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Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:12

RoyalCorgi · 08/02/2024 20:11

This whole debate is so absurd. Humans can't change sex, men can't be women, women can't be men, but heaven forbid you say that because you might hurt someone's feelings. I read posts like Adam's, and I think: how the hell as a society did we get to be this stupid? We can send men to the moon and we can split the atom but apparently many of us are intellectually indistinguishable from people 500 years ago who believed in witchcraft.

Same how the hell did we get here.

It’s Orwellian stupidity

ChatBFP · 08/02/2024 20:12

@AdamRyan

That's still a bit of a cop out. So many prominent GC women have to put up with having livelihoods threatened, being subject to violence, court cases, rape threats for voicing any non-TWAW views. If you can't cope with a bit of constructive criticism for a middle ground view that you claim is the magic answer, you're not the brilliant mediator you think you are!

AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 20:14

I'm not trying to be a brilliant mediator. I just wondered if the board was as overwhelmingly "single sex spaces only" as it comes across. As (I think) I said in my OP. Anyway let's not turn this into a TAAT. Stick to Sunak

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:17

ChatBFP · 08/02/2024 20:12

@AdamRyan

That's still a bit of a cop out. So many prominent GC women have to put up with having livelihoods threatened, being subject to violence, court cases, rape threats for voicing any non-TWAW views. If you can't cope with a bit of constructive criticism for a middle ground view that you claim is the magic answer, you're not the brilliant mediator you think you are!

It’s interesting the amount of threats, violence and loss of livelihoods women suffer and yet people talk about ‘hostility’ from women saying no to losing single sex spaces

Lonelycrab · 08/02/2024 20:18

Why run the country, when you can weaponise and distract the electorate, with hollow point scoring and culture wars, from the party that has been in charge and forming policy for the last 14 years?

credit- culture wars steve, spot on as ever

Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’
AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 20:19

Who's watching Rishi on TV tonight?

ChatBFP · 08/02/2024 20:19

@IClaudine

In what way would stating a middle ground position be hostile to trans people, if you genuinely believe that it's one everyone should be able to accept as a good compromise? Where would you voice this view safely?

I remain of the view that your (laudable) desire to be kind isn't really going anywhere helpful. You're stuck in the hope that it is possible to please everyone and anything else is hurtful and wrong. And it isn't.

That's the problem - I do think there are many of us who want to debate what the middle ground would be, but many of us are afraid of being labelled transphobes, so it's going nowhere.

Also, I don't think it is transphobic to say that biological sex is real and matters. Which is what a lot of labelled "hostile" posters are saying. There is literally no middle ground argument that can be made without accepting this as fact and then debating the degree to which it matters in different circumstances.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 20:25

It will be interesting to revisit this thread in a few years.

I agree it will. Visit some threads from 2017/18. More people understand the issues now.

IClaudine · 08/02/2024 20:26

In what way would stating a middle ground position be hostile to trans people

It isn't, but this thread is.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:27

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 20:25

It will be interesting to revisit this thread in a few years.

I agree it will. Visit some threads from 2017/18. More people understand the issues now.

Yes tg we’ve moved on

A couple of years ago there were more deletions over biological reality

A major concern is legislation over freedom of speech under Labour though

PaperWalkAndTalk · 08/02/2024 20:28

AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 19:41

It's pretty callous to go scraping around a father's Facebook for remarks about their dead child, then to publicise those remarks to make it seem like the father is unreasonable for being offended by something a politician said. Like the worst kind of gutter journalism.

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Reporters report. You seem to be of the opinion that journalism should only report on the nice things.

This is a site for parents and families and you seem to be in denial over the effects that a child who decides that they are trans has on the entire family. I and many others have seen families ripped apart by it, we shouldn't try to pretend that this was any different.

I anything I sympathise with the father (and I think he has received a lot of abuse from trans rights activists), because (in his eyes) he has struggled with his son's new identity as his daughter and has been open about it.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:29

IClaudine · 08/02/2024 20:26

In what way would stating a middle ground position be hostile to trans people

It isn't, but this thread is.

I think people confuse women asking for single sex spaces as hostility to trans people

Males could support their own sex class instead

DrBlackbird · 08/02/2024 20:29

It makes me think that the "Repeal the GRA, single sex spaces for women only" are the GC equivalent of TWAW

This makes no sense to me. It sounds that you believe that reserving single sex spaces for women is also magical thinking.

That is, you’re comparing those willing to engage in fantasy in believing that humans can magically change sex and and those that are fighting for vulnerable or marginalised women retain their privacy, dignity and safety?

Actually, it’s okay don’t worry. Previously, though not always agreeing with you, I thought you had some interesting perspectives. However you’ve lost with me that statement.

