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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Evidence re GC women and white supremacism please?

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Froodwithatowel · 12/01/2024 15:19

I'll quote JCJ here as I do not want to derail the other thread:

From my, and many other people's observation, over the last couple of years, the UK GC space, especially on twitter, has progressively merged with both the US MAGA/Christian nationalist space, and those of UK white nationalists.

It is not easy to make sense of that X thread, but this statement is one I want information on. I don't do parroting, I believe in critical thinking, evidence and independence of thought, and I have learned to be deeply cautious of being accidentally vaccuumed into the 'so and so smells so do what I tell you' strategies so very tediously rife at the moment to get people in line and useful to others, we live in very grotty times.

So please would some kind person provide me with evidence that women wanting rights, equality and single sex spaces are entangled with religious extremism and white nationalism? Actual evidence. Not aspersions, but evidence.

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RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 17/01/2024 14:33

I've just told you that prostitution isn't about women sold for sex or selling themselves for sex. Why do you persist with your Victorian attitudes? I've told you that the vast majority of prostitutes can afford to keep themselves in other ways but find that prostitution suits them. Believe me, most of them have got more money than you have. I have respect for them and their dignity.

I’ve just told you

… your Victorian attitudes

I’ve told you

Believe me

No further comment needed.

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:37

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 14:12

"For example, in sport there are compromises that could be made. Each sport would be different. In marathon running, men and women could run together. At the end of the race it would be announced who was fastest. It would also be announced the fastest woman. There would be a category for women that would exclude trans women or someone like Caster Semenya (I know she wasn't a marathon runner). There would be another category that would include them. That should make everybody happy but it won't because in culture wars people never want to compromise."

Except that in Marathons there is prize money for those attaining places.

Could you please tell us what is the point of having two female categories, one for female only people and one for whoever the fuck wants to be included? What is the second category measuring? And what prize money would you suggest is offered. Or are you proposing a make believe category with no prize money being offered but is merely there for people to choose to make them feel good?

What would you name these categories? "Female" and "inclusive women's"? And won't entering into the second category just mean a) that trans people are outed and b) that it will just be another category for a male to claim first?

How about instead, there is an 'open' category for every single athlete who wishes to enter, and female category where only those of the female sex are allowed to enter?

Oh wait? That HAS been proposed by the people you accuse of 'never wanting to compromise' and been adopted by athletic events already.

I think that you are keen to believe that you are 'middle ground' and that you want to frame feminists as 'extreme' and participating in some kind of 'culture war'. When in reality, you don't quite seem to have the depth of understanding of what has and hasn't been proposed, accepted and why when it comes to sport.

I have asked you what it is that you actually propose to protect women from being exploited without harming vulnerable women. Have you got a solution?

Proposing an 'open' category is just a way of excluding transwomen. It is not a form of compromise.

Even if it was true that the category I propose would just allow a 'male' to claim first, that has no effect on the biological females. A biologically female athlete would be able to say 'I came first in a race against my peers' and they would have prize money. As for outing trans people, I don't think that you give a damn about that, you would out any transwoman you could.

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:45

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 17/01/2024 14:33

I've just told you that prostitution isn't about women sold for sex or selling themselves for sex. Why do you persist with your Victorian attitudes? I've told you that the vast majority of prostitutes can afford to keep themselves in other ways but find that prostitution suits them. Believe me, most of them have got more money than you have. I have respect for them and their dignity.

I’ve just told you

… your Victorian attitudes

I’ve told you

Believe me

No further comment needed.

If you don't believe what I say then it is up to you to show me some facts that contradict what I have said. If I give you a fact, and you come back with the same myth that I have just contradicted, then either you don't understand what I have said or you want to believe that somehow I have ulterior motives and want to harm women. I've told you some facts, you are unable to contradict them, the 'no comment needed' is that you have lost the argument.

I'm not telling you what to do. I'm not expecting you to obey a command. I'm telling you some facts. Two different meanings of the word 'telling'.

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 14:48

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 14:37

Proposing an 'open' category is just a way of excluding transwomen. It is not a form of compromise.

Even if it was true that the category I propose would just allow a 'male' to claim first, that has no effect on the biological females. A biologically female athlete would be able to say 'I came first in a race against my peers' and they would have prize money. As for outing trans people, I don't think that you give a damn about that, you would out any transwoman you could.

Why is an open category 'excluding' males who have a gender identity that means they don't want to compete with males?

