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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Trans 4 times as likely to be victims of violent crimes'

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WhisperingAutistic · 06/07/2023 19:20

Just having a bit of a do with my 20 year old DS and he hit me with that.

Is there data that shows otherwise? My Google skills are not pulling up much.

Cheers

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h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 07/07/2023 00:35

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 06/07/2023 20:47

im always amazed at how many people will diminish the abuse trans people face by dismissing evidence. It is hard to be trans, and many live in fear. Is it so hard to believe people when they tell you about their experiences??

Yeah. You'd think they'd be more sympathetic to women's fears and concerns over abuse and the threat of violence because of that, wouldn't you?

Hear hear

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 07/07/2023 00:36

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 06/07/2023 21:05

Also perhaps the non trans woman has probably experienced so so much shit over the course of her life that there comes a point when you almost stop noticing Angry it's normalised

Definitely. How many times have we been groped in public? I wouldn’t count that as a crime against myself even though it technically is. What would the point be? No one would give a shit.

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 07/07/2023 00:39

According to the UK census trans women were less likely than anyone else to be victims of murder. That’s not all violent crime but it is something quantifiable. They are also 5 times as likely as non-trans men to be imprisoned for sex crimes.

Ramblingnamechanger · 07/07/2023 01:27

Recently had cause to visit the local gay bar who advertised their pride event as being about queer and kink. As lesbians we wanted to counter this by standing outside with a large sign saying things like hight heels and make up won’t make you a woman, lesbians don’t have penises, get the L out. We were told to move as people said they felt unsafe…if this is the sort of thing they are talking about maybe the figures stack up up, but there was no way that two old dykes were going to be a risk to anyone.

Coyoacan · 07/07/2023 01:37

Well if that is true, I for one will demand that they be treated better, but putting them in opposite sex spaces is not the obvious solution

Codlingmoths · 07/07/2023 01:59

LilyPark · 06/07/2023 20:24

I guess this is the problem. There may be 'fake' trans men who want to use that to gain access to women. There may be impressionable kids who would not have thought of being trans without being exposed to that idea. But from my observation of my relative there are also 'genuine' trans people, where the mapping of their gender identity in their brain and their physical bodies doesn't match. We just don't yet understand what is going on to cause that, and why it is so distressing for them that they will even risk being physically attacked and disowned by their families in order to pursue being trans.

I think this is ‘Old school trans’ - what trans people used to be , before a whole bunch of predatory men and a third of susceptible teenagers decided they were trans too (as well as young children with what must be deeply unhappy parents to tell their child they are the wrong sex) Old school trans people are not helped by this new approach - they originally were by all the let everyone be themselves message of pride and progressive society generally, which was great. But now poor people like your relative are associated with the bollocks these groups pour out, and it’s harming of women, children, and young people.

Runningslow · 07/07/2023 06:42

LilyPark · 06/07/2023 20:01

Well being trans is only shit if people respond badly to you. I think they want to help other people who feel as they do not feel alone and feel able to become who they feel themselves to be. Obviously trans rights is very new but being trans is not. My relative felt very early on (aged 5) that they were the wrong sex and only discovered they were not a girl by walking into the girls toilet at primary school and being told that it was the wrong one. The parents considered it to be a mental disorder and something that must never be found out by other people. They are 60 now and have found their own way through life (just about, suffers with major depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts not surprisingly). They have lived with never being accepted or supported by their parents. If you happened to have a kid who told you they were the wrong sex at age 5 (before any exposure to any ideas about it) what would you do?

But that’s the whole point.
Genuine trans people will find it out for themselves. Children being asked which gender they want to be means that those who aren’t dysphoric may well end up on the transition pathway.

YouJustDoYou · 07/07/2023 07:04

Runningslow · 07/07/2023 06:42

But that’s the whole point.
Genuine trans people will find it out for themselves. Children being asked which gender they want to be means that those who aren’t dysphoric may well end up on the transition pathway.

THIS. If you are genuinely trans, you just know. Children don't need to be questioned about it for goodness sake, and pushed to say what their pronouns are, and having suggestions put in their heads, "well, you dress like a tomboy, that might mean your trans" etc.

