There is no reason to go getting things deleted.
Some people have the belief of gender identity. That's fine. They prefer to use pronouns of a person's choice and to go along with the illusion of the person being that sex with a high priority placed on that person not experiencing anything that makes it difficult to maintain this illusion. And I fully understand this.
Some people do not share this belief, and think that sex is real and matters, and there are necessary limits on requiring others to maintain another person's illusion or protect their preferred experience of reality. Particularly when it begins to remove their equality of rights, their access, and becomes a source of harassment and prejudice. Such as that lesbianism is a relationship between two people who choose the word and are of either sex.
That would be fine so long as those wishing to do this, are able to equally respect that some people define themselves as homosexual, see and name sex and wish to be clear about their homosexuality and proud of it. Live and let live is required of the gender movement, some tolerance and some capacity to live alongside people of other beliefs, without trying to forcibly convert or eliminate.
I'll be a homosexual lesbian. You be whatever bi kind of lesbian you want to be and whatever kind of sex you want. We'll both be out and proud, we'll support and live alongside each other, we'll have groups that work for both of us and permit us to have the support and pride that we need. What's wrong with that? Other than that to do this means that the existence of sex is visible and some people find that so distressing that they'd prefer to distress others than tolerate it?