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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Miriam Cates under investigation

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Arealnumber · 18/12/2023 14:05

Why has Miriam Cates suddenly gone under investigation? The comments in The Times are usually highly supportive of the MPs that speak out against Gender Ideology but they're properly railing against her. What has been her downfall?

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YoullCatchYourDeathInTheFog · 29/12/2023 12:25

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 11:51

So here we go with a Cates specialty:
Labour are proposing to increase childcare provision, reduce childcare costs and provide more continuity between school and nursery.

All necessary to give women a genuine choice about whether or not to return to work.

Cates appears to disagree with the idea of childcare full stop - children should be at home. With a primary caregiver. She doesn't specify the gender but I think we can guess

https://twitter.com/miriam_cates/status/1740647102869348757

I particularly like the way that "the end of parental leave" (1 year) has turned into "6 months if you're lucky" in the course of a single tweet.

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 12:54

Children form secure attachments when they're looked after by a primary caregiver for the first 3 years.

Cates seems to be suggesting we need cheaper housing and lower living costs so that parents can choose whether they'd prefer to care for their children or return to work

This does not seem at all outrageous to me. It seems logical, fair, and compassionate.

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 12:54

I take it no further info on the investigation.

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 13:02

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 12:54

Children form secure attachments when they're looked after by a primary caregiver for the first 3 years.

Cates seems to be suggesting we need cheaper housing and lower living costs so that parents can choose whether they'd prefer to care for their children or return to work

This does not seem at all outrageous to me. It seems logical, fair, and compassionate.

Cates is a Conservative MP. Conservatives are traditionally laissez faire, lower government spending, lower tax and a tendency to rely on market forces to set costs.
We live in a society where many couples both work, therefore market forces dictate house prices that are often out of reach of single earner families.
If she wants redistribution of wealth into lower paid households to improve their living standards she's in the wrong party

If she wants to affect society so single earner families become the norm again (and thus markets adjust to reflect this) she's going to have to be thinking of some pretty draconian ways to "encourage" one parent to stay at home. Or she just hasn't thought it through, not sure which.

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 13:04

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 11:36

Oh my gosh.
Many Christian festivals developed from much older festivals.
I celebrate Christmas as a family time with presents and food. That's also the way the Roman midwinter festival of Saturnalia (25th december) was celebrated, or the Germanic Yule celebrations. I'm sure you know this, you come across as well read.

Christmas is important to Christians as a religious holiday but in the UK its also important to non Christians as a cultural tradition. The existence of Christmas does not mean the UK is a religious country. We are secular.

Yes, Winter Solstice became Christmas, for example ( the point of light in the darkest night), but that doesn't negate the many hundreds of years of Christian custom, practice, social developments or tradition.Societies develop over time via modication and absorption of other influences - but that bedrock remains in the collective unconscious and shapes the group identity.

The West has a Christian bedrock, beneath which is a more pagan bedrock. Images and symbolism are reflective of individual cultures as well as of human society more generally. Practices, customs, learnings don't arise out of nothing.

I'm sure you aware of the Jungian diagram of the psyche - with the individual consciousnes above the surface, the individual unconscious beneath the surface, and then even deeper roots in the social and then collective unconscious forming the bedrock below.

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 13:05

I think house prices and childcare costs are outrageous BTW. But prefer Labour's approach of building more homes so demand is reduced and prices come down, and putting in place more affordable and flexible childcare that means parents have more choice of whether to work and how much.

If you read the Times article linked in her thread, it's actually pretty shocking the disparity in available childcare in rich vs. poor areas of the country

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 13:06

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 13:04

Yes, Winter Solstice became Christmas, for example ( the point of light in the darkest night), but that doesn't negate the many hundreds of years of Christian custom, practice, social developments or tradition.Societies develop over time via modication and absorption of other influences - but that bedrock remains in the collective unconscious and shapes the group identity.

The West has a Christian bedrock, beneath which is a more pagan bedrock. Images and symbolism are reflective of individual cultures as well as of human society more generally. Practices, customs, learnings don't arise out of nothing.

I'm sure you aware of the Jungian diagram of the psyche - with the individual consciousnes above the surface, the individual unconscious beneath the surface, and then even deeper roots in the social and then collective unconscious forming the bedrock below.