And you claim that your new 'special women' category would have no effect on biological females? What is the point of your 'special women' category? Why would anyone wish to enter that category? And you seem to think that offering a special women category for a male to compete in and win would not effect female people? Why? It is still a category that is going to have to refer to competitors being women or female, so therefore any person claiming a place in that category is denying a female a place in a category for women or females.

Your logic doesn't hold up. Allowing any male to compete as a female in any category label that is a category where someone can win as a 'woman' or a 'female' is harmful to the female athletes that are within that category.

You assume wrong, obviously based on your very own rather entrenched prejudice, that I don't 'give a damn'. I am all for males to compete without them having to 'out themselves' but to not compete in any female category. Is it my priority, no? But that doesn't mean that I don't give a damn. But obviously you have some pretty entrenched ideas about what I do and don't believe. Why don't you tell me more about what I believe. I look forward to it.

JamesonJameson · 17/01/2024 14:56

Biological males are 95+% easily identifiable among biological females - no outing involved. Women are especially able to identify them.

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 15:00

Proposing an 'open' category is just a way of excluding transwomen. It is not a form of compromise.

Is the purpose for TW to participate in sport? If so they are being included. I suspect your view is that TW participation in sport must include them being validated as being a woman whilst doing so.

As for outing trans people, I don't think that you give a damn about that, you would out any transwoman you could.

TW who are determined to participate in sport against women and be lauded as a woman whilst doing so are outing themselves as cheats.

Your marathon idea tells me two things: (1) You have no knowledge of sport and (2) have no knowledge of marathons.

JamesonJameson · 17/01/2024 15:01

For example Evelyn and Tessa are clearly biological males in all their photos.

nypost.com/2023/10/13/trans-cyclists-take-gold-and-silver-in-chicago-womens-races/

AdamRyan · 17/01/2024 15:03

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SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 15:13

@Helleofabore
If an athlete says that they should be able to compete in a female category, you would say no if they are trans. If someone asked you for your reason for excluding them you would say 'not telling' because you wouldn't want to out them. Have I understood what you are saying?

I too would say no, and I would explain to them that there are many women who do not wish to compete with transwomen or with women like Caster Semenya. They have the right to do so.

Also, I do not agree with the principal of gender self-identification, at least when it comes to sport (or prisons or women only spaces). It is true that there are some men who will say they self-identify as a woman (whatever their true feelings) to come first in a contest. These are cheats.

Not all transwomen are cheats. There was a headline recently somewhere that said 'when are we going to recognise that transwomen are cheats?' It might have been Julia Hartley-Brewer who said it. This is the sort of extremism that I'm talking about.

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 17/01/2024 15:45

Why is Adam c&ping her own post from another thread?

I'll c&p mine then, if that's what we're doing

Look, I really don't have time for any of this right now, but I am willing to stand on a soap box and shout one thing:

Rapists and abusers are horrible men!

I assumed we all knew that. So why do people bring out the smelling salts at the suggestion that rapists might also be racist? Yes, they are. White ones fetishise and abuse women from other races. So do all the others.

If you come from such a monocultural area that you've never heard men (particularly teenage boys) of all ethnicities sounding off about what they think of women from other ethnicities, that's your knowledge gap. Don't make it our problem.

I don't know why people feel this need to insist that sexually abusive men must be paragons of fairness and justice along all the other possible axes of oppression. I guess it's misogyny; if you don't truly see women as people, you'll remain convinced that a man can be a serial rapist and a kind, non-discriminatory pillar of the community. Obviously he might still respect everyone else equally, regardless of their colour, creed, culture, nationality or disability! Hmm

AlisonDonut · 17/01/2024 15:47

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 15:13

@Helleofabore
If an athlete says that they should be able to compete in a female category, you would say no if they are trans. If someone asked you for your reason for excluding them you would say 'not telling' because you wouldn't want to out them. Have I understood what you are saying?

I too would say no, and I would explain to them that there are many women who do not wish to compete with transwomen or with women like Caster Semenya. They have the right to do so.

Also, I do not agree with the principal of gender self-identification, at least when it comes to sport (or prisons or women only spaces). It is true that there are some men who will say they self-identify as a woman (whatever their true feelings) to come first in a contest. These are cheats.

Not all transwomen are cheats. There was a headline recently somewhere that said 'when are we going to recognise that transwomen are cheats?' It might have been Julia Hartley-Brewer who said it. This is the sort of extremism that I'm talking about.

