I don't think it is just about ideological capture though. If anything I think women are more likely to be ideologically captured than men are, because of the way we've been socialised since birth to put others before ourselves, which makes many of us more susceptible to the "most vulnerable" and "be kind" rhetoric.
A know a lot of men who will tell it to me straight that they know the gender stuff is all a load of bollocks, even some who are pretty outspoken about it in public, but are still telling me it shouldn't be a voting priority for me. Like, yes it's nonsense and I disagree with it all, but other things are more important. What women want and need is not as important as fixing the economy, getting the Tories out, etc.
My brother is one of these. He is well and truly peaked. It started with sports, and now prisons is the thing he is most outraged about. But he's still telling me I should vote Lib Dem because getting the Tories out is the most important priority right now. He even said that since I no longer live in the UK I don't understand how bad it is. But I think that since he's not a woman he doesn't really understand how serious this is for us. Like, he understands on an intellectual level, but not at a visceral level. And this is of course an issue which affects not just women and girls living in the UK, like my mum, not just women and girls like me and my daughter who are British citizens even if we don't currently live in the UK, but women and girls everywhere.
The US has gone insane. Canada has gone insane. Australia has gone insane. New Zealand has gone insane. Ireland has gone insane. Parts of Europe are starting to say, "Hang on a minute..."
The UK might just be what really helps to turn things around, if not globally then at least in Europe. It would be incredibly helpful to have a major, high profile country like the UK saying, "Yes trans people should have equal rights to everyone else and be treated with respect, but sex is real, binary and immutable, and sometimes it matters. Women need and have the right to single sex spaces, services and sports. Children have the right to a happy, healthy, uncomplicated childhood where they have the space and freedom to grow naturally and aren't being pressured into making irreversible decisions they are too young to understand based on a flawed ideology about being born in the wrong body."
In my constituency, it's a two horse race between the Tories and the Lib Dems. So in a way, my thoughts about Labour are irrelevant. If I voted somewhere it was a close run thing between the Tories and Labour, I would have to consider voting Labour. If I voted somewhere it was a close run thing between Labour and the Lib Dems, I would almost certainly vote Labour. But that's not the case where I vote, and regardless of what the Tories have done, over my dead cold body am I ever going to vote for the Lib Dems again.