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Evidence re GC women and white supremacism please?

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Froodwithatowel · 12/01/2024 15:19

I'll quote JCJ here as I do not want to derail the other thread:

From my, and many other people's observation, over the last couple of years, the UK GC space, especially on twitter, has progressively merged with both the US MAGA/Christian nationalist space, and those of UK white nationalists.

It is not easy to make sense of that X thread, but this statement is one I want information on. I don't do parroting, I believe in critical thinking, evidence and independence of thought, and I have learned to be deeply cautious of being accidentally vaccuumed into the 'so and so smells so do what I tell you' strategies so very tediously rife at the moment to get people in line and useful to others, we live in very grotty times.

So please would some kind person provide me with evidence that women wanting rights, equality and single sex spaces are entangled with religious extremism and white nationalism? Actual evidence. Not aspersions, but evidence.

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Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 19:10

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 19:02

I take it though that creation of a special 'women's/girl's' category is a new 'this is a workable and kind compromise and anyone who thinks it still harms women is just an extremism' position. When all it is, is a suggestion that dismisses why women and girls require their own sport category at all.

But the special 'non outing' category will not only validate the TW as woman, because look if I am competing with the women I must be/am a woman it will also allow access for the TW into the same changing space because as above.

Yes to the changing room situation.

But it will end up outing in several ways. When it is only male athletes winning, and maybe even competing in it, it will be outing.

And what happens when the male competitors set records never to be broken by female athletes? As has happened in park run. Do the people suggesting this category think that those ‘special women’ records will not out the record holder as being male?

I would think that not a lot of thought has gone into all the possibilities of this ‘special women’ category. But apparently, rejection of such a wonderfully moderate solution is extreme, rather than it being identified as an unworkable solution based on a superficial understanding of the situation.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 17/01/2024 22:52

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:45

If you don't believe what I say then it is up to you to show me some facts that contradict what I have said. If I give you a fact, and you come back with the same myth that I have just contradicted, then either you don't understand what I have said or you want to believe that somehow I have ulterior motives and want to harm women. I've told you some facts, you are unable to contradict them, the 'no comment needed' is that you have lost the argument.

I'm not telling you what to do. I'm not expecting you to obey a command. I'm telling you some facts. Two different meanings of the word 'telling'.

It’s not arguing with you. I have pointed out your arrogance in telling everyone that you are right and they are wrong.

JamesonJameson · 17/01/2024 23:04

@SuePine69 seems very keen to take the side of biological men in women's sports while dismissing what the majority of women think.

They also are keen to explain to an audience of women how women prostituting themselves are only offering a service, are happy that this is how they make money and are making a good living.

Hmmm I wonder which category of people are most likely to take these perspectives?

UtopiaPlanitia · 18/01/2024 00:00

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:18

"A society that allows a certain number of women to be sold for sex is not a society that sees women as people worthy of respect and dignity, and trying to intellectualise or rationalise this fact is really just more of this postmodern bullshit of fighting stigma being thought of as more important than actually tackling problems."

I've just told you that prostitution isn't about women sold for sex or selling themselves for sex. Why do you persist with your Victorian attitudes? I've told you that the vast majority of prostitutes can afford to keep themselves in other ways but find that prostitution suits them. Believe me, most of them have got more money than you have. I have respect for them and their dignity.

As for trafficking, do you realise that word doesn't usually mean coercion? Trafficking is the organised movement of people for some form of work that is illegal, usually only applied to prostitution. There is something called modern slavery which exists in prostitution and exists in other forms of work too. The best way to combat this is understood by experts such as Emily Kenway. I can recommend her book The Truth about Modern Slavery. You will find the way to tackle problems with people like her and not Ruhama.

Men who buy sex don’t want access to women with dignity and self-respect. The whole point for both punters and pimps is looking for (and controlling) women who don’t feel safe, secure or dignified, or who don’t have viable alternatives. Men who pay to have sex don’t see any women as worthy of respect; a man who respects women wouldn’t want to pay for sexual access to women’s bodies.

