There is a difference between being an anti trans bigot and and being anti the subset of trans activists positions that remove women's rights , remove the very definition of women , and reduce women to a feeling in the brain
To me the difference is that an anti trans bigot would not want men and women to be able to dress as they want , call themselves what they want. In fact an anti trans bigot tends to be a a mysogenistic as the TRA group - neither are comfortable with strong women who defy gender norms
It's just we defy the norm without denying biology
So I don't think an anti trans bigot is someone who says
No to make bodies in women's sports
No to gender segregation or stereotypes
No to poisoners chemicals in children's bodies to make them look like a different sex ( just accept the children as they are , don't treat then different because of the sex , see point 2 no gender segregation )
( I would accept a grown up discussion on sex segregation ( that's things like toilets and women's shortlists and awards ) in the context of "is it still needed in modern society " although my guess is the answer unfortunately is still yes . When that answer is no then we could talk about womens prisons )
There does seem to be some alarming polarised simplistic thinking - binary thinking from a group of people who reject the binary