It perfectly highlights the fact women are supposed to put aside our own wants and needs and take responsibility for sorting out other people.
How often do you read even on here when we're talking about provision for women the reply whether about meeeeeeen? Women's dv services was a good one. (Less so now they've drunk the koolaid too) you'd go on a thread about shelters for women and read what about shelters for men? Men suffer dv too... (and somehow it's always worse than what women suffer)
Nobody is stopping or has ever stopped men organising the creation of services. Just like women did, men can do. Want a shelter for men? Nobody is stopping them being created.
But somehow it's women that should be taking time away from our needs to sort out something for men.
This is the same. Nobody is stopping transwomen from creating trans spaces. But that's not what they want. They want women to divert our energy to sort it out for them. To prioritise them. To validate them. To step aside for them. To include and focus on them. And if we refuse to do so, we are met with rage because it is the job of women to meet and prioritise the wants and needs of men.
From such small things as it being our fault if our male partners don't get their own mother a birthday card to shit like this - us not creating spaces for transwomen.
It's nothing more than a new chapter of the same fucking book. And that book's title is Everything Is The Fault And The Responsibility Of Women. A Handy Guide On How To Centre Men In Every Aspect Of Your Life.