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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Times Lead Story - Labour Set To Annihilate Women's Rights

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Arealnumber · 23/06/2024 23:07

Labour to simplify ‘undignified’ gender transition process

www.thetimes.com/article/29648ec1-5b29-4b35-97df-2a443c71d7e0?shareToken=fd3bf0c5a080ae78044dd82770d8e1a7

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lcakethereforeIam · 24/06/2024 20:04

@TinselAngel This two years to plan a coming out party of reflection, do you know if there will be any requirement to let the spouse know that the process has begun and to get the hell out of dodge, or can they be kept completely out of the loop?

TinselAngel · 24/06/2024 20:08

lcakethereforeIam · 24/06/2024 20:04

@TinselAngel This two years to plan a coming out party of reflection, do you know if there will be any requirement to let the spouse know that the process has begun and to get the hell out of dodge, or can they be kept completely out of the loop?

We don't know, they haven't said so we can only assume not.

duc748 · 24/06/2024 20:08

Yes, I wondered about that. I think I asked the question, maybe on another thread.

MaidOfAle · 24/06/2024 20:22

CassieMaddox · 24/06/2024 19:06

Is there a need to speak to me like that? Random.

I (as usual) can't really see the difference between the Labour and Conservative position on this, except Labour are getting rid of the total farce of "living as a woman".

2 years is long enough to end a marriage.
And the "annulment" - well I would be more sympathetic about it if people weren't such total arses to me on here. But as it is, lots of us have found our husbands weren't who we thought they were. Lots of us have been lied to, cheated on and abused emotionally and sexually. Lots of us feel the man we married lied throughout. Lots of us have then had a shitty divorce. So why is the "trans" scenario different? I don't think it is. It is if someone can change legal status while married. But not if there is a 2 year pause during which time you can get divorced/annulled.

None of the things you name are comparable to having your marriage unilateral changed from opposite-sex to same-sex or vice-versa.

But not if there is a 2 year pause during which time you can get divorced/annulled.

Where, in Labour's proposal, have they mentioned that the non-transitioning spouse will be automatically notified of the application for a GRC? Because you can't file for divorce ahead of the GRC being finalised unless you know it's been applied for in the first place.

It's also really bad law to put women (and let's be honest, we are talking trans widows not widowers) in a position where they are racing against time to end a marriage before the GRC process finishes. Even automatic notification giving her an 18 month head start doesn't guarantee that the "D"H won't drag things out as much as possible.

IwantToRetire · 24/06/2024 20:26

I shouldn't allow myself to be goaded.

But unfortunately, and I suspect why it keeps happening, it is only too likely that if someone is denying your lived reality you respond.

Its a very strange mind set to have - but one as women we experience all too often from men.

Just dont expect it on FWR.

MaidOfAle · 24/06/2024 20:26

MistyGreenAndBlue · 24/06/2024 19:22

Its worth pointing out here I think, that Labour have said they have no intention of pulling back on the recent policies put forth by the Tories to make these processes even harder for the disabled. And have even suggested that these policies "don't go far enough"
Their compassion for the poor and marginalised apparently stops with trans people and doesn't extend to anyone in actual distress.

Utter bastards!

So basically, as a disabled person and a woman, I'm best voting Tory?

The Labour Party have really lost their way.

OvaHere · 24/06/2024 20:29

TinselAngel · 24/06/2024 20:08

We don't know, they haven't said so we can only assume not.

I'm not sure we even know if the cooling off period is prior to a GRC being issued do we? A bit like trading regulations where you have 28 days to return something you bought.

I can't find the article now on the Times page. Did it actually say the 2 years comes before a certificate is issued?

Edit - mixed up tenses.

Grammarnut · 24/06/2024 20:30

MalagaNights · 24/06/2024 17:31

No need to be so bloody unecessarily rude.
I'm a regular on here so as 'random' as you.

I was merely pointing out the position of religious women.

A legal annulment would hold the same weight as a legal divorce within their community: Legally binding but not necessarily religiously recognised.

The idea that a legal process would solve their religious problem seems entirely naive tbh.

'All your lawyers' are telling you about the legal position not the position of all the differing religions.

The main drive is that Catholics will accept an annulment of a marriage. What other religions do is up to them. Some accept divorce and remarriage.

