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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Christine and the Queens - at Glastonbury

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NotHavingIt · 26/06/2023 07:42

I'd never been fully aware of Christine and The Queens ( Heloise Letissier) before her set at Glastonbury on Saturday, but the complete performance of her new album was pretty phenomenal and worth a watch ( Link to BBC IPlayer below).

As I understand it she has recently 'come out' as a transman and sometimes now uses the stage name of 'Redcar'. Up until recently she has been experimenting and performing as a woman playing with 'masculine tropes'.

She has been in a relationship with a woman called 'Ocean' who has herself now transitioned - but in her case she has documented, on French TV, her transition journey, involving recovery from a mastectomy and the use of testosterone ( she was a good looking woman, not so much as a man).

Heloise says, in an interview I've read, that people keep suggesting to her ways she could do 'being a transman' better - by which she assumes they mean 'top surgery', hormones and cutting her hair short and so on - but she has held back because she says she doesn't feel the need to do all of that to explore her 'transness'. Good on her, and hopefully she holds out on that.

Her performance at Glastonbury was extraordinary. True art; although at times just a little bit mental. It involves numerous interior monologues as she documents her recent experiences ( and traumas) around her mother dying, her mental health struggles, suicide ideation, sex, and finally her re-birth as a boy.

She strips off her waistcoat near the beginning of the set to reveal intact breasts ( I was getting nervous that would not be the case at that point) but with her nipples covered with plasters ( this must have been on BBC guidance, as I think a public display of nipples on a woman is what is considered offensive, whereas not for a man). She performed the rest of the set topless.

So much food for thought and reflection on the back of this stage set - but as peice of complete art it was pretty amazing.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0ft6v6z

BBC Music - Glastonbury, 2023, Christine and the Queens

A charismatic and mesmerising performance of electro-pop goodness.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0ft6v6z

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ImAOneWayMotorway · 26/06/2023 09:45

I loved her when she performed at glasto the first time and when I saw her on joolz Holland, she was talented and fun, I liked her little dance routines, very quirky. The glasto set over the weekend I couldn't watch, the stripping off and weirdness just distracted from her music. I don't really care what anyone wants to be, I really don't but it was just too far and not entertaining. Annie Lennox is amazing, she played around with her looks, but I never felt she went too far, it was just quirky much like David Bowie.

NotHavingIt · 26/06/2023 09:47

P.J Harvey's more punkish guitar performances at various festivals spring to mind more so than Annie Lennox, for me.

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Hoppinggreen · 26/06/2023 09:48

IClaudine · 26/06/2023 09:42

another woman has unnecessarily mutilated herself and you seem to think it’s all great

That has not happened in this case, though.

According to OP this person’s partner has

Hoppinggreen · 26/06/2023 09:50

Yes I do realise I don’t have to concur with every little detail, do you?
Because you are the one suggesting people who don’t are “grumpy”

NotHavingIt · 26/06/2023 09:50

Hoppinggreen · 26/06/2023 09:38

I haven’t seen the performance, I am not commenting on that.
I am commenting on how lovely it’s all supposed to be that a woman now claims to not be one and that’s now art and another woman has unnecessarily mutilated herself and you seem to think it’s all great
Pushing the boundaries of what women are supposed to look like/behave is great. Pushing the boundaries of what a woman is - not so good.

She hasn't mutilated herself. She hasn't taken any hormones. She's resisted that, which I hope continues.

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LaBefana · 26/06/2023 09:52

Am I going to get in trouble for liking Anthony and the Johnsons? Or rather, nowadays, Anohni and the Johnsons? We threw all of our Oliver Shanti CDs away when we heard he was imprisoned for offences against young boys, so I would say we are used to discarding works of art when the creator has done something unforgiveable (like Morrissey, in fact).

Hoppinggreen · 26/06/2023 09:53

NotHavingIt · 26/06/2023 09:50

She hasn't mutilated herself. She hasn't taken any hormones. She's resisted that, which I hope continues.

According to you their friend/partner Ocean has.
I didn’t say Christine has I said A woman

bellac11 · 26/06/2023 09:53

Hoppinggreen · 26/06/2023 08:49

Annie Lennox had short hair and wore trousers.
She didn’t spend her time on self indulgent nonsense that she thought made her sound more interesting than she was.
The person you describe is talented and can live their life anyway they see fit but it all seems a bit navel gazing and “oooh, look at me. I’m better than other lesbians “

Same with David Bowie, Marc Bolan, Grace Jones, countless others, none living lives according to sex stereotypes or dressing or looking stereotypical but they didnt feel the need to have names or be regressive , they just 'were' themselves.

OldCrone · 26/06/2023 10:03

begaydocrime42 · 26/06/2023 09:30

How hard is it for some of you to accept (not understand, but accept you don't understand and sit with that) that not everyone experiences gender the same as you? If she's not changing her body, why do you care that someone who rationally understands they're biologically a woman partake in performance art that focuses on gender?
I mean, apart from buying into this culture war crap, just take yourselves out of it for a moment and breathe. Lol.