LonginesPrime · 07/07/2023 07:35

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 07/07/2023 00:39

According to the UK census trans women were less likely than anyone else to be victims of murder. That’s not all violent crime but it is something quantifiable. They are also 5 times as likely as non-trans men to be imprisoned for sex crimes.

How were people reporting in the census whether or not they had been victims of murder?

Surely this would be from police crime stats?

Florissante · 07/07/2023 07:44

WhisperingAutistic · 06/07/2023 19:39

You know, he used to not care about this shit but he's just done one year of uni and he's all TWAW. Fucking infuriating.

I know of a university that teaches undergraduates that (among other things) there are three sexes (male, female and intersex - not my term; theirs) and that they should be critiquing what sex is but it's fine to accept gender as an indisputable fact.

h1d1ng1npla1ns1ght · 07/07/2023 07:58

LonginesPrime · 07/07/2023 07:35

How were people reporting in the census whether or not they had been victims of murder?

Surely this would be from police crime stats?

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/what-did-we-learn-from-the-census/
The book I am reading made reference to this information. The discussion of murder rates is toward the bottom of the page.

What did we learn from the census? - Sex Matters

Key points The questions In 2021 the census for England and Wales included a voluntary question on gender identity for those aged 16 years and over. There was also a mandatory sex question which sought to collect information on people’s sex, which was...

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/what-did-we-learn-from-the-census/

Suboptimumumma · 07/07/2023 07:58

Twobyfour · 06/07/2023 20:19

Who is perpetrating this violence?

Exactly.

I abhor anyone of any race or sex or religion being subjected to violence.

But if transgender women are subjected to male violence, then that is an issue for men to solve.

You don’t solve it by putting women in danger or by women having their rights to safe spaces infringed.

Floisme · 07/07/2023 08:03

I can well believe that trans people face abuse. I don't believe it means women should give up single sex spaces. Given that around 90% of crime is, I understand, committed to men, why are women and girls expected to put their own safety and privacy at risk to fix it?

Floisme · 07/07/2023 08:04

Suboptimumumma beat me to it but yes, what she said.

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 07/07/2023 08:17

I've got a 5 year old boy that sometimes says he's a girl. All I do is tell him that he's a boy, will always be a boy even if he pretends to be a girl by wearing a dress and it's fine to be a boy that likes to wear pink and have long hair.
He's very struck on the idea that boys can only do and wear X and girls can only do and wear Y. This has not come from me or my family as none of us are typically masculine/feminine in hobbies and clothes etc. I hope it's not coming from school but as I'm in Wales and the whole curriculum has been tainted by gender issues, who knows?

DerekFaker · 07/07/2023 08:28

WhisperingAutistic · 06/07/2023 19:49

He sent me this with a message saying 'it doesn't say'.
He's got an aspergers diagnosis (when they used to call it that). He used to be so sensible with a scientific mind but this shit just rots the brain.

Ah, that study was doing the rounds a few weeks ago. It's rubbish.

'Trans 4 times as likely to be victims of violent crimes'
'Trans 4 times as likely to be victims of violent crimes'
'Trans 4 times as likely to be victims of violent crimes'
LonginesPrime · 07/07/2023 08:37

Thanks for clarifying lh1d1ng1npla1ns1ght.

So Sex Matters was referring to a comparison of the census data, where an unexpectedly high proportion of people self-identified as trans, to the Home Office Homicide Index (analysed by the ONS), which is where you end up if you follow the links through to the source (via another article).

Just to be clear (because it sounds a bit mad to say murder stats came from the census!), the murder stats are from separately recorded crime stats.

Obviously, I see what point you're making - that this huge abundance of trans people in the census (for whatever reason, including misunderstanding the gender question) means that taken as a percentage of the trans population, murders (as recorded by the Home Office) are far lower among the trans population than among other populations.