Edited

So we agree that the existence of Christian/Pagan/fundamentally human festivals isn't necessarily an indicator we live in a religious country then?

Northernnature · 29/12/2023 13:10

Britain is absolutely based on Christian values such as tolerance, equality and compromise. These are embedded in our laws and culture unlike in countries which do not have a strong Christian tradition. Imo the way society is set up at the moment where many can't afford children as mortgages are based on two salaries and people are only valued on their tax contribution to society (which the left should disagree with) has made both women and men unhappier. That is what Miriam thinks too. People like us have a right to be represented in a democracy and if elected that would reflect the majority opinion. The people in power have always imposed their view on people that don't agree (ie me for the last 20 years), actually the govt atm of which miriam is not a part, refect very few peoples view and don't do anything the people want.

OldCrone · 29/12/2023 13:17

We live in a society where many couples both work, therefore market forces dictate house prices that are often out of reach of single earner families.
If she wants redistribution of wealth into lower paid households to improve their living standards she's in the wrong party

Which is the right party? The biggest percentage increase in house prices in recent years occurred between 1997 and 2008.

Miriam Cates under investigation
Miriam Cates under investigation
ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 13:43

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 13:05

I think house prices and childcare costs are outrageous BTW. But prefer Labour's approach of building more homes so demand is reduced and prices come down, and putting in place more affordable and flexible childcare that means parents have more choice of whether to work and how much.

If you read the Times article linked in her thread, it's actually pretty shocking the disparity in available childcare in rich vs. poor areas of the country

Cates is calling for cheaper housing.

Not sure how this is 'draconian', or any different to Labour's approach.

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 13:45

'So instead of spending £billions taking babies off their mothers (which doesn’t increase birth rate, cf. Finland), spend it on tax cuts and cheap housing for families'
'…so parents can CHOOSE how to care for their children. If we’re really interested in productivity growth we should be investing in FAMILIES not trying to squeeze every last drop of short-term GDP ‘contribution’ out of parents'

(Cates' recent tweets)

TheClogLady · 29/12/2023 14:25

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 10:33

Except that is not what Miriam Cates is attempting to do. She is outlining her own vision for what makes for a stable and functional society. She's not demanding that you become a practicing Christian yourself.

Britain, contrary to what you'd think by reading your posts, is one of the most tolerant and liberal societies on earth. It is also one of the most stable and functional.

Edited

I found Ayaan Hirsi Ali’s recent take on Christianity really y

https://unherd.com/2023/11/why-i-am-now-a-christian/

(I have no spiritual beliefs whatsoever, personally!)

Ayaan Hirsi Ali: From New Atheist to Christian convert

📰 Subscribe to UnHerd today at: http://unherd.com/joinUnHerd's Freddie Sayers sits down with former New Atheist Ayaan Hirsi Ali to discuss why she now consi...

https://youtu.be/3B6oLMrHQhs?si=PBGlqweejB_oEhHw

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 15:20

Northernnature · 29/12/2023 13:10

Britain is absolutely based on Christian values such as tolerance, equality and compromise. These are embedded in our laws and culture unlike in countries which do not have a strong Christian tradition. Imo the way society is set up at the moment where many can't afford children as mortgages are based on two salaries and people are only valued on their tax contribution to society (which the left should disagree with) has made both women and men unhappier. That is what Miriam thinks too. People like us have a right to be represented in a democracy and if elected that would reflect the majority opinion. The people in power have always imposed their view on people that don't agree (ie me for the last 20 years), actually the govt atm of which miriam is not a part, refect very few peoples view and don't do anything the people want.

Britain is absolutely based on values such as tolerance, equality and compromise.
These are shared human values and are embedded into most religions and societies. They are absolutely not a unique British or Christian feature.

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 15:25

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 13:45

'So instead of spending £billions taking babies off their mothers (which doesn’t increase birth rate, cf. Finland), spend it on tax cuts and cheap housing for families'
'…so parents can CHOOSE how to care for their children. If we’re really interested in productivity growth we should be investing in FAMILIES not trying to squeeze every last drop of short-term GDP ‘contribution’ out of parents'

(Cates' recent tweets)

Edited

How do the government ensure who gets to buy the "cheap" houses? How does the government define "family"?

It's a very anti-Conservative approach to dictate who gets what from a centralised government, is the point I was making.