If she's not denying she's a woman why is she referred to as 'he'?

willWillSmithsmith · 26/06/2023 10:08

I think it’s a shame when women want to identify as men (but not go through a sex change). What’s wrong with being a woman, in whatever form of feminine that is (be it floaty dresses and long hair or cropped hair and ‘bovver’ boots or whatever you want it to be). It sometimes feels like being a woman isn’t good enough and being a man is better. Not meaning to offend anyone it’s just what I wonder sometimes.

SmoothSeasDoNotMakeGoodSailors · 26/06/2023 10:09

heartsinvisiblefury · 26/06/2023 08:23

Why in 2023 can Lewis Capaldi have his nipples on full display but this person has to cover them up with plasters?

If Christine is a TM then surely their nipples don't need to be covered up?

NotHavingIt · 26/06/2023 10:13

willWillSmithsmith · 26/06/2023 10:08

I think it’s a shame when women want to identify as men (but not go through a sex change). What’s wrong with being a woman, in whatever form of feminine that is (be it floaty dresses and long hair or cropped hair and ‘bovver’ boots or whatever you want it to be). It sometimes feels like being a woman isn’t good enough and being a man is better. Not meaning to offend anyone it’s just what I wonder sometimes.

It's a current trend and a way of framing the self. It won't last forever for the reason it is predicated on untruths and is far too high maintenance.

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Littlesprouts · 26/06/2023 10:21

Having said that I do think it's a relative positive to have someone prominent calling themselves a transman who talks publicly about hormones and surgery being unnecessary.

I agree with your post Chatter and see what you mean but ultimately, what suddenly makes Chris a 'man' and why do we all have to say we believe Chris is one?

I really don't mean to be goady or want to disrespect how Chris feels/identifies, it's obviously all very personal, but to have to use male pronouns is just a pretence (vice versa with a certain Izzard).

Chris is a brilliant performer and a complex artist, and is captivatingly beautiful but why anyone has to advance gender non-conformity to having us all pretend they're a different sex is a square I personally cannot circle. Yet many people go along with it all without question. It seems so odd to me.

If you turned on Glasto and had no idea who Chris was, would anyone really genuinely say they were watching a man? What does Chris, or anyone projecting similar, really expect from people who are not aware?

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 10:30

Riddles wrapped in enigmas, boxed in conundrums.

Let's just imagine the Gen Z mindset here, especially from girls/young women who would rather be dead than associate on MN.

They see feminism as having reached its zenith with females able to have kids whenever they like, often not at all. Parity on pay, or getting there. Total freedom/access to the pill, abortion on demand, sex work, porn.

For them, there is so much parity, that women and men are interchangeable, almost like uniforms. To the point where one can change multiple times a day or depending on mood. I've seen the Tik Tok videos.

So for large swathes (the majority?) of 16-25 females, maybe even into their 30s, male and female are literally "moods" or "mindsets", not set by biology or other areas of hard reality.

For them, they see feminism as getting the vote (first wave), getting autonomy (second wave), getting the choice to be...or not be...female (unicorn wave).

And this is then extended to males. Because biology doesn't matter, and it's feelings, female, and male, are matters of inner glow, and outward presentation to match that glow.

Thus artists like this one at Glasto fit the new paradigm.

And anyone stepping on this feelings/inner glow/outward presentation/lived experience model of gender/sexuality is transphobic and an enemy.

Any opposition to the new theory is attacking individuals, and the group will not allow that. And in the new paradigm, free speech is not sacrosanct, because the authentic self is all that matters, and that cant be interogated by skepticism, and can only be known to the individual.

Despite being as GC as the rest of us here, I can absolutely see the appeal, the circular logic, and how it's a worldview and personal belief that you would absolutely fight for, and view any dissent as phobic.

GoldfincTart · 26/06/2023 10:37

I believe that we should be more open minded about how men and women can present themselves to the world rather than suggesting clothes etc should determine your gender,

I assume you simply didn't think how incredibly patronising your statement is to many here? I (and I'm guessing quite a few of us on this thread) grew up make-up free in dungarees and Doc Martens while our male counterparts wore eyeliner and glitter and had longer hair than us. We grew up with David Bowie and Marc Bolan and Mick Jagger in frocks and lace doing their gender-bending thing while still happily male. We had women like Annie Lennox and Souixie Soux for role models. We challenged the expectations that women should look nice and demonstrate our femininity in skirts. It's not about clothes or presentation.

What Heloise/ Christine/ Redcar is up to isn't just dressing up, it's tinkering with the way her fabulous female body works and rejecting her womanhood — and because of her public profile, she's inevitably going to encourage other distressed young women down that path.

