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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

JK Rowling has sadly opened her mouth again

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DayAndAge · 27/02/2024 08:20

How the metro can put out this tweet which effectively suggests a woman shouldn't be allowed to speak is beyond me. Shocked but not surprised. Comments are heartening though, as is the ratio.

JK Rowling has sadly opened her mouth again
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Windymoore · 27/02/2024 19:18

Also, in light of the denial of it's importance,or lack thereof, of any difference between Letby and Blake's crime; just in reading the reports can we see the different forms the crime takes? One was using medication/medical equipment to kill babies,the other hitting full grown man over the head and carrying them to a river to dump them. That's a interesting difference in itself...if you're not a hectoring, disingenuous close minded individual 🤔

DuesToTheDirt · 27/02/2024 19:22

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/02/2024 18:58

In English law I believe rape is defined as a crime committed using the penis. Consequently until very recently it was impossible for a female to be convicted of rape. Recently though there have been a few cases in the stats of females being charged with/convicted of rape. Go figure.

There was a real woman convicted of rape (Julie Morris, a deputy head teacher) - I always bring her up in these situations. She's probably the only one ever, must have been joint enterprise or something.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 27/02/2024 19:25

I think for a female to be convicted of rape it involves assisting a penis to rape. In Scotland anyway. Happy to be corrected though.

Devonshiregal · 27/02/2024 19:27

Noshowlomo · 27/02/2024 08:48

How dare she open her mouth about this. How dare an actual woman open her mouth and give an opinion.
also, the metro page on instagram makes NO MENTION of her being a trans woman.. it’s all woman woman woman. What’s the agenda??!

Well if they start calling men’s crimes women’s crimes they’ve just come up with another way to tell the world we women are “craaaazy” right?

look at all us women running around muttering people and cats!

RebelliousCow · 27/02/2024 19:28

DadJoke · 27/02/2024 17:05

The point is, you don't think ANY trans women are women, so you object in principle to any newspaper report not misgendering trans woman, whatever the article is about. It's a useful wedge, though, to nutpick articles about terrible transgender people. It's as relevant as a headline "Cisgender woman Lucy Letby murders seven babies." She didn't do it because she is cisgender. Blake didn't do it because she is transgender.

There are cases where someone's transgender status is important. This is not one of them.

That's right. You seem surprised and even shocked. TW are male by definition, and TM are female by definition.

Boiledbeetle · 27/02/2024 19:29

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:01

Also, re trans women going in male / female prisons, I've never understood why it is a choice between just those two. Seems inappropriate for a trans women to go in regular women's prison, due to safety of other prisoners. However, clearly also inappropriate for them to go in a regular man's prison, because of the safety of the prisoner themselves. Why not a third type of prison for "other", that a person could request to go to? Problem solved (or at least much improved).

TRAs don't want third spaces.

And considering a transwoman is a man then the male prison estate is totally appropriate. They are used to prisoners who may be vulnerable for a variety of reasons. How they deal with that in the male estate though is of no concern to me. All I care about is that these men don't end up in with the women.

LiveLaughCryalot · 27/02/2024 19:31

2under4 · 27/02/2024 18:55

This is an interesting thread, insomuch as I'd never considered the skewing of male / female crime statistics before 🤔

I didnt either until I read about the rise of 'female' sex offenders.
I should have cottoned on sooner though, many moons ago I worked in a unit complex that housed sex offenders. Out of 20? there were 2 living as females and had legally changed their name.
Though this was over 6 years ago so I think the aim of the game was different then.

Tinysoxxx · 27/02/2024 19:33

Dogfisher · 27/02/2024 19:08

Rabbits, hares - jill, jack

Bunnies are does and bucks. Slopes off to pedant's corner...

That reminds me of my pet house (buck) rabbit who attacked shoes worn by male human visitors and mounted shoes worn by female human visitors. Billy Buck hated a particular male relative of mine so much that he shredded my relative’s trousers!

Lots of other animal species have no trouble distinguishing between male and female humans.

ErrolTheDragon · 27/02/2024 19:33

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:01

Also, re trans women going in male / female prisons, I've never understood why it is a choice between just those two. Seems inappropriate for a trans women to go in regular women's prison, due to safety of other prisoners. However, clearly also inappropriate for them to go in a regular man's prison, because of the safety of the prisoner themselves. Why not a third type of prison for "other", that a person could request to go to? Problem solved (or at least much improved).

There are many men who are at extra risk in prison for various reasons. They're usually classified as 'vulnerable'. The nature of Blake's crimes might well have put him in this category even without his transgender indentity.

Lion400 · 27/02/2024 19:37

Sad to see that the AIBU thread I started on trans men - trans women, suggesting that it makes more sense for males transitioning to women (so not women) be called trans men not trans women, was removed. Particularly linked to the media confusing readers / viewers by calling male rapists / murderers, women or trans women.

JK Rowling has sadly opened her mouth again
LiveLaughCryalot · 27/02/2024 19:37

LiveLaughCryalot · 27/02/2024 19:31

I didnt either until I read about the rise of 'female' sex offenders.
I should have cottoned on sooner though, many moons ago I worked in a unit complex that housed sex offenders. Out of 20? there were 2 living as females and had legally changed their name.
Though this was over 6 years ago so I think the aim of the game was different then.

Forgot to add. They presented as 'female' as in wore dresses etc... I hate myself for saying that. They acted like the violent male offenders they were though.

