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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transman loses baby during hysterectomy

317 replies

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 09/08/2023 09:44

Transgender patient loses unborn baby while undergoing hysterectomy while four months pregnant https://mol.im/a/12387829

This article is horrifying.
In my experience women are always given pregnancy tests before surgery, what the hell happened here?

Female-to-male patient loses unborn baby while undergoing hysterectomy

Jesse Pohlner, 38, was four months pregnant when he underwent a full hysterectomy at Royal Women's Hospital in Melbourne during lockdown in 2021.

https://mol.im/a/12387829

OP posts:
pickledandpuzzled · 09/08/2023 11:05

I can't believe the hospital would rely on a patient's word re pregnancy.

I wouldn't take a test before a hysterectomy, because I'd know the hospital are obliged to do one. I mean, I would if I suspected because I wouldn't want the hassle of being turned away on the day, but I'd never suspect the hospital would rely on one I had done.

This is a hospital cock up, and blaming the woman involved is very very unreasonable. Regardless of her appearance.

borntobequiet · 09/08/2023 11:05

Elepunt · 09/08/2023 10:54

It wasn't standard to conduct pregnancy tests in this hospital, it was only mandatory if the answers indicated there was a chance. This has rightfully now be changed, but the questions were around menstruation and sexual activity- I'd be interested to know the answers given that made the nurse say they didn't need a test. It's also disingenuous for the reasons mentioned previously to discount the impact of a woman's hospital having to play along with someone's delusions on being a man.

Good post.

Datun · 09/08/2023 11:05

I do think it's rather worrying that no pregnancy test was actually done for a woman about to have a hysterectomy.

That it's dependent on a questionnaire. It's so unreliable.

i'm surprised this is the first time that something has gone wrong tbh.

Superfood · 09/08/2023 11:05

Everything about this story is horrible.

The mother whose children are forced to call her "he" and "him".

Unnecessary, dangerous, invasive surgery performed because of a mad cult-like religion.

Hospital incompetence.

Patient being dishonest.

An unborn baby dying due to the idiocy and incompetence of adults.

Just awful from start to finish. No one involved in this should feel happy with themselves.

Folkevermore · 09/08/2023 11:07

It is extremely sad, I'm glad they have now changed their policy to say every woman is tested as standard. Without knowing the answers given to the questions I don't think it's fair to judge the nurse though.

Ifeelsuchflutterings · 09/08/2023 11:08

Elepunt · 09/08/2023 11:03

You'd surely answer that you have PCOS and don't have regular periods and that you can't accurately recall when you last had sex, there's nothing to indicate this wouldn't trigger the need for a test.

No but there are a lot of people claiming that the person in question must have known exactly when they had sex several months before

Do we really all know this off the top of our heads?

And now its womens own faults if they dont remember exactly when they last had sex

Unless the person in question lied and said that they had been having periods for the last few months then they are in a similar situation as a woman with PCOS where hormonal activity leads to them having irregular/no periods.

If thats enough to trigger a pregnancy test for a woman with pcos it should be enough to trigger a pregnancy test for a patient on (I assume) testosterone

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TallulahBetty · 09/08/2023 11:08

I find it heard to believe that there was no policy to give a woman (ANY woman, having a hysterectomy for ANY reason) a PG test beforehand?

FoodFann · 09/08/2023 11:09

Dystopia. Worse than fiction.

Datun · 09/08/2023 11:10

TallulahBetty · 09/08/2023 11:08

I find it heard to believe that there was no policy to give a woman (ANY woman, having a hysterectomy for ANY reason) a PG test beforehand?

I agree. Which is why I kept wondering if it's because they thought she was a man.

PandaPouch · 09/08/2023 11:11

So he was having sex vaginally?.... However, defines himself a man but expects to be offered a pregnancy test... Except that suggestion would likely offend? I don't get it.

Badbudgeter · 09/08/2023 11:11

DisquietintheRanks · 09/08/2023 10:51

Actually no, the responsibility to test lies squarely with the hospital. I've had to test before all sorts of procedures, it's not generally optional.

I’d agree with this. I had to have a pregnancy test before they operated on a broken wrist despite me knowing I was definitely not pregnant. It’s a standard part of pre-op checks for women of child bearing age.

BertieBotts · 09/08/2023 11:11

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 09:58

So it happened in lockdown, when consultations etc were done remotely and healthcare services were generally under pressure.

The surgery was rushed and booked in for only 10 days after the consultation.

The patient was assured a pregnancy test would be done but this didn't happen.

They were asked a series of questions to determine if pregnancy was a possibility, but still no test was done.

I don't think this has anything to do with the patients trans status, I think this is a hospital cock-up.

THIS. I think labelling this as a trans issue is being done deliberately - to stoke more "OMG trans pandering has gone insaaaaaaaaane!!" but also possibly to take the eye off the fact that "routine" health services were woefully inadequate and not fit for purpose during the pandemic.

