parts of themselves in a marriage. 2 years is long enough to get out of it.

The truth is we have no idea what Labour are proposing regarding telling the spouse when a GRC is applied for, or if annulment will be an option. I trust them a lot less after the last few days. But this is the sort of detail to bring up in the consultation.

LonginesPrime · 25/06/2024 17:00

But CassieMaddox a man using prostitutes or turning out to be an arsehole doesn't alter his legal personality under the law - he is still the same legal entity even if he's completely changed his behaviour.

This is about entering into a contract with one legal entity and that legal entity ceasing to exist and another fundamentally different legal entity being substituted as a party to the contract, and the other party still being bound by the original contract.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 25/06/2024 17:08

@CassieMaddox

Well, maybe wives should be able to get a religiously recognised annulment if their husband turns out to be a prostitute-using wife-beater: why don't you argue for that? Instead of arguing for the removal of rights which trans widows obviously find useful. Whose side are you on? Apparently not women, particularly women with the misfortune to be abused simultaneously by their husbands and by one of our lovely woman-hating world religions.

SilverElf · 25/06/2024 17:16

Hang on, Cassie (AdamRyan), who has spent weeks telling us all that we should unequivocally support Labour, is now expressing a level of distrust? Cassie you’ve been here too long, you’ll go native and become a far-right bigot!

AlisonDonut · 25/06/2024 17:18

CassieMaddox · 25/06/2024 16:33

No tinsel. I said I'd think twice about referring women because of your support for KJK. That's quite a different thing. That's my opinion, that I'm entitled to hold.
I also said I was upset by at because I'd got helpful support in the past.

Don't twist my words to suit your agenda.

Don't twist my words to suit your agenda.

Oh lordy.

Kucinghitam · 25/06/2024 17:18

AlisonDonut · 25/06/2024 17:18

Don't twist my words to suit your agenda.

Oh lordy.

It's an irregular verb.

borntobequiet · 25/06/2024 18:21

It's shit, but to me there's nothing about transition that's different to all the other ways some men lie, cheat and disguise parts of themselves in a marriage.

Except that it’s been explained over and over again that, with a GRC, the transitioner becomes a different person in law, and the actual marriage contract is changed.

Lying, cheating and other such unacceptable and abusive behaviours don’t do that.

UtopiaPlanitia · 25/06/2024 18:25

I posted this on the Bridget Phillipson thread and I’m posting it here cos I think it’s relevant to this discussion too:

A tweet from STILLTish:

This case is a man who was thrice married, had 7 kids, spent time in Jail for obtaining explosives with intent to endanger life. A single judge granted him a gender recognition certificate.'

https://gendercriticalwoman.blog/2019/10/10/gender-recognition-certificates/

Gender Recognition Certificates

As activists in the trans community work to remove the “onerous” burdens placed on the community to legally “transition” I became curious about  the legal cases in this area.  Far from ex…

https://gendercriticalwoman.blog/2019/10/10/gender-recognition-certificates

UpThePankhurst · 25/06/2024 19:55

Anyone supporting the legal right of a man to coercively prevent his wife having the option of leaving the marriage when he unilaterally changes the entire terms of the contract she consented to, and is effectively no longer being the person she married to the point of being called 'dead named'? When his wife wishing to end the marriage at this point has no real effect on him at all, but a massive one on her and her ability to escape him and a situation she no longer consents to?

Either has no real idea of what they're talking about and hasn't understood it, or is an extreme misogynist.

This is embedding male supremacism in law. That men have rights to overturn women's rights and consent in some circumstances. That men matter in ways women don't, and have superior rights to women and power over women.

Fgs think of the marital rape clause. Seriously. How short a step is it to go from 'I don't agree you should have a right or means to leave this relationship with me while I do this to you because it conflicts with my wishes and needs' to 'I don't agree you should have a right or means to deny your body to me because it conflicts with my wishes and needs'?

GailBlancheViola · 25/06/2024 20:18

Excellent post UpThePankhurst. Male supremacism it is, there is only one reason TRAs want this clause removed and that is so they can exert power and control over their wives and Labour are more than happy to enable them to do just that.

GailBlancheViola · 25/06/2024 20:21

Labour good for women and women's rights? Ah but not those women, or those ones and definitely not those ones but maybe those ones over there, yay!

Anyone who thinks Labour give a flying fuck about women and women's rights is utterly deluded.

DrBlackbird · 25/06/2024 20:25

TeamKenwood · 24/06/2024 06:58

More bad news for women’s rights as, according to the Guardian, Labour plan to create more peers. So the help we’ve had from the Lords is under threat too.

That doesn’t make sense. Why pack it out with more people you’re then going to boot out? None of this policy augurs well.

UpThePankhurst · 25/06/2024 20:40

Control the Lords by stacking the house with yesmen and there's no danger of sanity or normality interfering with you and what you wish to inflict on the British public. If we've learned anything in the past ten years, particularly watching the SNP put their underpants on their heads and go 'wibble', it's that an independent secondary house is essential. And it needs to be anyone but politicians.

The reason the British public is so fucked off and walking around in circles going 'I don't know who to vote for because I don't want any of them' is the bloody awful calibre of politicians and their despising of democracy, anyone who isn't 'one of them' with the right ivory tower views, and their despising of voters.

The HoL is the layer of protection Labour will want rid of.

Clabony · 25/06/2024 21:20

Labour don't want a HofL
Their policy was/is to have a second elected chamber, although this won't be done in the first term of a Labour Government.
I think they intend to set a retirement age of 80.

TempestTost · 25/06/2024 21:35

Clabony · 25/06/2024 21:20

Labour don't want a HofL
Their policy was/is to have a second elected chamber, although this won't be done in the first term of a Labour Government.
I think they intend to set a retirement age of 80.

Honestly if I ever thought they would seriously accomplish that I would never consider voting for them, even if I really liked my local candidate.

Clabony · 25/06/2024 22:14

I think you'll find it here @TempestTost. I may have been mistaken about elected though, perhaps I'm stuck in the Blair years?
https://labour.org.uk/change/serving-the-country/
Scroll down the page until you reach Constitutional Reform.

Although Labour recognises the good work of many peers who scrutinise the government and improve the quality of legislation passed in Parliament, reform is long over-due and essential. Too many peers do not play a proper role in our democracy. Hereditary peers remain indefensible. And because appointments are for life, the second chamber of Parliament has become too big.
The next Labour government will therefore bring about an immediate modernisation, by introducing legislation to remove the right of hereditary peers to sit and vote in the House of Lords. Labour will also introduce a mandatory retirement age. At the end of the Parliament in which a member reaches 80 years of age, they will be required to retire from the House of Lords

Labour is committed to replacing the House of Lords with an alternative second chamber that is more representative of the regions and nations. Labour will consult on proposals, seeking the input of the British public on how politics can best serve them.

Serving the country – The Labour Party

Serving the country How Labour will serve Britain: Skip to: Over the last 14 years, trust in politics has been shattered. Partying in Downing Street whilst the whole country sacrificed their freedom. Handing lucrative Covid contracts to friends and don...

https://labour.org.uk/change/serving-the-country