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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Starmer furious that Sunak should mention his definition of ‘woman’

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HagoftheNorth · 07/02/2024 15:11

PMQ’s today, Sunak highlighted Starmer’s famous comments that some women have a penis. Starmer was furious that Sunak should make that comment while Mrs Ghey was in the chamber. Surely Starmer should realise that it is possible to be respectful and compassionate about trans people without parroting the insane lie that transwomen are women (because ‘woman’ is sex not gender)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

Rishi Sunak

Rishi Sunak faces calls to apologise over trans jibe to Starmer at PMQs

The PM ridiculed Sir Keir Starmer's "definition of a woman" as Brianna Ghey's mother was visiting Parliament.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-68229785

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ilovesooty · 08/02/2024 16:09

Grammarnut · 08/02/2024 14:05

Sunak said it to remind everyone of Starmer's definition of women, in order to wind Starmer up, which it did. Mrs Ghey was not in the gallery at the time, so Starmer used her to get back at Sunak rather than answer the question.

It's called Prime Minister "s Questions, not Leader of the Opposition's Questions.

RhannionKPSS · 08/02/2024 16:09

Starmer is an idiot, he and Labour will use that tragedy & that family to their own ends. Did he or Sunak bother to meet up with the parents of the other two children who were murdered that weekend?

AdamRyan · 08/02/2024 16:10

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 15:23

Just one point to make, when it comes to your suggestion of collective DARVO and all of us being manipulated by Sunak, which you alluded to in your earlier post.

I only saw that Sunak has blamed Starmer on the link from the BBC News Item that was posted on page 26 of this thread almost 24 hours after this thread was first posted. Sunak may have said something about it before but if he did that was the first time I was aware of it. So how are you suggesting that Starmer has manipulated me or anyone else on this thread who said we think it is Starmer who was in the wrong before we knew that he has (rightly in my opinion) stated that it is Starmer who has actually done what he has been accused of?

Because I don't get how that works.

I also think the idea that people who don't agree with you must be the victims of group manipulation a little strange.

I very clearly don't think Starmer has manipulated anyone and assume that's a typo.

After reading that article, I think what's happened is the Malcolm Tucker-type comms lead in CCHQ went "fuckity fuckity fuckity fuck" at PMQs yesterday, there was a desperate scrabble around to find some kind of narrative to cover it up by blaming Starmer, this is what they came up with.

If I was running a comms campaign like that (and had no morals) I'd start with social media, brief my friendly journalists so they could start writing articles for the next days press, and then get the faithful calling phone ins the next day.

I have no other explanation for why there's this weird narrative running counter to what we all saw happening with our own eyes.

I have no idea why you specifically are so adamant Sunak did nothing wrong. It's a very black and white position, especially for someone who wants to vote Labout but feels politically homeless. Hey ho. Each to their own.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 16:15

OvaHere · 08/02/2024 15:31

This is just a more weaponised version of 'not during Pride Month' etc.

There's always reasons why women's rights in relation to gender ideology shouldn't be mentioned.

I agree with Brendan O' Neil, we can't go down the path of having no go subjects in the HoC even if the person making the point made a hash of it.

The Israel/Palestine conflict is probably the most sensitive subject on earth (if you disregard this one) and affects quite a few in the chamber very personally on both sides. Yet it still can be and is discussed robustly.

Exactly this.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 16:16

OvaHere · 08/02/2024 15:31

This is just a more weaponised version of 'not during Pride Month' etc.

There's always reasons why women's rights in relation to gender ideology shouldn't be mentioned.

I agree with Brendan O' Neil, we can't go down the path of having no go subjects in the HoC even if the person making the point made a hash of it.

The Israel/Palestine conflict is probably the most sensitive subject on earth (if you disregard this one) and affects quite a few in the chamber very personally on both sides. Yet it still can be and is discussed robustly.

Yes well said

lifeturnsonadime · 08/02/2024 16:17

I have no other explanation for why there's this weird narrative running counter to what we all saw happening with our own eyes.

As I said to another poster, you must be in a parallel universe to me.