I don't think I will ever forgive that TBH as I believe it to be quite a significant factor in my cousin's premature death.

It speaks nicely to the anti-abortion crowd as well, many of whom overlap with the "transgenderism is an ungodly abomination!!" crowd who I have absolutely no wish to sympathise with, even though I agree some of the GC arguments make sense.

Whether or not you think sex change operations should be considered routine, it's important to see how/why this is being reported in the way that it is.

Dinopawus · 09/08/2023 11:12

Hospitals should always do a pregnancy test on any female of childbearing age before this type of surgery.

I rather suspect that if this woman didn't identify as a trans man, there wouldn't be the comments of "it's all her fault, she should have taken a pregnancy test"

If the woman didn't identify as a transman, they wouldn't have been able to access an elective hysterectomy.

Caipirovska · 09/08/2023 11:12

@Elepunt I did.

I said it was routine to test in UK I didn't miss this was Australia or that the hospital didn't test - and my point was they should have routinely tested all women - like the UK seems to do - and that poster was wrong to put responsibility on the patient.

You have reminded me why I rarely post here though - so I shall go and do something more useful.

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:15

When people say there's no transphobia on MN, this is the kind of thread that proves them wrong.

In this thread, the patient in question:

  • has been referred to as "it"
  • has been repeatedly accused of lying
  • has been accused of forcing her children to call her "he" or "him", despite that being completely irrelevant and totally omitted from the article
  • has been victim-blamed beyond belief (why didn't they do their own pregnancy test)
  • has been accused of just being after compo
  • has had their sex life speculated over in some rather crass ways

Honestly, it's an appalling thread about a god-awful tragic situation.

TallulahBetty · 09/08/2023 11:17

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:15

When people say there's no transphobia on MN, this is the kind of thread that proves them wrong.

In this thread, the patient in question:

  • has been referred to as "it"
  • has been repeatedly accused of lying
  • has been accused of forcing her children to call her "he" or "him", despite that being completely irrelevant and totally omitted from the article
  • has been victim-blamed beyond belief (why didn't they do their own pregnancy test)
  • has been accused of just being after compo
  • has had their sex life speculated over in some rather crass ways

Honestly, it's an appalling thread about a god-awful tragic situation.

You list your pronouns at the bottom of your email signature, don't you?

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 09/08/2023 11:18

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:15

When people say there's no transphobia on MN, this is the kind of thread that proves them wrong.

In this thread, the patient in question:

  • has been referred to as "it"
  • has been repeatedly accused of lying
  • has been accused of forcing her children to call her "he" or "him", despite that being completely irrelevant and totally omitted from the article
  • has been victim-blamed beyond belief (why didn't they do their own pregnancy test)
  • has been accused of just being after compo
  • has had their sex life speculated over in some rather crass ways

Honestly, it's an appalling thread about a god-awful tragic situation.

All of this. 100%.

nocoolnamesleft · 09/08/2023 11:19

It is certainly plausible that confusion/political correctness around trans issues contributed to the hospital's error. But the patient was having a hysterectomy, so the biological sex should have been blindingly obvious, as only biological women can have hysterectomies. This was predominantly the hospital's error.

Elepunt · 09/08/2023 11:19

Caipirovska · 09/08/2023 11:12

@Elepunt I did.

I said it was routine to test in UK I didn't miss this was Australia or that the hospital didn't test - and my point was they should have routinely tested all women - like the UK seems to do - and that poster was wrong to put responsibility on the patient.

You have reminded me why I rarely post here though - so I shall go and do something more useful.

But it says it wasn't the hospital they were ats policy to test.

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:20

TallulahBetty · 09/08/2023 11:17

You list your pronouns at the bottom of your email signature, don't you?

No I don't.

Do you really deny that there is obvious transphobia on this thread?

DisquietintheRanks · 09/08/2023 11:21

Datun · 09/08/2023 11:10

I agree. Which is why I kept wondering if it's because they thought she was a man.

Don't be ridiculous. Any medical professional that doesn't understand that a hysterectomy means the removal of a uterus, or that the presence of a uterus signals the possibility of a pregnancy needs sacking. This is one case where pronouns, feelings, identification and even legal recognition make no difference.

NotBadConsidering · 09/08/2023 11:23

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:20

No I don't.

Do you really deny that there is obvious transphobia on this thread?

Which post called the patient it?

Clymene · 09/08/2023 11:24

Datun · 09/08/2023 11:05

I do think it's rather worrying that no pregnancy test was actually done for a woman about to have a hysterectomy.

That it's dependent on a questionnaire. It's so unreliable.

i'm surprised this is the first time that something has gone wrong tbh.

Agreed. Very surprised that this high risk policy hasn't led to this situation before.

Flickersy · 09/08/2023 11:26

NotBadConsidering · 09/08/2023 11:23

Which post called the patient it?

At 10.44 Beach-something username. On page 3.

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