We don't find it difficult to comprehend We find it disappointing. Or we understand their fear if they choose not to broadcast their GC views.
That one woman you knew was brave enough to speak out. Many of us are not due to threats to our personal safety, jobs, family and just about every area of our lives.
The GC woman you cut out of your life is probably relieved. Most of us don't like to give up on family or friends. We feel there is a lot at stake. I would never want a child - girl or boy - to go through what I went through. However, blurring boundaries is making it easier for men to groom children.
Can you explain what feminism means to you? And the difference between an actual feminist compared to a self-identified feminist? I'd be really interested to learn if some people (I know a few male feminists) come out of the womb with a stamp on their bottom making them actual feminists rather than us pretend self-identified GC feminists.