It sounds like the NatCons preferred approach is more akin to a form of communism, where wealth is redistributed according to the needs of the community.

TheClogLady · 29/12/2023 15:32

Has ‘wealth is redistributed according to the needs of the community’
ever actually happened under communism then?

EasternStandard · 29/12/2023 15:34

OldCrone · 29/12/2023 13:17

We live in a society where many couples both work, therefore market forces dictate house prices that are often out of reach of single earner families.
If she wants redistribution of wealth into lower paid households to improve their living standards she's in the wrong party

Which is the right party? The biggest percentage increase in house prices in recent years occurred between 1997 and 2008.

Which is the right party? The biggest percentage increase in house prices in recent years occurred between 1997 and 2008.

Good point

ButterflyHatched · 29/12/2023 15:35

Miriam Cates is the "72 goetic demons genders" porky pies one isn't she?

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 16:37

TheClogLady · 29/12/2023 15:32

Has ‘wealth is redistributed according to the needs of the community’
ever actually happened under communism then?

It's happened about as much as "trickle down economics" has happened in capitalist societies! 😂
My point is that if a Government pursued Cates' suggestions of prioritising "families" for cheap housing and support, that they would have to be more interventionist than conservatives traditionally are.

Maybe you could address that point rather than trying to derail?

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 16:41

TheClogLady · 29/12/2023 14:25

I found Ayaan Hirsi Ali’s recent take on Christianity really y

https://unherd.com/2023/11/why-i-am-now-a-christian/

(I have no spiritual beliefs whatsoever, personally!)

I'd not heard of Ayan Hirsi Ali until recently (on this board coincidentally). She is not really the most reliable person so I'd take what she says with a pinch of salt

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2006/5/16/dutch-mp-quits-over-asylum-lies

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O0QT7KMWERI

Dutch MP quits over asylum lies

Ayaan Hirsi Ali, the controversial Somali-born member of the Dutch parliament, has said she will resign and leave the country after admitting lying in her asylum application.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2006/5/16/dutch-mp-quits-over-asylum-lies

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 16:52

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 13:06

So we agree that the existence of Christian/Pagan/fundamentally human festivals isn't necessarily an indicator we live in a religious country then?

That's not what I said. I said the West has a long and deep rooted Christian tradition that has shaped our culture. (Though we also have remnants of native folk/fertility religions in the form of Maypole dancing and Harvest Festivals)

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 16:54

TheClogLady · 29/12/2023 14:25

I found Ayaan Hirsi Ali’s recent take on Christianity really y

https://unherd.com/2023/11/why-i-am-now-a-christian/

(I have no spiritual beliefs whatsoever, personally!)

I have a lot of time for Ayyan Hirsi Ali. I'll have to take a proper listen. I'm aware that she has recently turned to Christianity.

RebelliousCow · 29/12/2023 16:57

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 16:41

I'd not heard of Ayan Hirsi Ali until recently (on this board coincidentally). She is not really the most reliable person so I'd take what she says with a pinch of salt

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.aljazeera.com/amp/news/2006/5/16/dutch-mp-quits-over-asylum-lies

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O0QT7KMWERI

On the contrary, she has vast experience and has led quite a remarkable life. I'd take her word over that of most others. You should read her memoirs before making such a judgement, I'd say.

Some muslims have a fatwah out against her because they consider her an infidel. I'll not take al jazeera too seriously when reporting on her. She knows Islam inside and out - having been brought up in Somalia and in Saudi Arabia, and having been a Muslim scholar.

AdamRyan · 29/12/2023 17:20

Well people can Google her and draw their own conclusions. She lies so her autobiography could be accurate, or it could be a work of fiction 🤔

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 17:32

'Hirsi Ali, 36, falsified her name and date of birth on her asylum application when she arrived in 1992, fearing reprisals from her family after she claimed she fled from an arranged marriage.'

ArthurbellaScott · 29/12/2023 17:41

Gosh. The Minister who effectively made Hirsi Ali leave was subsequentlu expelled from Geert Wilder's party.

Having inistally falsified details on her asylum claim, Hirsi Ali subsequently revealed this, and the reason, and there had been no issue.

Only the far right Immigration Minister decided she would expel her years later.

Glad I looked into all that, thanks Adam Ryan. My estimation for AHA only increases.

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