Trans people are not the most targeted. That will be women. The only times I have thought my life has been directly in danger (involving threats and knives) is by males.The first man I ever saw in a dress was masturbating at me and the other schoolgirls who walked past the park toilets so subconsciously that made me realise some men in dresses may have a sexual motive. He had makeup on and a mans coat and boots so no idea what he called himself. I did feel threatened by him.
I know and have taught many children who, by the time they are in 6th form, have been through the whole pansexual/ non binary phase and are now happy with their bodies and their sexuality. They have stopped believing in gender ideology.
I only know a few young adult transpeople. They vary individually as much as any group of people do. The only common factor is that they centre themselves and talk about how they feel and gender ideology constantly. There make sure everyone is aware of their views.
Toilets is a BIG thing with me. That’s because I have saved someone from dying by seeing their blue arm sticking out the toilet door gap. That could be me, you or your children In the future. My previously healthy Dd had a massive first seizure in an enclosed space where no one saw. Seizures, strokes, heart attacks, self harm, sexual assaults, rapes and diabetic hypos are now increased risks behind these new private enclosed toilets the government has said it prefers as a design even in single sex toilets because of this ideology. This is because even the abled bodied male designers realise mix sex toilets are dangerous. They think in terms of peeping toms and camera phones rather than disabled people and women and what could happen if you restrict the safeguarding visibility factor.
Statistics: 1 in 106 people are epileptic (Epilepsy Society). At least 1 pupil was raped in a British school premises per school day (Hansard, 2016).
I hope your child’s mental and physical health is much better. He/She will be bucking the statistics. But to suggest your child’s experience overrides everyone’s safety, particularly the medically vulnerable and girls, is not educated nor forward thinking. My daughter had the most dignified care by young female nurses at the most distressing and vulnerable time of her life. But thats why girls and women’s rights matter. We need to make sure we can have female nurses. So that the most vulnerable girls and women are not targeted by men pretending to be female nurses.
Gender ideology has and is directly affecting laws and practices that affect us all detrimentally.
I don’t know what you mean about ‘earning your beliefs’? Presumably it means you are a true believer because of what your child has been through. I realise you must feel that you can’t not believe, as being a non-believer would mean your child’s suffering is in vain.
However it must be said that you can’t change sex and, at the very least for future medical appointments, you and your child must be honest about her/his sex as it affects their health.