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NHS nurse on my facebook just changed her profile picture to this

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welcometothepartyyy · 05/10/2023 22:24

Inappropriate, much?

NHS nurse on my facebook just changed her profile picture to this
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RedToothBrush · 06/10/2023 14:42

I'd report her if I otherwise thought she was a knobber. But then why would I have her as a friend on Facebook if that was the case.

Tbh if she's off transing her child and shouting about the virtues of Mermaids, she'd be long gone (and yes true if a family member too) more than likely because there's not a cat in hell's chance I wouldn't have confronted her over it.

Floisme · 06/10/2023 15:03

Confront her, challenge her, unfriend her, avoid her - I don't care about any of that. It's the support for the idea of reporting her to her employer that leaves me Shock

Signalbox · 06/10/2023 15:14

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 06/10/2023 13:40

Agree its shocking so many people think the post is ok. It really isn't.

I don’t think it’s ok. I do think you’d be a total twat to report her to her employer for it.

I also wonder what fantasy land some posters live in, if they think a regulator (the NMC in her case)is going to pull her up on it. All the regulators are totally captured. She’d probably get a pat on the back.

I also wonder what fantasy land some posters live in, if they think a regulator (the NMC in her case)is going to pull her up on it. All the regulators are totally captured. She’d probably get a pat on the back.

I think you are right that the NMC wouldn't be interested in this post.

Whilst it would be impossible to rule out the fact that the NMC are Stonewall Diversity Champions having some influence, I really doubt they would give it the time of day regardless. The costs and time involved for the sake of one ill-advised SM breach (if a breach has even occurred) would be way out of proportion.

It's not as if the regulators are ignoring SM abusive behaviour entirely such as in the case of the Charming Dr Harrop where there is actual bullying and targeted harassment taking place.

NMC's online guidance...

https://www.nmc.org.uk/globalassets/sitedocuments/nmc-publications/social-media-guidance.pdf

https://www.nmc.org.uk/globalassets/sitedocuments/nmc-publications/social-media-guidance.pdf

Topofthemountain · 06/10/2023 15:35

Virtual signalling rubbish. They prove their trans allyship whilst also proving that they are so much better than a Tory.

What they are actually saying is that they would prefer to be in a bed next to Karen White, then 95 year old Doris. Like hell they would.

literalviolence · 06/10/2023 23:28

Stephannee · 06/10/2023 14:41

So how come it's not ok for a nurse to post in support of trans people in her own time, but it's perfectly ok for a social worker (rachel maede) to post negatively of trans people?

I support trans people and will happily share my hospital ward with a transman. This is not a post of support though is it? It's an anti GC, anti evidence, anti Tory, anti women post.

Ofcourseshecan · 06/10/2023 23:30

Passepartoute · 06/10/2023 09:14

You do know that nurses have no say on who is admitted where as a patient?

You really want men totally barred from women's wards? That's going to make staffing a bit awkward, to say nothing of visiting times.

Where did I write that nurses decide who is admitted, or that I want male staff and visitors barred?

I wrote about a nurse expressing hostility, and about male intruders, in which I include men claiming to be women and occupying beds in women’s wards.

GrannyRose15 · 07/10/2023 02:24

Stephannee · 06/10/2023 12:00

Complaining about the mentioned Nurse may involve her being spoken to and potentially having a polite request to take down her post, but I guarantee it will not change her views. All that will be achieved will be pissing her off and she may double down and support trans people even more, even if she can't post it on her FB.

How can she support trans people even more? That doesn’t make sense. But there again that isn’t the main problem with the post. It is the implied discrimination against those with political views opposed to her own that is the most worrying part.

crunchermuncher · 07/10/2023 03:08

No they aren't! Same as people in many organisations.

I used to be an NHS administrator and would have been disciplined over a post like this.

Publicly criticising your employer on sm is never a good idea (and is actively forbidden my post ecology contexts)- why is this so difficult for some people to grasp?

crunchermuncher · 07/10/2023 03:09

(^^ Was a response to 'nurses are allowed to make political posts' upthread).

napody · 07/10/2023 07:32

crunchermuncher · 07/10/2023 03:08

No they aren't! Same as people in many organisations.

I used to be an NHS administrator and would have been disciplined over a post like this.

Publicly criticising your employer on sm is never a good idea (and is actively forbidden my post ecology contexts)- why is this so difficult for some people to grasp?

'Your employer' lol.
That would be very handy for conservatives wouldn't it, if public sector workers, who are the ones at the front line of enacting services with no budget, were forbidden from commenting.

If you actually read the SM policies upthread you'll see that it would be a real reach to apply it to criticising government. And if you did, it'd be a huge infringement of freedom of speech for a large swathe of the population.

And the oroginal post although misguided was nothing to do with 'refusing to treat' someone; that's a misinterpretation which has been corrected on this thread many times and is still popping back up.

Mary1234567 · 07/10/2023 07:56

But does she identify herself as nhs staff on her profile?

Mary1234567 · 07/10/2023 07:59

How do you know that? The OP maybe just knows she’s a nurse from her personal knowledge of this woman, not necessarily that she has a profile identifying herself as a nurse. And the post says ‘share’ a ward which to me doesn’t allude to being a nurse

Mary1234567 · 07/10/2023 08:00

The post doesn’t say she would rather treat a trans person than a Tory. It says share a ward with.

Mary1234567 · 07/10/2023 08:08

Bring a Tory is not one of the protected characteristics under the equality act

Signalbox · 07/10/2023 10:17

Mary1234567 · 07/10/2023 08:08

Bring a Tory is not one of the protected characteristics under the equality act

Political opinion would fall under the PC of belief.

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