Men who buy sexual access to women don’t want women who enjoy what they’re going through, they actively want women to fake enjoyment despite what’s being done to them. They complain about women being lethargic or not putting in enough effort. Men don’t want to treat prostitutes well, the whole point of a society allowing prostitution is having a class of woman who can’t say no to sex and have 'No' that be respected.

I’ve listened women in prostitution, both street and brothel, describe their days and how relentless and awful it is. I’ve seen adverts by brothels and pimps, I’ve read reviews by, and interviews with, men who buy sex. None of it speaks of a culture that sees women as equal human beings or of wanting to treat women with dignity, respect, or to reduce stigma. None of it speaks of seeing these women as providing a service. Degradation is the whole point. And men know that women are commonly trafficked and/or forced into prostitution by circumstances and pimps, and these men don’t care - they just complain that the women cry, or scream, or struggle all the way through what they do to them.

I’ve even seen reports and interviews with women who went into prostitution with a sex positive attitude, thinking that they just need to frame the whole experience 'correctly' i.e. "I enjoy casual sex so why not get paid for it", and these women come out of brothels shocked at how men treated them and what men expected them to do and the lack of respect men had for them. Reframing their participation in prostitution as a job or service didn’t protect them.

By all means, continue to think prostitution is a service provided by women (tell yourself that women can have power or dignity in the exchange) but I’ve seen ads from German and NZ brothels advertising gang bangs with heavily pregnant women and 'all you can eat' deals that encourage men to live out depraved fantasies. I’ve listened to the testimony of women trafficked from poor countries into the West and how they’ve been abused and forced into prostitution. I’ve listened to the women who had to actually live up to that description of yours that selling sex is a service and they hated every minute of it.

Throughout history men have justified prostitution: women of their vanquished enemies, temple prostitutes, courtesans, concubines, child brides, geisha, arranged marriage. Male-dominated societies just want a class of women who can’t say no to them and who can be abused without social censure. And some women in those societies are happy to go along with it, "better her than me", "that’s all she’s fit for", "she brought it on herself". The modern version of this attitude is,"it’s a job, and no worse than any other shitty job".

If you don’t know about any of this information then read about it - none of it is hard to find. And if you do know about stories like these and still think selling sex is a service that men can expect from women then I suggest you have a problem in seeing women as people rather than objects.

Telling people that they’re Victorian prudes because they see this issue differently than you is puerile.

Helleofabore · 18/01/2024 07:09

I have asked at least once but I think twice now about what suepine suggests is put in place to protect vulnerable women in prostitution. Looking back though, why would someone be posting on a feminist board scolding women as they have and being so pissed off about a law that put the criminal action on the men exploiting the women’s body?

I can think of one glaringly obvious reason to be so pissed that a law has been brought in that makes it clear that the male purchasing the use of a woman’s body is the criminal.

And why they seem overly invested in it for someone not a feminist suggesting alternatives. Plus why they believe that the proportion of women who are prostitutes are there because they make it a career choice.

And why they seem to think it is so vital that male people are so validated that they have a special make believe athletic category that is inclusive of all women, making it essentially a category for males who wish to be called women but expecting women to also enter that one rather than the female category that this poster concedes should be there as well.

mmmm! What kind of person wishes to protect men who are using female people as resources and exploiting them in both prostitution and sport? Who particularly would want men to not ever have to face the consequences of their decisions? Particularly those special men?

SaffronSpice · 18/01/2024 10:37

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:25

Victorian like locking up innocent women in Magdalen Laundries. Four orders of nuns were involved in that and two of those four founded Ruhama. They are liars. They pretend that the welfare of women is their primary concern when they harm women.

Everyone who lived between 1837 and 1901 were liars?

SuePine69 · 19/01/2024 12:31

Helleofabore · 18/01/2024 07:09

I have asked at least once but I think twice now about what suepine suggests is put in place to protect vulnerable women in prostitution. Looking back though, why would someone be posting on a feminist board scolding women as they have and being so pissed off about a law that put the criminal action on the men exploiting the women’s body?