The person who raised Brianna's murder in a distasteful way was Starmer not Sunak. Many, many others agree with me and none of us have been manipulated by anyone to think that, it's just what we saw.

HagoftheNorth · 08/02/2024 16:18

Well, you call it a weird narrative Adam, that Sunak did nothing wrong (normal politics) and it was Starmer that dragged the Ghey’s into it. Yet I think that’s entirely obvious from the transcript, and I didn’t believe Starmer’s ‘outrage’ was genuine. So interesting that people have such very different, but genuine, interpretations

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SinnerBoy · 08/02/2024 16:19

Yes, it's desperate reaching to say that Sunak is the insensitive one, Esther Ghey may not even have noticed, had not Starmer made such a histrionic pantomime.

CuriousAlien · 08/02/2024 16:22

According to the World at 1 yesterday, both Sunak and Starmer thought she was there.

Sunak baited Starmer. Starmer took the bait.

Neither one cares about any of the issues or people, as far as I can tell.

In a clip I heard, the Speaker of the House said it was "organised barracking" or something like that. Totally unconstructive by both of them.

StarlightLady · 08/02/2024 16:23

PMQs is for MPs to ask questions of the PM, it is not for the PM to ask questions. There were no questions raised about this issue, so it was wrong for the PM to even raise it and he should focus on the actual question asked.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 16:24

SinnerBoy · 08/02/2024 16:19

Yes, it's desperate reaching to say that Sunak is the insensitive one, Esther Ghey may not even have noticed, had not Starmer made such a histrionic pantomime.

Histrionic pantomime is about right

WinterTrees · 08/02/2024 16:26

This is becoming like the blue/black - white/gold dress thing of a few years ago.

To me it seems blatantly obvious that Starmer jumping to Brianna Ghey from Sunak calling him out for saying that 1% of women have a penis is the offensive thing. I can't fathom how anyone could genuinely see it as the other way round. (And that dress was white/gold.)

JSMill · 08/02/2024 16:31

WinterTrees · 08/02/2024 16:26

This is becoming like the blue/black - white/gold dress thing of a few years ago.

To me it seems blatantly obvious that Starmer jumping to Brianna Ghey from Sunak calling him out for saying that 1% of women have a penis is the offensive thing. I can't fathom how anyone could genuinely see it as the other way round. (And that dress was white/gold.)

Starmer was and is continuing to use Brianna Ghey to make political capital with Sunak. I am not a fan of Sunak but I found the way he spoke about Brianna sincere and empathetic and I respect that he did that while sticking to his principles.

oldwomanwhoruns · 08/02/2024 16:59

Just remember, 2 years ago we were being banned from Twitter for saying that men could not be women!

Today, the 'Women's Rights v. Trans demands' issue is being discussed all over the land.

No debate is over. We won't be silenced. Not by Starmer nor by anyone else.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 17:03

but an inhuman, hateful, unprincipled man willing to delve into the basest depths of the culture wars, mocking trans people as a grieving mother sits metres from him, is too horrific to contemplate.

As well as overblown, mawkish hyperbole.

EasternStandard · 08/02/2024 17:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 17:03

but an inhuman, hateful, unprincipled man willing to delve into the basest depths of the culture wars, mocking trans people as a grieving mother sits metres from him, is too horrific to contemplate.

As well as overblown, mawkish hyperbole.

Unbelievable.

@oldwomanwhoruns yep

Falloverwalker · 08/02/2024 17:06

Lottapianos · 08/02/2024 10:16

James O'Brien currently climbing onto his sanctimonious high horse about this issue on LBC, if you fancy ruining your own morning!

Yes, it was a shouting at the radio listen. I knew it would be but forced myself to listen. I agree with him on pretty well all his other stuff so it made for an uncomfortable listen.

RoyalCorgi · 08/02/2024 17:15

OvaHere · 08/02/2024 15:31

This is just a more weaponised version of 'not during Pride Month' etc.

There's always reasons why women's rights in relation to gender ideology shouldn't be mentioned.

I agree with Brendan O' Neil, we can't go down the path of having no go subjects in the HoC even if the person making the point made a hash of it.