Lonelycrab · 08/02/2024 20:33

A major concern is legislation over freedom of speech under Labour though

lol

Do you think labour will have their own tv “news” channel, masquerading as not a news channel, pumped up by foreign, tax avoiding backers?!? Genuine question

oldwomanwhoruns · 08/02/2024 20:38

Labour already have the BBC, which pumps out nothing but progressive propaganda.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:41

Lonelycrab · 08/02/2024 20:33

A major concern is legislation over freedom of speech under Labour though

lol

Do you think labour will have their own tv “news” channel, masquerading as not a news channel, pumped up by foreign, tax avoiding backers?!? Genuine question

lol Why lol?

Are you for it happening?

As for your question there’s a range of media across the spectrum none of which equals legislation stopping me using accurate language based on biology.

literalviolence · 08/02/2024 20:42

IClaudine · 08/02/2024 20:11

but you come across as someone who hasn't given it much thought besides not wanting people to be mean to trans people

You couldn't be more wrong. I have given it a lot of thought over recent years for very personal reasons.

What I don't want to do is give my views on a thread that is so completely hostile to trans people as I don't want to align myself with that hostility in any way.

What hostiity do you see? recognising that tw are male, that we need a word to describe actual biological females, knowing that there are two sexes and that people can't change sex and refusing to be silenced by the 'be kind' attempts at control are not hostile. However, pretending that a male has turned into a female, saying women can have penises, demanding women share their protected spaces are highly, highly hostile acts to women. I think the concept of hostile is just warped by some TRAs as one of their many attempts to put women back into the place they think they should accept. But if you've seen actual hostility, please do tell me where.

literalviolence · 08/02/2024 20:45

ResisterRex · 08/02/2024 19:12

She's a cynical opportunist, beholden to the T, just like Starmer

Aka a massive bigot.

Lonelycrab · 08/02/2024 20:50

Why lol?

I don’t see Labour installing someone to head the bbc based on backhanders for personal loans to direct the BBC

I don’t expect labour to attempt to shut down important reporting institutions such as Ch4. And I certainly don’t expect labour to set up a populist culture wars news channel in the name of “patriotism” to push its message.

That’s why I’m laughing.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 20:51

bombastix · 08/02/2024 19:30

My point isn't that DM are Starmer supportive. My point is that apparently they are happy to say Sunak is transphobic; quite double edged of them

Have the DM really said Sunak's transphobic?

Poor bloke only mentioned Starmer's dodgy definition of woman.

In the meantime the real world know that no woman has a penis and that fact is not transphobic but the truth.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:53

Lonelycrab · 08/02/2024 20:50

Why lol?

I don’t see Labour installing someone to head the bbc based on backhanders for personal loans to direct the BBC

I don’t expect labour to attempt to shut down important reporting institutions such as Ch4. And I certainly don’t expect labour to set up a populist culture wars news channel in the name of “patriotism” to push its message.

That’s why I’m laughing.

Edited

I’m talking about legislation on misgendering and the ability to use accurate pronouns

If that happens no one will be laughing. Well maybe some anti women sickos

WickedSerious · 08/02/2024 20:58

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 20:53

I’m talking about legislation on misgendering and the ability to use accurate pronouns

If that happens no one will be laughing. Well maybe some anti women sickos

On the plus side think of all the jobs that'll be created when they start building prisons to house the wrongthinkers.

miri1985 · 08/02/2024 21:34

"But Sir Keir told the BBC Mr Sunak had a duty to make every person in the country "feel safe". It was about "basic decency and respect", he said."

So Starmer plans on being a PM who never makes anyone feel unsafe? I don't know how you can do that as PM.

Why didn't Starmer respond to Sunak's question with a TWAW and a definition of women somehow that includes transwomen rather than seeming appalled. He still doesn't have an answer and is still trying to fence sit and play both sides on this issue.

BackToLurk · 08/02/2024 21:45

miri1985 · 08/02/2024 21:34

"But Sir Keir told the BBC Mr Sunak had a duty to make every person in the country "feel safe". It was about "basic decency and respect", he said."

So Starmer plans on being a PM who never makes anyone feel unsafe? I don't know how you can do that as PM.

Why didn't Starmer respond to Sunak's question with a TWAW and a definition of women somehow that includes transwomen rather than seeming appalled. He still doesn't have an answer and is still trying to fence sit and play both sides on this issue.

The PM doesn't (& didn't) ask questions. Or have you misunderstood what PMQs means

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 21:50

"But Sir Keir told the BBC Mr Sunak had a duty to make every person in the country "feel safe". It was about "basic decency and respect", he said."

That's rather ironic really.

Basic decency and respect for everyone , eh? Except women. Women have to put up with the lie that 1% of us have a penis.

As for women feeling safe, I'm not sure we do really when it doesn't take much for any man to obtain a piece of paper that means he's a legal female, and Starmer intends to make that process even easier. I mean the bloke's seen the harms done to vulnerable women since the introduction of the GRA and still doesn't have he basic decency or respect to listen to women on this. Look at the way Rosie Duffield has been treated.

He must think us women were born yesterday.

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