I can think of one glaringly obvious reason to be so pissed that a law has been brought in that makes it clear that the male purchasing the use of a woman’s body is the criminal.

And why they seem overly invested in it for someone not a feminist suggesting alternatives. Plus why they believe that the proportion of women who are prostitutes are there because they make it a career choice.

And why they seem to think it is so vital that male people are so validated that they have a special make believe athletic category that is inclusive of all women, making it essentially a category for males who wish to be called women but expecting women to also enter that one rather than the female category that this poster concedes should be there as well.

mmmm! What kind of person wishes to protect men who are using female people as resources and exploiting them in both prostitution and sport? Who particularly would want men to not ever have to face the consequences of their decisions? Particularly those special men?

I have explained to you that the Nordic Model increases the amount of prostitution in society. That is what the best reports into the change in the law in Northern Ireland and Sweden tell us. Given that this is the case, who do you think is more likely to be a pimp, you or me?

You support a system that increases prostitution and I don't. Do you not think that if I was a pimp I would support the Nordic Model? I wonder what would happen if an investigative journalist interviewed pimps in Northern Ireland. It seems likely that they would say that things have changed for the better for them. Not only is there more prostitution but it is now in their hands and not the women themselves.

If you read Rachel Moran's book she says that she was a prostitute when there was a law change in Ireland. In 1993 life became a lot more difficult for prostitutes. Rachel wrote that it caused much harm to women but that the Nordic Model isn't like that. She said that it has been proved that there was a big reduction in prostitution in Sweden.

I'm sorry to inform her that she has been misinformed. Just as she has been misinformed about 38% of Irish prostitutes having attempted suicide. She should read the 2015 report by Endrit Mujaj and Amanda Netscher and the reports by Ann Marie O'Connor.

Imagine a marathon with 100 runners. 60 are men and 40 are women. 4 of those women are trans. At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes. They could also announce the fastest disabled person.

I would be happy with this compromise. It would not work with other sports, but there are other compromises. I would not expect the trans lobby to accept it and I would not expect GC people to either. You can't make everyone happy.

OldCrone · 19/01/2024 12:54

Imagine a marathon with 100 runners. 60 are men and 40 are women. 4 of those women are trans.

Do you mean 4 of those women are male? Or do you mean 4 of the women identify as something other than women, transmen or nonbinary for example?

At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes.

So you're suggesting that the easiest way for a man to get a prize is to identify as a woman. Can you see any problems with this?

I would not expect the trans lobby to accept it and I would not expect GC people to either. You can't make everyone happy.

Or indeed anyone. The trans lobby think that gender identity is more important than sex, GC people are those who believe that sex is fixed and people can't change sex so that's just about everyone else.

SuePine69 · 19/01/2024 12:58

SaffronSpice · 18/01/2024 10:37

Everyone who lived between 1837 and 1901 were liars?

In Victorian society a woman's dignity depended on how many sexual partners she had. A good wife would have only one sexual partner in the whole of her life. A nun would have had none. There were campaigners who genuinely believed that they were helping women and preserving the purity and dignity of womankind.

There were also campaigners who thought that women shouldn't have to have sex with their husbands. We can all agree that no woman should have to have sex but it didn't seem to occur to them that some women enjoy having sex with their husbands.

Then you had William Thomas Stead and his 1885 series of newspaper articles. The theme of Maiden Tribute of Modern Babylon was the abduction, procurement and sale of young English virgins to Continental "pleasure palaces".

AlisonDonut · 19/01/2024 12:58

Someone calling themselves 'supine' is into women lying back and taking money for sex.

What a surprise.

JamesonJameson · 19/01/2024 15:26

@SuePine69 loves to lecture women about women, hmmm.. I wonder why?

nothingcomestonothing · 19/01/2024 17:22

At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes.

Please, please let me be there when you explain to TRAs that TW can run 'as women' but when if they beat an actual woman it will be announced that they are trans and then announced who the fastest woman woman was.

JamesonJameson · 19/01/2024 17:49

Men do love to get their prizes.

