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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sound bites for woke chum

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genandtonic · 19/05/2024 22:46

Are there any succinct, calm articles that can explain to my woke friends just why the trans movement wants to break up families, medicalise healthy teens and eradicate women’s words and spaces?
one thinks I’m transphobic - well yes, if that means I don’t want my daughter to medicalise.
one insists most trans people want to live life quietly, and JK shouldn’t be so mean To them.
and all think I’m overreacting as my daughter has gone no contact. ‘She’d have left home anyway, she’s 18’
I get so confused trying to explain it all and I start ranting. Is there anything I can just hand over?
I must have read stuff, but tbh, I’ve read so much, it’s all getting a bit muddled as to what I read and where. thank you!

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YourPithyLilacSheep · 23/05/2024 15:44

Thelnebriati · 19/05/2024 22:48

Instead of trying to explain why the trans movement is wrong, focus on why women's rights still matter.

Women exist, we have rights, and we are still using them. They exist for reasons of safeguarding, biology and privacy. We don't consent to giving those rights to anyone who wants to claim them, and no one else can consent on our behalf.

This is really good advice.

After being hauled up to HR about 'transphobia' I now focus any of my opposition against extremist gender ideology through my thoughts on women & girls' rights, and the protected characteristic of 'sex' in the Equality Act.

I am very very careful not to say anything critical (or as little as possible) and trans-identified people, and at work, if pushed will say "Of course, trans-identified people should not be harassed or attacked.' And then turn the topic to women's rights ...

If you wanted to get really serious, one strategy I use is that extremist gender ideology seems to want to change the definition of 'woman.' And I then trot out the phrase (from Women's Place UK, I think): "nothing about us, without us" and say that we need to have a civil conversation about what seem like clashes of equally legal rights.

Oh, and I'm sorry to hear about your DD's no contact. That must be really tough. I hope she comes back to you - although a psychologist friend of mine tells me that young adults go through a sort of second adolescence between 18 and 21, so she could just be acting out. We none of us really mature till our mid-twenties, I think!

YourPithyLilacSheep · 23/05/2024 15:51

BlackForestCake · 22/05/2024 22:18

I'm a Marxist. Transgenderism is nothing to do with Marxism.

Marxism is based on materialism, which definitely does not include pretending that men are women.

Yeah, I think the RedFem podcast women might have something to say about this. Can't think of a specific podcast episode, but they're worth a listen. Marxists, feminists, lesbians - they're good value!

GrumpyPanda · 23/05/2024 15:59

AppleStrudel23 · 22/05/2024 12:35

I think a good place to look into is its roots, which is cultural Marxism. It all links back to that and how they want to destruction of the nuclear family and women in the "factories" not at home with the babies. I believe the Frankfurt School started all that which goes back to Marxism. All those intellectuals understood each other as Marxists. Also this whole whole nonsense of one group is the oppressor and the other a victim so one is good one is bad get rid of the bad and cater to the victim is also under that umbrella. It started with the workers and the factories and now it's everywhere and it's been translated in culture that's why it's cultural Marxism.

It's crazy ones you look into it and connecting all the dots! Also free masonry pushed that too and they're still doing in institutions and other places etc.

And don't forget to consider the role of chemtrails in all of this.

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AppleStrudel23 · 23/05/2024 20:01

@GrumpyPanda

Disprove that the cultural interpretation of Marxism doesn't have an impact on our culture if it's so clear. It's not wild, the definition of culture is "the ideas, customs, and social behaviour of a particular people or society" so of course behaviours and actions can be linked back to intellectual groups like the Frankfurt School.

Thelnebriati · 24/05/2024 00:23

Transgenderism is not based in Marxism. Its a neoliberal belief in the absolute rights of the individual over the welfare of the class as a whole.

AppleStrudel23 · 24/05/2024 07:13

Thelnebriati · 24/05/2024 00:23

Transgenderism is not based in Marxism. Its a neoliberal belief in the absolute rights of the individual over the welfare of the class as a whole.

That is questionable as transgenderism questions the core duality of human nature and family as a social unit. It tries to dismantle deep social structures which are foundational of our human identity. That has not a lot to do with neoliberal ideas of personal freedom as every liberal philosopher of the past and present recognises the border within freedom. It is however the critical theory that tries to structures of exclusion and domination which explains the gender struggles within transgenderism. Transgenderism I believe is a symptom of the critical theory which is a school of thought practiced by the Frankfurt school and they were all Marxists. Horkheimer described the theory as "to liberate human beings from the circumstances that enslave them".

Can you think of any liberal philosopher who can be seen as a for father of transgenderism as clearly as the Frankfurt school and what it created or was created from it afterwards?

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 11:19

That is questionable as transgenderism questions the core duality of human nature and family as a social unit.