Any males entering a female race is a cheat.

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 15:49

The reason TW shouldn't compete against women is simple - they are NOT women.

Any TW that wants to compete against women is indeed a cheat.

What reason other than that is there for TW wanting to compete against women ? Using the other women as validation that the TW is a woman, why should women be used like that?

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 16:22

SuePine69 · 17/01/2024 15:13

@Helleofabore
If an athlete says that they should be able to compete in a female category, you would say no if they are trans. If someone asked you for your reason for excluding them you would say 'not telling' because you wouldn't want to out them. Have I understood what you are saying?

I too would say no, and I would explain to them that there are many women who do not wish to compete with transwomen or with women like Caster Semenya. They have the right to do so.

Also, I do not agree with the principal of gender self-identification, at least when it comes to sport (or prisons or women only spaces). It is true that there are some men who will say they self-identify as a woman (whatever their true feelings) to come first in a contest. These are cheats.

Not all transwomen are cheats. There was a headline recently somewhere that said 'when are we going to recognise that transwomen are cheats?' It might have been Julia Hartley-Brewer who said it. This is the sort of extremism that I'm talking about.

Because if the rules are made clear that a category is female only, why would anyone need to be 'outed' if there is an open category and females who choose to compete in the open category are doing so?

Having a 'special women's' category would attract who? Any person who doesn't qualify as a 'biological woman' in your words ie. Any person who is not female. Why would any female person compete in a category where a male person is going to enter and is likely to win? And we all saw how a trans category was set up and ignored in the recent swimming event.

ALL males who compete in a female category which has been set up to allow female people a chance to compete fairly are 'cheating'. Just because they may not be competing against the rules, if they are there, they are a potential harm for women and girls. And the harms are numerous, from physical harm through to causing a woman or girl to be excluded because that male took a place where a woman or girl could be, or because female people do not want to compete with or against a male person.

Again, you have tried to position yourself as some kind of middle ground / compromise advocate when you seem to have very little knowledge about how sport's categories work, what the intention of those categories are and what your solutions mean in practice.

Tell us, what other sport categories are you happy to allow the category boundaries to be breached just because someone identifies as something they are not. Seriously, you are arguing for cross category entry for athletes where no athlete has been permitted to enter before. Why are these males able to do this when no one else is?

Why can’t a 25 year old compete in the Masters in the other 75 year old category if they identify as a 75 year old?

Why can’t that 25 year old compete in the under 12 year old category if they identify as an under 12?

Why can’t a fully sighted person compete in a category for the visually impaired if they identify as visually impaired?

Why can’t a heavy weight compete in a lighter weight if they identify as that lighter weight?

Why can’t a black belt compete with a beginner if they identify as a beginner?

Why can’t a professional compete as an amateur if they say they are?

If you have ANY category that is labelled or 'women', 'girls', or 'female', then that category is single sex. There is no logic for having two categories and expecting any female athlete to compete in the 'special women's' category. Your solution is make believe and unworkable. And it gives all male people just another opportunity to win and ignores the needs of female athletes.

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 16:29

Not all transwomen are cheats.

When are they not?

Froodwithatowel · 17/01/2024 16:32

Yes, a male entering a female category is cheating. They are male. That's kind of the start and end of it.

If you feel that the reality of their sex is 'extremist' to notice then that's your belief system, but it's rather like saying it's extremist to be atheist. With 'extremist' meaning 'not really acceptable'.

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SaffronSpice · 17/01/2024 17:29

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 16:29

Not all transwomen are cheats.

When are they not?

When they enter men’s or open races alongside other men?

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 17:37

I take it though that creation of a special 'women's/girl's' category is a new 'this is a workable and kind compromise and anyone who thinks it still harms women is just an extremism' position. When all it is, is a suggestion that dismisses why women and girls require their own sport category at all. If they didn't need it for safety and dignity and fairness, those women and girls would simply compete with male people and there would be no fucking need for any female sport's categories.

Female sport's categories are not simply there to make female people feel validated as female people. They are there for a reason. Having two parallel female categories based purely on having one for a male who demands inclusion into a female category so as to leave the 'real female' (because that is what it will be) category alone is kindness gone irrational.

And males with DSDs have unique requirements and to be fair, most likely should have a category for themselves. However, that being said, I have also read a paper that suggests that there seems to be no evidence that 5ARD athletes could not excel in the male category. Their medical condition, iirc (and please correct me if I am wrong), doesn't reduce their capacity to perform at an elite male standard.

