The phenomenon is really frothy now. Post modernism by definition abhors boundaries and definitions.
That's fine when it's in some boring as shit book by Judith Butler or Gender Studies degree, but when it invades the real world...?
And of course management said their only concern is the physical health of the poor dehydrated gimp. This stuff is all written down in a pamphlet somewhere.
Imagine the groupthink in the theatre back office...the women, and men, shamed into silence to not speak out; those women, and men, who are so in fear of their livelihoods and social connections, that they express only one thought, for our new gimpy friend.
And then those happy to wave this thru, seeing Queer Theory jump from their dusty theoretical Intersectional Analysis 101 pages to the real world, to crowbar it's way into real people, incl women, mums, kids. And seeing this as one in the eye against the cisheteronormative patriarchy.