Hmmm, don't think that's quite right. According to various philosophers on this subject (Kathleen Stock, Moira Gatens, Liz Grosz, for a start) the belief that you are a "woman in a man's body" is an EXTREME version of the mind-body split. Gender extremist ideology assumes that the mind/consciousness can be completely detached from the material reality of the body.

We are both mind and body, no matter what Rene Descartes argued.

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 11:25

Can you think of any liberal philosopher who can be seen as a for father of transgenderism as clearly as the Frankfurt school and what it created or was created from it afterwards?

Descartes. Obviously

SinnerBoy · 24/05/2024 14:29

AppleStrudel23 · Yesterday 14:46

You're making this about Jews, not me!

I'm not, it's an anti-Semitic term. Are the Jewish Chronicle and the Jerusalem Post not satisfactory sources for you?

AppleStrudel23 · 24/05/2024 17:21

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 11:25

Can you think of any liberal philosopher who can be seen as a for father of transgenderism as clearly as the Frankfurt school and what it created or was created from it afterwards?

Descartes. Obviously

Descartes? How so?

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 17:25

See my post above about the mind-body problem in Western philosophy.

AppleStrudel23 · 24/05/2024 17:26

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 11:19

That is questionable as transgenderism questions the core duality of human nature and family as a social unit.

Hmmm, don't think that's quite right. According to various philosophers on this subject (Kathleen Stock, Moira Gatens, Liz Grosz, for a start) the belief that you are a "woman in a man's body" is an EXTREME version of the mind-body split. Gender extremist ideology assumes that the mind/consciousness can be completely detached from the material reality of the body.

We are both mind and body, no matter what Rene Descartes argued.

Yes. But the cogito is not attached to any physical sexuality. There is no male and female mind according to Descartes for example. There may be philosophers who claim that but the intellectual sources they use are grounded in the Frankfurt school which again was my point.

After all it doesn't matter because the material manifestation of these philosophical thoughts lead towards the weakening of nuclear family units and brought on the sexual revolution which can be found again in the thoughts of the Frankfurt school. Thus proving my point again

AppleStrudel23 · 24/05/2024 17:28

SinnerBoy · 24/05/2024 14:29

AppleStrudel23 · Yesterday 14:46

You're making this about Jews, not me!

I'm not, it's an anti-Semitic term. Are the Jewish Chronicle and the Jerusalem Post not satisfactory sources for you?

You didn't answer my question. What should we call Cultural Marxism then? Because it is real and we can see it linked right back to the Frankfurt school. I personally don't care what's it called, so please tell me what I can call it instead so we don't have to argue about vocabulary and actually discuss the issue at hand.

YourPithyLilacSheep · 24/05/2024 17:29

Broad social movements cannot be explained by one single cause, and particularly not by an intellectual grouping such as the Frankfurt School. It's bad historiography.

SinnerBoy · 24/05/2024 17:33

AppleStrudel23

OK, if you want to be obtuse, let's not continue this and derail the thread.

AppleStrudel23 · 24/05/2024 17:38

SinnerBoy · 24/05/2024 17:33

AppleStrudel23

OK, if you want to be obtuse, let's not continue this and derail the thread.

It should be an easy answer. What's it called then we can carry on talking without detailing the thread?

What should I call cultural Marxism instead?

GardenGnomeDefender · 24/05/2024 17:56

If you want to know who is influencing this, other than activists believing themselves to be right and being sanctimonious, then it's worth considering all the bot users on social media, echoing sentiments that increase division in society.

These absolutely exist and are generally pushing narratives that sow discontent, stir up social division and their aim is generally to weaken cultures with free elections because these threaten more authoritarian regimes. The biggest weakness of free societies is how much division there is. The people running this bots aren't pro or anti trans, they are just trying to enhance the voices in society that cause the biggest rifts.

Chaos is a ladder.

genandtonic · 25/05/2024 11:05

Please don’t worry about derailing the thread, this is interesting. Though I will have to do a lot of swatting up!
My (naive) concern is that whoever started this for whatever reason. ( and I believe it was some trans billionaires with an interest in eugenics/ pharma - I did have names and looked them up at one stage)other people have jumped on for all sorts of reasons.
I think they are pushing the goalposts soooo far that even if we push back, the goal posts will still have moved a considerable way.
so my question is what is the next stage? What are they aiming for after this?
it could just be,‘let’s see how far we can go’ and I’m sure for some groups it is, but the whole thing feels so orchestrated, and very very cleverly so. Presumably there will be some sort of vacuum in all the confusion and then some one, some regime, some ting can step in.

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SinnerBoy · 25/05/2024 16:56

*AppleStrudel23 · Yesterday 17:38

What should I call c m instead?

I think it's best that you come up with something which is not anti-Semitic. I neither know, not care. Please stop asking me, I've demonstrated quite clearly that it IS an aS term.

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