‘Bonus hole’

[bblackmirror]

So I can’t believe this is real but it seems to be.
What do we make of Jo’s cervical trust a cancer charity who has an LGBT inclusive language page on their website suggesting another word for a vagina is a bonus
hole!!

Absolutely awful.

Not even gay porn, straight porn with extra harm done to the woman in the form of exogenous testosterone and mastectomies.

Well, sort of, but I get the impression it's porn aimed at gay men? But involving surgically altered women.

Oops wrong thread, sorry.

Why would a gay man be interested in porn featuring a transman (ergo woman with vagina) Surely calling it a bonus hole does not suddenly make it appealing to someone attracted to men or is it not worth trying to understand any of this anymore…

Yeah well I won't feel any better about it if that (or any other) female patient is sexually assaulted on a hospital ward, but even though I couldn't prevent it at least I'll have the paper trail. They can't say they weren't warned, they just didn't think women safety was as important as #be kind

Our taxes pay for this

Well presumably some women have "bonus balls". It's a bit like the lottery!

Agreed. You did what you could and the Trust will have to live with the consequences of ignoring you. It is so sad, and unforgivable, that the price will inevitably be paid by some poor woman whose safety they have chosen to disregard for ideological reasons.

Me either. I’d be thinking crazy golf.

Surprised they haven't just home full whack and called it a 'fuck hole'

Give it another 6 months @BluebellBlueballs

"Max is famous for concluding his scenes with a set-piece where he inserts a Sharpie pen in the performer's rectum and has her write 'I am a little fuck hole' on a sheet of paper." https://www.salon.com/2000/01/18/hustler/

Trans activism is not a liberation movement. It is a backlash against feminism to regain men's sexual access to women.

There's the acronym MSM, used in GUmed clinics and maybe elsewhere. Men who have Sex with Men. Because apparently a lot of guys who have gay sex don't define as gay, they may be outwardly straight, married, kids etc; so MSM avoids that issue whilst acknowledging their sexual reality.

So I guess that the reverse may well be true - that there are gay men who like porn involving TM. (There is at least 1 well known TM in gay male porn who has a vagina and clitoris, maybe more, it's not my specialist field! and it does make you wonder who that appeals to!)

I've known gay women whose choice of porn is watching gay men. Go figure.

@ArabeIIaScott wrt seeing a transman using the term 'in the wild'

insofar as twitter gets pretty wild -yes. A gay man had shared a transman complaining that the gay men were consisting not choosing them as a sexual partner when they should have been more imaginative / excited by the 'bonus hole'

The scoldy tone in which we are instructed to use "correct" language - implying that misogynistic insults are "correct" and the universal , unambiguous medical words are incorrect... 😡🤬🤯🤯🤬🤬

Nothing is woman centred any more regardless of whether men transwomen have any use for a word or a service, regardless of providing third spaces or parallel services if something is for the benefit of women it has to be opened to men transwomen and if
men transwomen have no use for it then it's taken from women anyway just because the misogynysts can. If they can't play with football they will stick a knife in and laugh as they throw it back.

I'm coming to the conclusion that it's not worth trying to understand it too. Maybe im just old, like in the 60s when teenagers were listening to the Doors and the Who and their aged parents were saying 'what's all that bloody din and why dont they get a proper haircut'

Buck Angel? Markets himself as 'the man with a pussy' but he's old school trans and recognises that he's not an actual male, and hates all the current TRA shite.

Just telling my hubby about 'bonus hole' and he was wondering if it was a pun on 'boner's hole'. So entirely male centric if true.

Outrageous. Why are men not penis-havers or spunk containers? What have the changed the word penis to for them? Bonus stick?

“Last chicken in the shop”

I thought it was 'Last turkey in the shop ' but maybe things are smaller now.

Just a lesbian with a bonus stick... don't give them ideas.