Personally, going forward, I would clarify that your data is coming from the census data and home office/ONS/crime stats data (whatever you want to call it - people will know what you mean) so that people don't think you're saying that people self-reported in the census that they had been murdered!

user123212 · 07/07/2023 08:45

Bikingwithbabies · 06/07/2023 19:32

Kathleen Stock's Material Girls includes stats about this. I can't remember the details, but it's bollocks, basically.

The data is based on prostitutes, where there are alot of trans, who are more at risk of violence

thirdfiddle · 07/07/2023 09:12

They're going to try to have it both ways aren't they. When comparing to the number of convicted sex offenders, or to representation, the number of trans people in the census is massively understated, TW are just putting themselves down as women and not answering the gender question; but when looking at victimhood stats it's overstated and we are suddenly right about people misunderstanding the questions after all.

WhisperingAutistic · 07/07/2023 09:13

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 07/07/2023 08:17

I've got a 5 year old boy that sometimes says he's a girl. All I do is tell him that he's a boy, will always be a boy even if he pretends to be a girl by wearing a dress and it's fine to be a boy that likes to wear pink and have long hair.
He's very struck on the idea that boys can only do and wear X and girls can only do and wear Y. This has not come from me or my family as none of us are typically masculine/feminine in hobbies and clothes etc. I hope it's not coming from school but as I'm in Wales and the whole curriculum has been tainted by gender issues, who knows?

I think it comes from other kids at school. My now 7 year old used to love Moana and Frozen and loved glittery things. After starting year one he now says they are girls things.

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NancyDrawed · 07/07/2023 09:18

thirdfiddle · 07/07/2023 09:12

They're going to try to have it both ways aren't they. When comparing to the number of convicted sex offenders, or to representation, the number of trans people in the census is massively understated, TW are just putting themselves down as women and not answering the gender question; but when looking at victimhood stats it's overstated and we are suddenly right about people misunderstanding the questions after all.

Something similar is noticeable in the mainstream media reporting of crimes involving TW depending on whether they are victim or perpetrator

TW perpetrator is reported as 'woman'
TW victim is reported as 'TW'

which all goes towards the narratives that TW are the most at risk and that women are just as likely to be violent and / or sex offenders as men

Florissante · 07/07/2023 09:24

There was a mass murder in Philadelphia on the 4th of July. The murderer killed four men and injured two children (one a two year-old). The perpetrator was trans. Odd how that story wasn't reported by The Guardian.

DeanElderberry · 07/07/2023 09:32

Another thing that none of these statistics analyse is the wealth / poverty / class divide. Poor people suffer more violence, often from other poor people, than rich people do. It's why trans sex workers in Brazil and in India are extra vulnerable. It's why black men / transwomen in the USA are vulnerable (most of that violence is either domestic or drug related, same as for non-trans victims). It's why in the UK there's very little anti trans violence because the trans movement is fairly middle class.

Genderism isn't just a way of not thinking about women's rights or gay rights, it's also a great way of ignoring the way society is skewed against the poor. Again.

Myalternate · 07/07/2023 09:40

NecessaryScene · 06/07/2023 20:43

Logic problem.

I have some chickens and some foxes. The chickens are prone to being attacked by foxes. Chickens don't attack foxes. Some of the foxes are prone to being attacked by other foxes.

Should I

(a) put all the chickens and attacked foxes into one pen and all the other foxes into another pen.

(b) put all the chickens into one pen and then figure out what to do with the foxes.

One of these solutions has is significantly better than the others. Can you figure out which one? Hint - it's about the chickens.

(B)🐓 ✔️

(A)🦊 ❌

RedToothBrush · 07/07/2023 10:12

WhisperingAutistic · 06/07/2023 19:44

I asked him if he was looking at American figures and he changed the subject.
Honestly, he's been spouting bollocks to me over messenger for over an hour.
Utter joke

"That's nice dear."

"Now respect the woman that gave birth to you, learn to use statistics properly or I'll pull your uni funding cos clearly you aren't getting a quality education there"

"See you next week when I pick you up for Summer. I hope you are fully aware I won't be doing your washing, doing your shopping or cooking your dinner whilst you are home because I am now being my true authentic self and don't believe in gendered roles and doing these tasks is 'triggering'"

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