And normally, people accept that everyone has to accept limits that protect others. What do we say so often on MN? 'This is why we can't have nice things'.
Because some people will be dicks, exploit the situation and do harm.
This is the only group I ever remember where there is such fear of saying no to them that others are prepared to continually offer up others to be harmed, and to proclaim this extreme, willful naivety. For example that a thirty year old man who spends his time expressing a fairly extreme version of a fetish with clients about young girls might be perfectly safe in a changing room with young girls, (where any other male who did not identify as having a woman's identity, with or without his sex work history, would be regarded as absolutely an unacceptable risk) and is wishing to be there for perfectly innocent reasons. And is wholly unaware that his size and weight is putting those girls at risk of serious injury, or that his presence is damaging their sporting opportunities.
Basic, basic safeguarding. Ask the difficult questions. Think the unthinkable.