Helleofabore · 20/01/2024 08:05

Imagine a marathon with 100 runners. 60 are men and 40 are women. 4 of those women are trans. At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes. They could also announce the fastest disabled person.

I would be happy with this compromise. It would not work with other sports, but there are other compromises. I would not expect the trans lobby to accept it and I would not expect GC people to either. You can't make everyone happy.

And we keep telling you why your solution doesn’t work. You seem to be living under the impression that your solution hasn’t already been modelled and studied. And that it isn’t being trialled in different versions.

It is being trialed in two ways as we speak. One is parkrun. No monetary prizes but distance is recorded and it is self ID. Every single week just in the UK at least one of those runs has a male winner in the female category. There are male people setting female records in UK parkrun.

Aaahh ! But, you say, not EVERY race. Yes, but enough are. And in marathon where runners will attend as many as they can, because the top performers are invited, you could end up with a top male in the ‘special woman’ category winning regularly. It only takes a couple of them to then dominate the international circuit.

Not only that but currently in some marathons they HAVE a non-binary event. How many female people have won this ? NOT ONE! Always male athletes. A female athlete actually complained there was no female non-binary category! And compared to the winners of either male or female, those male anthletes are mediocre performers winning the same prize money as the top sex category performers.

As we keep saying to you.

Your ‘special woman’ category is actually indirect discrimination against women. Because congratulations, you have just given male people an extra prize pool opportunity under the false guise of ‘well women can enter too!’ And it rewards mediocre male athletes who make choices that limit their performance too.

How long before the male athletes who are far faster than female athletes but not winning any prizes also start abusing this ‘special women’s’ category? There is no special requirements at all. A male runner did this in Ireland to prove the point. A male weightlifter did this in weightlifting to prove the point. He also set a national record but refused it because he admitted he did it to prove a point. They didn’t have to do a thing, except register as a female for the category.

Your solution is unworkable and it is indirect negative sex discrimination towards women. You are on this thread attempting to shame people for having ‘extreme’ opinions when it is you who doesn’t seem to have any depth of knowledge about the sports situation.

You are doing what so many other posters who have decided due to their own prejudiced belief about feminists who are campaigning to protect women from the harms of conflicting rights where male people are demanding to be treated as female people, have done. You are mistakenly under the impression that there is a ‘middle ground’ that you hold that will magically provide the solution.

Your solution continues to harm women and girls. The real ‘middle ground’ ? It has either been suggested by feminists, sports scientists, developmental biologists, medical professionals and most of all, female athletes, and attempted and ignored by trans people (the transgender swimming category trial that not one competitor registered for) or is being implemented with the male category being called ‘open’ and retaining the female category.

Your ‘well the women might win’ is also completely missing the very significant point. A male winning that race is a mediocre male athlete compare like for like to other male athletes, and is being rewarded. Being rewarded for beating an exceptional female athlete because you feel that male athletes feelings are more important than rewarding exceptional female athletes.

For that exceptional female athlete to win that race against that less than exceptional male athlete means she had to be better by the power of x than that male. It is not the same as just pipping them at the finish line as she would if it was another female athlete. Do you get this?

Perhaps I need to be clearer. Your third category means that any female has to be a far superior athlete than the mediocre male athletes who are in that category.

That is yet another form of discrimination. It is setting the bar far higher for female athletes to win than for male athletes to win. The studies have shown that even with testosterone suppressed male athletes can potentially perform at a higher level than females possibly can. That they don’t perform at their highest level is due to their decisions on training and might even be their choice to maintain a particular body shape. Their decision. It is also their decision to limit their performance through testosterone suppression. A choice that female people don’t get to make and still win prizes.

So supine, what other group of athletes who deliberately choose actions and make decisions that limit their performance get to win prize money or reduce prize money (because sponsorship doesn’t come with an endless pot of gold) set aside for exceptional female athletes?

And here you are attempting to shame women because you believe you know better and that there is a ‘middle ground’ and that we are the fucking extremists. Well done you.

