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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbian members club to only allow biological women

478 replies

JanesLittleGirl · 18/02/2024 12:52

"A FEMINIST campaigner is to open the UK’s first lesbian members bar that will only allow biological women to join.

The bar, named the L Community, is due to open in London later this year and will operate as a private members club so that it can bar trans women.

The bar has been set up by Jenny Watson, who in September last year was at the centre of a transphobia row after she insisted only “adult human females” could attend the lesbian speed-dating events she had organised."

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I'll get an archive link in a bit.

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MadeOfAllWork · 21/02/2024 10:26

DadJoke · 21/02/2024 09:55

So one case of one woman who was stopped because another woman thought she was a man.
One. Out of all the times in the world that women have used public toilets and you have found one case.

MadeOfAllWork · 21/02/2024 10:27

I have not once said that this club should not exist, merely than trans-exclusionary lesbians are rare.

You are saying that lesbians who don’t want to sleep with someone with a penis are rare?

MsFogi · 21/02/2024 10:30

Good luck to her. If the club is filled with fabulous women like my lesbian friends it will be the best club in London (and I'll be a little jealous of them hanging out there).

Midnightrunners · 21/02/2024 10:33

Can you set up a private club for exclusively heterosexual men, banning gay men and all women ?. I mean, nobody would object to that !.

GailBlancheViola · 21/02/2024 10:34

I’m not assuming any such thing. I can’t imagine that transgender lesbians would want to hang out with a bunch of .., gender critical lesbians.

And yet TW were determined to get in to the lesbian events previously arranged by Jenny and as per usual threatened and abused not only Jenny but the venues Jenny hired.

As for how the membership is enforced we'll leave that to Jenny shall we, what interest is it of yours?

AlisonDonut · 21/02/2024 11:07

No, men have never ever been interested in women who aren't interested in them. It never happens.

Oh my days.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 21/02/2024 11:08

I like the idea of associate membership, open to anyone, consisting of a card, and access to a news page of their website.

Of course it's open to criticism. Patronising. Smug. Suggesting that you can sponsor a lesbian like you can sponsor an endangered tiger. And Jenny Watson is just trying to do right by her client group, not transform society.

Still, allowing the free market to signal its degree of adherence to the TRA narrative can only be good, because it stops them lying that everyone either buys it or doesn't care.

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 12:03

Let Lesbians organise for themselves.
As for the whataboutery. Some men just can't cope with the fact that there are women who aren't interested in them and never will be.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 21/02/2024 12:05

Actually yes my choice of language in first post could be construed as patronising and I'm sorry for that. I didn't intend any disrespect.

I meant to say it's a venture (much like gardening as used by a pp) id be interested in supporting your especially should it hit resistance amongst certain quarters. If that makes sense? Trying to become more articulate Confused

AlisonDonut · 21/02/2024 12:20

MadeOfAllWork · 21/02/2024 10:26

So one case of one woman who was stopped because another woman thought she was a man.
One. Out of all the times in the world that women have used public toilets and you have found one case.

One ALLEGED case.

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 12:21

I think support from straight women would be very much welcomed, but let the Lesbians decide for themselves what they need. There will be a shout out I'm sure if and when.

The support for Jenny through all of this from everyone has been tremendous. I can only speak for myself. I'd just like to be able to go somewhere for a drink or a coffee and a bit of a laugh knowing that I can relax with other Lesbians. I used to be able to do that I when I was younger but there is nothing for us now.

It's not much to ask is it? Yet the ploppers are arriving already chuddering on about heterosexual men. They just can't bear to let us have a little space for Lesbians let alone spaces for Woman - Lesbian Bi or Straight.

DadJoke · 21/02/2024 12:30

MadeOfAllWork · 21/02/2024 10:27

I have not once said that this club should not exist, merely than trans-exclusionary lesbians are rare.

You are saying that lesbians who don’t want to sleep with someone with a penis are rare?

I am saying the thing I said, not the different thing you just said.

I gave you three easily found examples of people being attacked because people thought they were trans. There are many, many more.