The Israel/Palestine conflict is probably the most sensitive subject on earth (if you disregard this one) and affects quite a few in the chamber very personally on both sides. Yet it still can be and is discussed robustly.

This is what really gets my goat. It's the idea, not that it's wrong to mention a certain thing, but that it's wrong to mention it in front of certain people.

That way madness lies, in my view. If Esther Ghey hadn't been in parliament that day, would it have been OK for Sunak to mock Starmer's views on what a woman is? Yes, it would. In which case, why does it stop being OK when Esther Ghey is there?

Aceoftrumps · 08/02/2024 17:15

Kiwano · 08/02/2024 15:53

No, it was Sunak who brought who, totally gratuitously, brought the gender issue into his childish digs, grinning all over this face at how clever he thought he was despite knowing that Esther Ghey was in Parliament. He could have made his point perfectly well without being so crass.

I suggest you watch the exchange again, the PM made no mention of the gender issue, I read reports Esther Ghey was in the chamber and not in the chamber when the exchange took place, but that is irrelevant anyway. The
dig was at Starmer and him alone, he used Esther Ghey to deflect and score points. Shameful.

IClaudine · 08/02/2024 17:17

JSMill · 08/02/2024 16:31

Starmer was and is continuing to use Brianna Ghey to make political capital with Sunak. I am not a fan of Sunak but I found the way he spoke about Brianna sincere and empathetic and I respect that he did that while sticking to his principles.

Yes, he was in "sincere mode" I will give you that.

Shame he didn't show the same sincerity in the House when asked to apologise for his awful gaffe. Guess it wasn't in the script.

It is not that some topics should be off limits in the HoC. It is that, very unfortunately indeed, because of this debacle, this topic will now de facto be off limits for a long, long time. It will cause a long and chilling shadow where the really worrying culprits will hide

Who are the "really worrying culprits?"

BackToLurk · 08/02/2024 17:22

RoyalCorgi · 08/02/2024 17:15

This is what really gets my goat. It's the idea, not that it's wrong to mention a certain thing, but that it's wrong to mention it in front of certain people.

That way madness lies, in my view. If Esther Ghey hadn't been in parliament that day, would it have been OK for Sunak to mock Starmer's views on what a woman is? Yes, it would. In which case, why does it stop being OK when Esther Ghey is there?

..because it was insensitive. That's what people are objecting to. Some people don't think it was insensitive, that's the debate. And the incessant variations on 'Sunak didn't mention the gender issue/trans' are wearisome. Of course reference to Starmer's inconsistency on what a woman is relates to 'the gender issue'. What else do you think Sunak was referring to?

Aceoftrumps · 08/02/2024 17:31

Merrymouse · 08/02/2024 15:55

From the GRA:

(1)Where a full gender recognition certificate is issued to a person, the person’s gender becomes for all purposes the acquired gender (so that, if the acquired gender is the male gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a man and, if it is the female gender, the person’s sex becomes that of a woman).

This might be badly written law, but it is the law, and Sunak has not suggested it should be changed.

The fact remains you cannot change sex. Gender and sex have two separate meanings in today's world, no matter what the law states. As it is badly worded it may well end up being challenged. As for Sunak, I don't know his full views on the subject or what he intends, but I believe his time as PM will be curtailed at the next election. With Starmer as PM, I do believe self-id will become a reality, no matter what he currently says.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 17:50

Histrionic pantomime is about right

It's quite telling how Rachel Reeves and Angela Rayner are laughing behind him until he starts speaking and then immediately arrange their faces into totally fake sombre mode.

https://x.com/gillian_philip/status/1755631579496436082?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/02/2024 17:58

Can anyone please help me out with how exaclty this is nasty? It is just that lurking beneath the surface is the unexpressed idea that women are adult human females, which excludes males from the defintion?

You've got it in a nutshell. Starmer was helpfully reminding Brianna Ghey's mother that many people think that males can't be women. Sunak didn't make it about Brianna in any way at all.

PaperWalkAndTalk · 08/02/2024 17:59

It amazes me with this story the amount of people expressing their faux outrage and when asked a simple question such as "can a woman have a penis" the lengths that they will go to to avoid answering the question.

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