Helleofabore · 20/01/2024 08:07

JamesonJameson · 19/01/2024 15:26

@SuePine69 loves to lecture women about women, hmmm.. I wonder why?

I think we could guess.

GailBlancheViola · 20/01/2024 10:22

nothingcomestonothing · 19/01/2024 17:22

At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes.

Please, please let me be there when you explain to TRAs that TW can run 'as women' but when if they beat an actual woman it will be announced that they are trans and then announced who the fastest woman woman was.

It's bonkers isn't it - one the one hand don't out the TW, you nasty, mean extremists and on the other announce the fastest woman and if they are (highly likely) a TW then yeah but, no but, that was the fastest TW and the fastest woman is actually this one. Oh oops just outed the TW, oh well, never mind but I'm not a nasty, mean extremist like them over there.

popebishop · 20/01/2024 10:34

nothingcomestonothing · 19/01/2024 17:22

At the end of the race it is announced who was the fastest. Then it is announced who is the fastest woman. It is not a foregone conclusion that it would be a trans woman. There are almost ten times as many cis women, and also male advantage is less for long distance running. The fastest woman is announced and if she is trans then then the fastest non trans/non DSD woman is announced. All three would get prizes.

Please, please let me be there when you explain to TRAs that TW can run 'as women' but when if they beat an actual woman it will be announced that they are trans and then announced who the fastest woman woman was.

Grin Brilliant

There's something perversely reassuring with be-kinders crashing into the debate with "sensible middle ground" solutions ... like this.

I think "oh, it wasn't that I was missing something when reaching my position... It's just that those saying I'm wrong haven't thought it through for more than 5 seconds."

duc748 · 20/01/2024 11:45

That is a magisterial takedown of the whole 'middle-ground, #bekind bollix', @Helleofabore . It should be read out to every dissembling sports administrator and politician.

pickledandpuzzled · 20/01/2024 11:51

popebishop · 20/01/2024 10:34

Grin Brilliant

There's something perversely reassuring with be-kinders crashing into the debate with "sensible middle ground" solutions ... like this.

I think "oh, it wasn't that I was missing something when reaching my position... It's just that those saying I'm wrong haven't thought it through for more than 5 seconds."

I misread your first line as ‘kindergarteners’ rather than ‘bekinders’. I like my version though.
Kinder=child

And actually children really aren’t always kind!

DialSquare · 20/01/2024 13:05

I wish the be-kinders would just admit they prefer to put Males before Females and be done with it. It's all pussyfooting around pretending they aren't doing it that pisses me off.

popebishop · 20/01/2024 15:24

I misread your first line as ‘kindergarteners’ rather than ‘bekinders’.

Hardly - kindergartners can be brutal Grin
"Why is your tummy so wobbly mummy?"

JamesonJameson · 20/01/2024 16:45

"Why is that man wearing a dress?"

Helleofabore · 21/01/2024 09:35

In getting back to the request in the OP.

So please would some kind person provide me with evidence that women wanting rights, equality and single sex spaces are entangled with religious extremism and white nationalism? Actual evidence. Not aspersions, but evidence.

Did I miss the evidence that was conclusive and not prone to one person’s personal view of religious extremism and white nationalism which may not reflect reality?

SuePine69 · 22/01/2024 15:27

AlisonDonut · 19/01/2024 12:58

Someone calling themselves 'supine' is into women lying back and taking money for sex.

What a surprise.

Meant as a joke. You don't have to read too much into it.

SuePine69 · 22/01/2024 15:35

JamesonJameson · 19/01/2024 15:26

@SuePine69 loves to lecture women about women, hmmm.. I wonder why?

Not lecturing, it's just that I'm old enough to remember when people liked to have facts and reasoning when considering important issues.

When I wrote that statistics show that the Nordic model has failed in all of its core objectives you could have come back at me and said you have other statistics or that you could see a flaw in my reasoning.

Too much to hope for. At least I've informed people where the statistics are, so that if they can be bothered they can see for themselves. You never know, maybe one day someone intelligent might read this thread.

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