There are many lesbian events in London, and they are almost all trans inclusive. According to Watson, this means all the attendees are wrong about what a lesbian is. To give one single example, the Mint Party hosts 600+ at each event. We'll see just how right or wrong she is soon enough.

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 13:24

There are many lesbian events in London, and they are almost all trans inclusive
Well let them crack on and enjoy themselves then, I'm not trying to close them down.

When we want an event for lesbians ONLY, there are shrieks of transphobia and attempts to close the venue down.

ONE venue exclusively for Lesbians as a private members club doesn't affect all the other venues which are trans inclusive. Each to their own.

I can't think of anywhere outside London (Manchester?) where I can go and socialise with Lesbians only. Lesbians who are adult human females that is.

Call me old fashioned.

DadJoke · 21/02/2024 13:39

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 13:24

There are many lesbian events in London, and they are almost all trans inclusive
Well let them crack on and enjoy themselves then, I'm not trying to close them down.

When we want an event for lesbians ONLY, there are shrieks of transphobia and attempts to close the venue down.

ONE venue exclusively for Lesbians as a private members club doesn't affect all the other venues which are trans inclusive. Each to their own.

I can't think of anywhere outside London (Manchester?) where I can go and socialise with Lesbians only. Lesbians who are adult human females that is.

Call me old fashioned.

These examples really aren't hard to find.

"“I find it incredibly upsetting that this is a fight that is meant to be about my rights, and <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/KI1YJ/inews.co.uk/news/uk/international-lesbian-day-five-people-share-experiences-348400" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">some sort of desire to save lesbians, as if we are going extinct,” she said. “In practice it is making my life harder is making the life of my friends and my colleagues in my community, it’s making the lives of LBT women harder, <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/KI1YJ/inews.co.uk/topic/lgbtq" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">in particular for butch and gender non-confirming people,” she said.
“There isn’t there is absolutely no reason to <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/KI1YJ/inews.co.uk/topic/transgender" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">make that an attack on the rights of trans people because they are <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.is/o/KI1YJ/inews.co.uk/topic/lgbtq" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">part of my community, and part of our community, and our fight is a shared fight,” she added."

https://archive.is/KI1YJ

https://inews.co.uk/news/uk/butch-lesbian-public-toilet-women-abuse-government-review-gender-neutral-facilities-833787

Butch lesbian opens up about 'increasing harassment' she faces when using the public toilets

The Government is carrying out a consultation into the provision of public toilets for men, women and gender-diverse people

https://inews.co.uk/news/uk/butch-lesbian-public-toilet-women-abuse-government-review-gender-neutral-facilities-833787

Froodwithatowel · 21/02/2024 13:45

I see the MRAs have quickly reminded us that bad things happen to female people who dare to say no to male people.

ONE single solitary space. Just one. And immediately up they pop, little misogynist jack in a boxes.

Froodwithatowel · 21/02/2024 13:52

I'll add that if a butch lesbian does find themselves mistaken for a male and refused entry, even after a quiet conversation with the organisers who fail, somehow to be able to distinguish a female to the point they feel comfortable that they are, then well, there's the many many other facilities freely available in the area.

It is not a reason to deprive all female lesbians from a male only space. It is not the job of women to fix all problems for everyone to 100% proof, and to male satisfaction, to be allowed a bloody inch of earth to themselves where those males cannot stuff their sticky little whiny beaks.

YouJustDoYou · 21/02/2024 13:52

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 12:03

Let Lesbians organise for themselves.
As for the whataboutery. Some men just can't cope with the fact that there are women who aren't interested in them and never will be.

"But I know they SAY they're only attracted to vagina but they just only need to TRY my magical wonder dick and they'll instantly be gagging for me forever!!!! I can turn them straight, they just need to TRY MEEEE!!!!!" (Queue angry foot stomping and incredulous disbelief when this STILL doesn't make a lesbian want dick).

YouJustDoYou · 21/02/2024 13:53

Froodwithatowel · 21/02/2024 13:45

I see the MRAs have quickly reminded us that bad things happen to female people who dare to say no to male people.