PickledMumion · 24/06/2024 20:33

There's no such thing as "living as a woman" anyway, so removing that condition is meaningless.

How often do doctors refuse to give a medical report, or give a report that doesn't support the transition? I imagine it's vanishingly rare, so it seems like this is another non-change.

I hate the whole premise of the current Act, and the ridiculous nonsense around "legal sex", so I would definitely like to see it changed in a significant way. But I'm not convinced the potential changes mentioned here would make it much worse?

GailBlancheViola · 24/06/2024 20:36

There's no such thing as "living as a woman" anyway, so removing that condition is meaningless.

You are correct it is sexist, misogynistic nonsense which is why the whole thing should be ripped up.

MaidOfAle · 24/06/2024 20:42

PickledMumion · 24/06/2024 20:33

There's no such thing as "living as a woman" anyway, so removing that condition is meaningless.

How often do doctors refuse to give a medical report, or give a report that doesn't support the transition? I imagine it's vanishingly rare, so it seems like this is another non-change.

I hate the whole premise of the current Act, and the ridiculous nonsense around "legal sex", so I would definitely like to see it changed in a significant way. But I'm not convinced the potential changes mentioned here would make it much worse?

The whole premise of GRA2004 was to pretend not to legalise same-sex marriage whilst in fact legalising it for people who are willing to jump through certain hoops, in response to a ECtHR ruling.

We now have same-sex marriage so I'm really not sure what GRA does apart from cause problems for women.

UtopiaPlanitia · 24/06/2024 20:50

lcakethereforeIam · 24/06/2024 20:04

@TinselAngel This two years to plan a coming out party of reflection, do you know if there will be any requirement to let the spouse know that the process has begun and to get the hell out of dodge, or can they be kept completely out of the loop?

The 2-year cooling off period doesn't make sense to me either. If they are worried that people might make a mistake in wanting to change their 'legal sex' perhaps amending the GRA to allow people to reverse their GRC at any time should be added instead. The cooling off period is purely there to make it sound like they've built in some sort of safety measure but it doesn't hold up to logical scrutiny or hold much power in the way of stopping someone from changing every other legal document to the new name + gender.

It's pointless tinkering around the edges, which is very much in keeping with Labour's aims and manifesto i.e. we're not the Tories, we're not going to make any changes to Tory spending and welfare targets, we aren't going to make any changes re Brexit, but somehow we'll make things better. We're offering a nice red-coloured velvet glove to go over the iron fist.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 24/06/2024 21:12

https://whittlings.blogspot.com/2014/04/every-person-has-rights.html

Even the annoying Stephen Whittle thinks it's an important right for a wife to be able to dissolve her marriage however she thinks fit before it changes its essential nature.

What's been announced (leaked?) is very vague, and I suspect that no-one has really worked through the implications. But at best it looks like the imposition of a two year timetable on the dissolution of the marriage, shifting the balance of power away from the non-transitioning spouse.

EVERY PERSON HAS RIGHTS.

Transgender, transsexual, gender identity, human rights, the Law and other concerns

https://whittlings.blogspot.com/2014/04/every-person-has-rights.html

TinselAngel · 24/06/2024 21:19

Please let's not make Whittle an authority on this.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 24/06/2024 21:36

MaidOfAle · 24/06/2024 20:26

So basically, as a disabled person and a woman, I'm best voting Tory?

The Labour Party have really lost their way.

Exactly. I am also disabled and am seriously considering voting Tory- not because I expect or want them to win, - they won't - but to try to ensure that the new Labour government has a decent sized opposition to contend with.

A landslide victory at this point would be disastrous for women and children.

So far, based on Labour's own manifesto and general rhetoric, the ONLY real difference between them and the Tories is the "Trans issue" as they would have it.
Pathetic!

Bigfatsquirrel · 24/06/2024 21:42

I asked my Labour candidate on the doorstep "What is a Woman". He danced on the head of a pin. The splinter up his arse from sitting on the fence trying to work out how to answer the question left me feeling Labour most certainly cannot be trusted on women's rights and safe spaces. No vote from me.

RoseAndGeranium · 24/06/2024 21:50

CassieMaddox · 24/06/2024 19:13

I don't Confused I'm purely saying if there is a two year window to dissolve the marriage (however that happens) that seems long enough so I would think a specific exit clause is unnecessary.

