The Tories have had massive 180 seat majorities and have done fuck all to protect women. Oh wait, they U- turned on their own proposal to bring in self ID to the UK at the last minute, but not because they cared on principle about women either way. Just because they could see it was an unpopular policy for them. Then they brought in the £5 GRC. What would have happened if the instability of Brexit hadn’t brought down the May government though and allowed new brooms in with a laser focus on popular policies? The UK could easily have had self ID if events or timing had been even slightly different.
And OK, it could have been a lot worse for women had they not U-turned. But I don’t want to spend my life saying ‘well come on now women, let’s all just think ourselves lucky that worse hasn’t happened to us’ . Because however modern we might consider ourselves, as women, we have never started from a place of equality with men. Ever. I don’t want to have to be grateful just for mercy from the government. We’re 51% of the population FFS. I want new legal protections for women. I don’t see these coming from any government any time soon.
I just don’t think salvation for women is coming from any political party, so I am not going to be voting in a general election on this single issue of sex and gender. Those of us who have been in these boards a long time will know that the only victories and protections women and girls have got so far- despite 14 years of Tory rule- have been through the crowdfunded cases in tribunals and courts that we have chipped in for. Maya for beliefs, Keira for children and consent, and the many others still ongoing.
Other political parties are watching this and have seen how contentious the self ID issue is. In a time of economic cost of living and climate crisis and international volatility, I find it hard to see how in government any of them would justify spending parliamentary time on trying to revive self ID.
But as always, together as women from all political stripes will have to challenge it, if they do. Just as we did with self ID before. There are incontrovertible facts, and culturally powerful backers, on the side of the sex realists. And public opinion is with us too. So personally I feel much more confident about being able to win that fight again, than I do about being able to win the fight against savage Tory cuts to the what’s left of the welfare state, the NHS and education.
However, sadly, I don’t think public opinion or powerful individuals are as it is now, effectively challenging the Tories on their consistent record of increasing child poverty or of letting disabled people suffer for lack of money or letting people starve to death unless the local community have supported their local food bank. I could go on, they are not being opposed effectively on not providing enough resources sources to educate SEN kids properly, or allowing water companies to pipe our rivers and seas full of shit despite media coverage, scandals and public outcry, the loss of biodiversity in the UK is among the worst in the developed world.
So no, I’m not voting Tory because they’ve already fucked up the country, increased child poverty, are corrupt as fuck and are continuing to on principle starve to death the public services on which many women rely.
I don’t wish to reward long term life-blighting governmental failure.
I will need to be able to feed, house, and to look after my family to give me any chance of fighting for women’s rights in future. I feel that based on the Tories’ record and aspirations, that that ability is going to be very threatened by an incoming Tory government. so I can’t in conscience vote for that. I’ll vote strategically for whoever is most likely to get the Tories out and will just have to work it out from there.
This isn’t a stable time in history when I expect to be able to vote for anyone without mixed feelings unfortunately, that is a luxury that’s way out of reach to a lot of people at the moment. And as JKR has said in the excellent Witch Trials podcast, if you have a very strong feeling that you’re really right about something, then that can be a flag that your very strong view is worth reexamining just to see if it really stacks up.