IncompleteSenten · 27/02/2024 19:39

SecondUsername4me · 27/02/2024 19:07

@DadJoke why are you labelling females "ciswomen"? I think for the vast majority of us, "women" suffices.

Oh I can answer that.

Trans women must be called what they want to be called or it's literal violence that will trigger and kill them.

Women must be called what trans women want women to be called or it's literal violence that will trigger and kill them.

Trans womens preferences for how they are referred to must be respected.
Women's preferences for how they are referred to must be ignored in favour of what transwomen want women to be referred to.

If trans women were women they'd stfu and do what others want and put their own needs behind everything because that's what female socialisation has trained us to do.

Male socialisation OTOH leads to people who believe everyone must prioritise their wants and needs.

It's easy to see who's really who when you look at it that way.

Thepeppapigfanclub · 27/02/2024 19:39

Thank goodness for JKR opening her mouth again.

FrippEnos · 27/02/2024 19:42

DadJoke

Did you just mis gender someone?
Isn't that (by your sides view) literal violence?

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:43

IncompleteSenten · 27/02/2024 19:39

Oh I can answer that.

Trans women must be called what they want to be called or it's literal violence that will trigger and kill them.

Women must be called what trans women want women to be called or it's literal violence that will trigger and kill them.

Trans womens preferences for how they are referred to must be respected.
Women's preferences for how they are referred to must be ignored in favour of what transwomen want women to be referred to.

If trans women were women they'd stfu and do what others want and put their own needs behind everything because that's what female socialisation has trained us to do.

Male socialisation OTOH leads to people who believe everyone must prioritise their wants and needs.

It's easy to see who's really who when you look at it that way.

Hmmm, this is interesting too, when you put it like that. What about trans men though (as in, born female, wants to be / feels they are men)?

Froodwithatowel · 27/02/2024 19:43

Thepeppapigfanclub · 27/02/2024 19:39

Thank goodness for JKR opening her mouth again.

Indeed. Long may she do so.

IncompleteSenten · 27/02/2024 19:43

I'm starting to think we're making a mistake engaging with him.
Every time we do, we make him think his opinion's worth shit.

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:46

SecondUsername4me · 27/02/2024 19:05

The majority of GC people are advocates of "third spaces". However these third spaces would be to accommodate men. So men can fight for them. Women fight for enough shit.

Sorry, what does GC mean? Guessing not "General Contractor"!

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SecondUsername4me · 27/02/2024 19:47

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:46

Sorry, what does GC mean? Guessing not "General Contractor"!

Haha, Gender Critical. So usually of the opinion that "gender" is a construct rather than fact. That sex is fixed, and regardless of meds and surgery, male and female bodies are and will always be either male or female (excluding the miniscule amount of people biologically born intersex).

Thepeppapigfanclub · 27/02/2024 19:50

Anybody who thinks a 'trans-woman' is actually a woman should be certified as insane. I'm looking at you Daniel Radcliffe et al. I can't believe they even tried/are trying to pull this stunt on us.

Make sure you check what your kids are being taught at school - and I say this as a teacher.

2under4 · 27/02/2024 19:52

Soontobe60 · 27/02/2024 19:17

You’re naivety is charming.
Research shows that the vast majority of male prisoners who declare themselves to be female do so once they’ve been convicted of their crime - which is statistically more likely to be a violent crime against a woman such as rape or murder. In California, research has gone further to show that once released, those men revert back to identifying as men.
They do so because there are no maximum security prisons solely for women in the prison estate. Female prisons are far better than male prisons. Also, those men would get unfettered access to incarcerated females.
It is NOT the role of female prisoners to act as protectors of male sex offenders and murderers - if those men are at risk of violence from other male prisoners, that’s for the male prison estate to sort out. Quite frankly, I don’t give a damn if a rapist is at risk of being attacked whilst in prison. They should have thought about that when they raped. Can you imagine if the murderer of Sarah Everard were to declare he’s now a she and get sent to a women’s prison? Because I can guarantee the person who started this thread thinks he should be as he’d be a real woman.

I quite agree if they're rapists or murderers, of course!

What about someone who GENUINELY are trans women - that is, have been for some time, and look like women due to surgery of some sort. And if they're in prison for a nonviolent crime such as theft or drugs, for arguments sake. Personally I think it's unreasonable in those circumstances to chuck them in with all the male rapists / murderers iyswim. A few people upstream have mentioned wings in male prisons with extra security etc for vulnerable men. I guess a third type of "other" prison would be an extension of that, in a sense.

SecondUsername4me · 27/02/2024 19:53

Thepeppapigfanclub · 27/02/2024 19:50

Anybody who thinks a 'trans-woman' is actually a woman should be certified as insane. I'm looking at you Daniel Radcliffe et al. I can't believe they even tried/are trying to pull this stunt on us.

Make sure you check what your kids are being taught at school - and I say this as a teacher.

My kids school sent out a letter last week about a camping trip. They put:-

"Students will camp in provided tents, and will be separated into a male students field and a female students field"

I gave a silent thanks to whichever sensible staff member thought to word the letter that way in order to not be ambiguous.

FrippEnos · 27/02/2024 19:54

SecondUsername4me

The majority of GC people are advocates of "third spaces". However these third spaces would be to accommodate men. So men can fight for them. Women fight for enough shit.

I think that this is the wrong way to look at it.
You/we are fighting for third spaces to protect women only spaces.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/02/2024 19:54

Dogfisher · 27/02/2024 19:08

Rabbits, hares - jill, jack

Bunnies are does and bucks. Slopes off to pedant's corner...

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