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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbian members club to only allow biological women

478 replies

JanesLittleGirl · 18/02/2024 12:52

"A FEMINIST campaigner is to open the UK’s first lesbian members bar that will only allow biological women to join.

The bar, named the L Community, is due to open in London later this year and will operate as a private members club so that it can bar trans women.

The bar has been set up by Jenny Watson, who in September last year was at the centre of a transphobia row after she insisted only “adult human females” could attend the lesbian speed-dating events she had organised."

digitaleditions.telegraph.co.uk/data/1615/reader/reader.html?social#!preferred/0/package/1615/pub/1615/page/23/article/NaN

I'll get an archive link in a bit.

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EasternStandard · 22/02/2024 16:33

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:26

I think what might make it viable if it was attractive to the majority of lesbians who don't want to exclude trans women. Even then, of course, it's a dreadful economic environment for any LGBT venue to succeed, so there would be no guarantees.

I think what might make it viable if it was attractive to the majority of lesbians who don't want to exclude trans women.

How do you know what women want?

MadeOfAllWork · 22/02/2024 16:34

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:26

I think what might make it viable if it was attractive to the majority of lesbians who don't want to exclude trans women. Even then, of course, it's a dreadful economic environment for any LGBT venue to succeed, so there would be no guarantees.

But do we know that is the majority of lesbians (and I mean the kind without a penis)? I don’t know, perhaps it is? I don’t have any data on that.

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:35

EasternStandard · 22/02/2024 16:33

I think what might make it viable if it was attractive to the majority of lesbians who don't want to exclude trans women.

How do you know what women want?

Willing to bet I've got more experience of London's lesbian bars than most posters on here.

TheClogLady · 22/02/2024 16:36

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:28

Is it news to you that all LGBT venues operate in extremely difficult financial contexts right now? It's nothing to do with 'male help' - its the basic economics of running a business.

What about all the Christian Fundie-Bux tho? Us terves have gotta spend our millions somewhere.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/02/2024 16:36

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 16:32

Why on earth flap about whether or not this can get off the ground? How is this your problem?

And how on earth do you think that disguises the fundamental homophobia this is based on, combined with an equally fundamental belief that a woman has no business doing anything that conflicts with the wishes of a male with a TQ+ identity to use her?

If you see your role as policing / censoring what women say and think, especially in relation to the importance of protecting women's rights and safeguarding children, then this board must be catnip.

TheCadoganArms · 22/02/2024 16:36

"What is a woman?" is never asked in good faith by gender critical people.

It is a very good, simple question that drills through to the heart of the issue because TRAs can very rarely answer it with any degree of common consensus amongst themselves or without resorting to a raft of mental acrobatics, junk woo science or because 'feelings'. Words have meaning and the very definition of what is a woman is under attack so it includes any hairy arsed bloke who fancied being a woman when they got out of bed that morning. The implications that such a dilution of the word woman has insofar as their impact on previously clearly defined legal protections and the wider social landscape women enjoy cannot be understated.

So, what is a woman?

Datun · 22/02/2024 16:36

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:35

Willing to bet I've got more experience of London's lesbian bars than most posters on here.

What all the ones that have closed down, because, according to you, men kept going to them?

BitingtheSkirting · 22/02/2024 16:38

Look, Janette and DadJoke, if you want mixed-sex lesbian clubs, you clearly have plenty to choose from.

What on earth is your problem with there being a single-sex lesbian venue too?

EasternStandard · 22/02/2024 16:45

PlanetJanette · 22/02/2024 16:35

Willing to bet I've got more experience of London's lesbian bars than most posters on here.

So based on people you speak with at the clubs?

There’s likely selective feedback there for various reasons

ArabellaScott · 22/02/2024 16:46

LadyBird1973 · 18/02/2024 16:10

I still can't quite get my head around how, in 2024, it's considered controversial for a lesbian club to only want women as members.

Yes, exactly.

Wishing Jenny all the best.

ArabellaScott · 22/02/2024 16:47

BitingtheSkirting · 22/02/2024 16:38

Look, Janette and DadJoke, if you want mixed-sex lesbian clubs, you clearly have plenty to choose from.

What on earth is your problem with there being a single-sex lesbian venue too?

We can't have women meeting without men. Imagine what might happen!

Datun · 22/02/2024 16:53

BitingtheSkirting · 22/02/2024 16:38

Look, Janette and DadJoke, if you want mixed-sex lesbian clubs, you clearly have plenty to choose from.

What on earth is your problem with there being a single-sex lesbian venue too?

Because if you even have one single thing that is single sex, it disproves that men are women.