ONE single solitary space. Just one. And immediately up they pop, little misogynist jack in a boxes.

Yup. They can't bear women who aren't attracted to them.

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 13:53

I don't go round beating people up, nor do the lesbians I know, nor does Jenny Watson so that point is going woosh over my head.

So determined to try and prevent a group of same sex attracted women meeting each other at ONE venue.

I want to sit in a studded leather armchair with a cigar and a copy of Not The Guardian and sip good whiskey with like minded gals in my private members club.

But I'll settle for a shandy and a bit of a laugh with other women like me.

YouJustDoYou · 21/02/2024 13:57

DadJoke · 21/02/2024 12:30

I am saying the thing I said, not the different thing you just said.

I gave you three easily found examples of people being attacked because people thought they were trans. There are many, many more.

There are many lesbian events in London, and they are almost all trans inclusive. According to Watson, this means all the attendees are wrong about what a lesbian is. To give one single example, the Mint Party hosts 600+ at each event. We'll see just how right or wrong she is soon enough.

No there's not. HOWEVER, there are many, MANY, instances of women being raped, sexually assaulted, physically assaulted, verbally abused by transwomen. Many. It's all over youtube. There's videos, there's evidence, so don't you dare deny it. Why, WHY do you demand that lesbians absolutely are not allowed to have an event where they can feel completely SAFE? What is so wrong with you that you can't even allow them one. Single. Space? Why are you so homophobic that you deny same-sex attraction? Lesbians don't want penis. Get over it.

Apollo441 · 21/02/2024 13:57

DadJoke · 21/02/2024 12:30

I am saying the thing I said, not the different thing you just said.

I gave you three easily found examples of people being attacked because people thought they were trans. There are many, many more.

There are many lesbian events in London, and they are almost all trans inclusive. According to Watson, this means all the attendees are wrong about what a lesbian is. To give one single example, the Mint Party hosts 600+ at each event. We'll see just how right or wrong she is soon enough.

Of course their will be more people at a 'trans inclusive' event, there are many more hetrosexuals after all.

Froodwithatowel · 21/02/2024 13:58

YouJustDoYou · 21/02/2024 13:53

Yup. They can't bear women who aren't attracted to them.

The fundamental issue seen on every thread - why can't women have anything of their own, any space of their own, any right to say no to men?

Well partly its the joy of coercively controlling and bullying, but the misogyny is 'wtf is the point of a woman if she's not being useful to a man?'. They're walking tools. Sex toys, enablers, the only possible relevance of a woman is in how she's serving a man.

Any woman failing to serve needs dealing with. Corrective rape gets mentioned rather a lot. Lynching and decapitating. Ive seen the MPs grinning under the signs. Progressive, kind little sausages that they are.

LesbianNan · 21/02/2024 13:58

YouJustDoYou · 21/02/2024 13:52

"But I know they SAY they're only attracted to vagina but they just only need to TRY my magical wonder dick and they'll instantly be gagging for me forever!!!! I can turn them straight, they just need to TRY MEEEE!!!!!" (Queue angry foot stomping and incredulous disbelief when this STILL doesn't make a lesbian want dick).

Lol.
I've been listening to that shit for decades.
It's so pathetic.

suggestionsplease1 · 21/02/2024 14:01

The lesbians I know wouldn't want to be part of this simply because they don't share those values of exclusionary attitudes towards trans people, and you want to spend time, build friendships and potential relationships with people who share similar values to yourself, generally.

MadeOfAllWork · 21/02/2024 14:03

suggestionsplease1 · 21/02/2024 14:01

The lesbians I know wouldn't want to be part of this simply because they don't share those values of exclusionary attitudes towards trans people, and you want to spend time, build friendships and potential relationships with people who share similar values to yourself, generally.

They don’t have to go then.

Just the same as I don’t go to the Spanish class as I don’t want to learn Spanish and I’m not a member of the bowls club as I don’t enjoy bowling.
That doesn’t mean I don’t think either of those things shouldn’t exist.