IF
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there was evidence that the composition of the milk was no different from breast milk
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that the drugs used to induce lactation and any other drugs the men (or woman) was on are not passed through the milk and can't harm the baby
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the testing must be done in a very careful way to ensure no babies are placed at risk by it
IF all that testing shows the milk is identical (I'm not sure how it can given the cocktail of drugs mind), I bypersonally have no objection to someone other than the biological mother being able to 'breastfeed' her baby, with full knowledge and permission of course.
It never came up, but I'd have no issue with another lactating mum friend breastfeeding my baby personally.
This other person could be a grandparent, childminder, father, sister etc. Having an extra source of milk around in the household would have been very convenient, and would have also benefited my bottle refusing child because I'd have been less exhausted.
But the testing would need to be really thorough, and I would only really approve if we could ensure people did it for the right reasons, which we can't do, as that sort of gatekeeping isn't possible. The idea of using a tiny baby as a prop to pretend to be a woman is horrible. Or worst still for sexual kicks 🤢
A grandmother relocating after 40 years so she can give her daughter a break I don't have an issue with. Dad of a tiny baby where mum has died and she was very pro-breastfeeding, again is it is the same, then fine.
In most cases it's totally unnecessary anyway because of formula. Though if it was truly the same stuff then there's no harm in someone choosing the trickier route.
The thing is, these cases always seem to be about trans women wanting to lactate to replicate a female experience, rather than about the baby. It's back to validation. If it were truly about the baby's best interests, then we'd surely see dad's (especially those where mum died at birth etc) waiting to do it. But they tend to use either formula or donated milk... So take away the validation side and the demand for it mysteriously drops.