Simply creating special categories for athletes to identify into based on feelings achieves what exactly?

What other group of people making hard decisions to take medication that limits their performance seek access to sports category that is not created for their needs, but for the needs of a protected characteristic group?

What other group of people making hard decisions to take medication that limits their performance seek to be treated as female athletes when they are not?

What other group of people making hard decisions to take medication that limits their performance don't accept that they are the sex they also were just with their performance limited by medication?

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 17:39

SaffronSpice · 17/01/2024 17:29

When they enter men’s or open races alongside other men?

yes.

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 17:41

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Is this poster claiming that Neighbourhood is racist?

This poster seems to have a tendency to keep calling FWR regulars racist and other names lately. They make some pretty nasty generalisations about FWR and MN.

Can you confirm AdamRyan? Are you calling Neighbourhood and other posters on FWR racist?

Boiledbeetle · 17/01/2024 18:14

I've just told you that prostitution isn't about women sold for sex or selling themselves for sex. Why do you persist with your Victorian attitudes? I've told you that the vast majority of prostitutes can afford to keep themselves in other ways but find that prostitution suits them. Believe me, most of them have got more money than you have. I have respect for them and their dignity.

Oh my Fucking God! No prostitute I've ever known, and for various reasons I've known more than a lot of people, have ever been able to afford to keep themselves in other ways. They sell themselves for sex, usually whilst giving their pimp his cut, because they need the tenner they are going to get to feed their kid, feed their habit, pay their rent, pay the guy they owe money to.... I could go on, but invariably it's because they either feel like they don't, or they actually don't, have a bloody choice. These aren't women who are going to be able to get regular jobs with regular hours and regular wages. These are usually women with abusive traumatic histories, with fucked up heads, fragile mental health, usually drug addictions and usually up to their eyes in debt.

I must remember next time I see my neighbour slip off down the back lane to get in a dodgy blokes car to earn some money to top up the electric meter so that her daughter is warm through the winter that she's probably got more money than me, she's not selling herself for sex, and that she's just doing it because it suits her! I'm sure she'll be thrilled!!

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 18:15

It is the 'happy hooker' story Boiled. The complete dismissal of the reality.

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 18:24

On the subject of the special categories for special people in sport, remember the debacle of the Boston Marathon when they introduced a Non Binary Category open to all who claimed Non Binary status and then surprise, surprise there was moaning a-plenty when it became clear that one category of non binaries wiped the floor with the other participants. It won't shock anyone here to realise that the non binaries who excelled were all of the same sex class. The solution suggested was to have TWO separate non binary categories based on, you'll never guess, Male and Female - you really couldn't make this shit up.

The idea that sport is to be used to validate identities and not out people is so far on the bonkers scale as to be circling somewhere round Mars.

Helleofabore · 17/01/2024 18:32

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 18:24

On the subject of the special categories for special people in sport, remember the debacle of the Boston Marathon when they introduced a Non Binary Category open to all who claimed Non Binary status and then surprise, surprise there was moaning a-plenty when it became clear that one category of non binaries wiped the floor with the other participants. It won't shock anyone here to realise that the non binaries who excelled were all of the same sex class. The solution suggested was to have TWO separate non binary categories based on, you'll never guess, Male and Female - you really couldn't make this shit up.

The idea that sport is to be used to validate identities and not out people is so far on the bonkers scale as to be circling somewhere round Mars.

Yes.

The NB category remains won by male people. Just the male people. And they get equal prize money both the male and female place getters while coming in hundreds after the winning male and mere minutes behind the winning female.

But apparently, as this is supposedly not harming anyone at all (except female NB people) it is to be applauded. That there is less chances for female athletes to win and not equal chances for female athletes to win is dismissed or ignored because it is an inconvenient truth that gets in the way of the 'middle ground'.

However, this is a great example of why sports should not be used as the opportunity for male people to validate their special feelings (ie. those feelings according to Prawn).

GailBlancheViola · 17/01/2024 19:02

I take it though that creation of a special 'women's/girl's' category is a new 'this is a workable and kind compromise and anyone who thinks it still harms women is just an extremism' position. When all it is, is a suggestion that dismisses why women and girls require their own sport category at all.

But the special 'non outing' category will not only validate the TW as woman, because look if I am competing with the women I must be/am a woman it will also allow access for the TW into the same changing space because as above.

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