And men simply can't have that.

(fortunately they're going to be very disappointed)

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 16:54

TheCadoganArms · 22/02/2024 16:36

"What is a woman?" is never asked in good faith by gender critical people.

It is a very good, simple question that drills through to the heart of the issue because TRAs can very rarely answer it with any degree of common consensus amongst themselves or without resorting to a raft of mental acrobatics, junk woo science or because 'feelings'. Words have meaning and the very definition of what is a woman is under attack so it includes any hairy arsed bloke who fancied being a woman when they got out of bed that morning. The implications that such a dilution of the word woman has insofar as their impact on previously clearly defined legal protections and the wider social landscape women enjoy cannot be understated.

So, what is a woman?

Why don't you ask the countries in the world that have the highest ratings for women's parity with men?

The top 4 countries in the world for women - Iceland , Norway, Finland and New Zealand all have policies of self-ID.

https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20230927-the-worlds-most-gender-equal-countries

The world's most gender-equal countries

BBC Travel talks to residents in four of the best-rated nations to find out what it's really like to live there.

https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20230927-the-worlds-most-gender-equal-countries

ArabellaScott · 22/02/2024 16:57

Oh for the love of christ, not that bollocks report again!

Yes, Datun, I also suspect the success of said club may expose some of the divide within the 'community'.

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 17:04

Wtf does that have to do with the OP? Massive derail, irrelevant.

Carpediemmakeitcount · 22/02/2024 17:05

fromorbit · 22/02/2024 13:37

There are dozens of gay men's saunas in the UK. No one is trying to get them closed down. Wonder why?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_bathhouses_in_the_United_Kingdom

You'll never hear of trans men outside calling them bigots for having only men spaces. I get the feeling that we must know our place in the hierarchy and women are at the bottom.

WickedSerious · 22/02/2024 17:06

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 16:54

Why don't you ask the countries in the world that have the highest ratings for women's parity with men?

The top 4 countries in the world for women - Iceland , Norway, Finland and New Zealand all have policies of self-ID.

https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20230927-the-worlds-most-gender-equal-countries

It's deja vu all over again.

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 17:07

Well it proves there's no rational answer to the insane homophobia and misogyny in this thread but to chuck a dead cat in the ring and hope it deflects the conversation somewhere more comfortable.

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 17:08

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 17:04

Wtf does that have to do with the OP? Massive derail, irrelevant.

The poster that I quoted was surmising on 'What is a woman? ' , it is entirely relevant.

Are you not interested in how the top countries in the world to be a woman are approaching this question?

Surely as a feminist interested in the wellbeing of women this should interest you?

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 17:10

Completely irrelevant to the topic, start another thread if you want to discuss that. We're discussing the right of lesbians to not have to do everything with men here. Massive feminist issue. Huge.

BitingtheSkirting · 22/02/2024 17:11

Are you not interested in how the top countries in the world to be a woman are approaching this question?

No, I'm interested in the lesbians who want single-sex spaces having them. Why should they have to let the views of 'the top countries' determine their sexuality?

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 17:12

Froodwithatowel · 22/02/2024 17:10

Completely irrelevant to the topic, start another thread if you want to discuss that. We're discussing the right of lesbians to not have to do everything with men here. Massive feminist issue. Huge.

Thanks but you don't get to tell me how to post, especially when I am addressing issues that are brought up on this thread.

MadeOfAllWork · 22/02/2024 17:13

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 17:08

The poster that I quoted was surmising on 'What is a woman? ' , it is entirely relevant.

Are you not interested in how the top countries in the world to be a woman are approaching this question?

Surely as a feminist interested in the wellbeing of women this should interest you?

If we declare that everyone is a woman then suddenly women are having a smashing time.
I bet there are a lot of businesses who wish they could hide their gender pay gap by simply changing their most well paid members to staff to women overnight.

TheCadoganArms · 22/02/2024 17:15

suggestionsplease1 · 22/02/2024 16:54

Why don't you ask the countries in the world that have the highest ratings for women's parity with men?

The top 4 countries in the world for women - Iceland , Norway, Finland and New Zealand all have policies of self-ID.

https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20230927-the-worlds-most-gender-equal-countries

What are you on about? The Scandinavian countries were light years ahead on women's equal rights/parity way before self ID came into play? What point are you trying to make? Just because Iceland have conflated in law biological sex with 'gender', 'gender identity' and 'gender expression' it does not mean the UK are obliged to follow suit. All the Icelandic law does is provide pathways for biological men to take say a political seat reserved for women or a position in a company that is meant to even out the playing field in male dominated areas. Its a crap law.