Again, it looks like catastrophising about Labour and seeing the absolute worse in a way I don't fully understand. I think they've proposed quite a good compromise. A long period of time to put off chancers and allow marriages to be sorted. No fiddling around "living as a woman" which is an impossible and pointless criterion.

If ‘living as a woman’ is a nonsense phrase and impossible to define, as you keep insisting, how can any male born person be said to be trans? Isn’t being a trans woman just…living as a woman?
On your other points, other posters have patiently explained the significance of these changes to you, particularly as regards the marital exit clause. You’re not listening.

EdenPalmersTerfAuntie · 24/06/2024 22:00

Daffodilsugar · 24/06/2024 16:48

Having read all your comments, I can see you are mostly just afraid of men.
I’m very sorry for the things that must have happened to you to make you fear men this way. I hope you all come to terms with it.
I personally feel there are some bad people in the world, some are men and some are women.
I don’t live my life in fear of anyone, and in my 41 years have never come to any harm at the hands of anyone male or female. I’m obviously lucky.
I don’t think this board is the place for me though, so I’ll leave you to it.
I hope that the day that trans people are as accepted as other previously marginalised groups that you are big enough to admit you over reacted and won’t sound like the racist and homophobic grandparents we are all slightly embarrassed by.

Piss off with your sanctimonious ageist bullshit

GailBlancheViola · 24/06/2024 22:12

Piss off with your sanctimonious ageist bullshit

Say what you really feel EdenPalmersTerfAuntieGrin

TinselAngel · 24/06/2024 22:14

Piss off with your sanctimonious ageist bullshit

Up with this sort of thing!

Clabony · 24/06/2024 22:16

The racist and homophobic grandparents we are all slightly embarrassed by comment is extraordinarily reminiscent of the racist uncle attempted smear of Jo Phoenix by her OU colleague.

Pathetic really.

GailBlancheViola · 24/06/2024 22:17

Clabony · 24/06/2024 22:16

The racist and homophobic grandparents we are all slightly embarrassed by comment is extraordinarily reminiscent of the racist uncle attempted smear of Jo Phoenix by her OU colleague.

Pathetic really.

And didn't that turn out well for the OU.

TempestTost · 24/06/2024 22:32

Clabony · 24/06/2024 17:48

A Catholic married by a priest also has to have the local registrar in attendance who signs the legal marriage certificate signed by witnesses. To comply with the law. So far as I am aware. (I'm in England.)

An annulment of the marriage by Rome does not annul the legal marriage as signed by the registrar so far as I am aware. That is a separate process under English law surely?

Yes.

For a Catholic looking to leave a marriage there are two separate process.

They can apply to have the marriage annulled within the Catholic Church. This is a well established institutional process and it's not that uncommon. Each region will have it's own tribunal that handles this stuff. Lots are granted annulment but also lots aren't.

Legally, the person generally has two choices, at least in countries where divorce is legal - apply for annulment if it's applicable, or divorce.

So you typically get three final possibilities that are ok by the Catholic Church: a) one you get a church annulment, and a legal annulment. Probably the least common, there are actually more grounds for church than legal annulment. b) church annulment, legal divorce. This is probably the most common scenario. People who do this are free to marry in the Catholic Church again. Or c) Church does not grant an annulment, but there is a legal divorce, so while they are legally no longer entangled the person is not able to remarry in the Church. This isn't necessarily considered a lesser outcome from a religious POV, it's recognized that even if the marriage is valid from a religious POV, it may be necessary to protect the other spouse or children from being linked legally, for example, to a drug addict.

JanesLittleGirl · 24/06/2024 22:36

CassieMaddox · 24/06/2024 19:06

Is there a need to speak to me like that? Random.

I (as usual) can't really see the difference between the Labour and Conservative position on this, except Labour are getting rid of the total farce of "living as a woman".

2 years is long enough to end a marriage.
And the "annulment" - well I would be more sympathetic about it if people weren't such total arses to me on here. But as it is, lots of us have found our husbands weren't who we thought they were. Lots of us have been lied to, cheated on and abused emotionally and sexually. Lots of us feel the man we married lied throughout. Lots of us have then had a shitty divorce. So why is the "trans" scenario different? I don't think it is. It is if someone can change legal status while married. But not if there is a 2 year pause during which time you can get divorced/annulled.

And the award for handwaver of the year goes to......

CassieMaddox