Learning to be happy in your own skin can be a real challenge but brings the biggest rewards. Fighting sexual stereotyping is a great way of building self-esteem and understanding of the patriarchal, political systems that keep women in their place. Succumbing to patriarchy by rejecting your female body and the whole concept of 'woman' isn't feminist and is profoundly damaging.

GoldfincTart · 26/06/2023 10:40

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 10:30

Riddles wrapped in enigmas, boxed in conundrums.

Let's just imagine the Gen Z mindset here, especially from girls/young women who would rather be dead than associate on MN.

They see feminism as having reached its zenith with females able to have kids whenever they like, often not at all. Parity on pay, or getting there. Total freedom/access to the pill, abortion on demand, sex work, porn.

For them, there is so much parity, that women and men are interchangeable, almost like uniforms. To the point where one can change multiple times a day or depending on mood. I've seen the Tik Tok videos.

So for large swathes (the majority?) of 16-25 females, maybe even into their 30s, male and female are literally "moods" or "mindsets", not set by biology or other areas of hard reality.

For them, they see feminism as getting the vote (first wave), getting autonomy (second wave), getting the choice to be...or not be...female (unicorn wave).

And this is then extended to males. Because biology doesn't matter, and it's feelings, female, and male, are matters of inner glow, and outward presentation to match that glow.

Thus artists like this one at Glasto fit the new paradigm.

And anyone stepping on this feelings/inner glow/outward presentation/lived experience model of gender/sexuality is transphobic and an enemy.

Any opposition to the new theory is attacking individuals, and the group will not allow that. And in the new paradigm, free speech is not sacrosanct, because the authentic self is all that matters, and that cant be interogated by skepticism, and can only be known to the individual.

Despite being as GC as the rest of us here, I can absolutely see the appeal, the circular logic, and how it's a worldview and personal belief that you would absolutely fight for, and view any dissent as phobic.

I agree. And then at some point some of them will have a child and suddenly their eyes will open and they'll see how the world really works...

Datun · 26/06/2023 10:51

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 10:30

Riddles wrapped in enigmas, boxed in conundrums.

Let's just imagine the Gen Z mindset here, especially from girls/young women who would rather be dead than associate on MN.

They see feminism as having reached its zenith with females able to have kids whenever they like, often not at all. Parity on pay, or getting there. Total freedom/access to the pill, abortion on demand, sex work, porn.

For them, there is so much parity, that women and men are interchangeable, almost like uniforms. To the point where one can change multiple times a day or depending on mood. I've seen the Tik Tok videos.

So for large swathes (the majority?) of 16-25 females, maybe even into their 30s, male and female are literally "moods" or "mindsets", not set by biology or other areas of hard reality.

For them, they see feminism as getting the vote (first wave), getting autonomy (second wave), getting the choice to be...or not be...female (unicorn wave).

And this is then extended to males. Because biology doesn't matter, and it's feelings, female, and male, are matters of inner glow, and outward presentation to match that glow.

Thus artists like this one at Glasto fit the new paradigm.

And anyone stepping on this feelings/inner glow/outward presentation/lived experience model of gender/sexuality is transphobic and an enemy.

Any opposition to the new theory is attacking individuals, and the group will not allow that. And in the new paradigm, free speech is not sacrosanct, because the authentic self is all that matters, and that cant be interogated by skepticism, and can only be known to the individual.

Despite being as GC as the rest of us here, I can absolutely see the appeal, the circular logic, and how it's a worldview and personal belief that you would absolutely fight for, and view any dissent as phobic.

I can see the appeal, too. It's if it's a fashion, or a mindset.

Or even something more profound than that.

The problem is, that people are building laws around it. Laws that restrict and limit women and subject them to male predation.

Hence I find the demand to accept one's 'inner glow' as profoundly selfish, instead of progressive and interesting.

The I'm alright Jack, because my inner glow makes me look good on stage, whereas it subjects you to a rapist in your cell, attitude, is unbelievably self centred.

GoldfincTart · 26/06/2023 10:59

While we're on Glastonbury, what did we make of Lizzo and her celebration of womanhood? Or is that not cool? And Elton John — who's always been fond of glitter and feathers and other 'girlie' stuff: check out his 1984 full frock:

https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/photos-elton-johns-outfits-through-the-years-20212/1984-12-174996/

Elton John

Elton John's Outfits Through the Years

See all the sunglasses, animal costumes and chest hair from 1973 on

https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/photos-elton-johns-outfits-through-the-years-20212/1984-12-174996/

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 11:04

GoldfincTart · 26/06/2023 10:40

I agree. And then at some point some of them will have a child and suddenly their eyes will open and they'll see how the world really works...

Too late. Gen Z plus frustrated Gen X and Millennials will ensure a three term Labour govt, and we'll have Gender Self ID, trans conversion ban, and draconian Irish style anti hate speech legislation.

Finally, the govt of UK will be in lockstep with institutional capture of British sectors like unions, arts, medicine, social services, education and civil service.

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 11:09

Datun · 26/06/2023 10:51

I can see the appeal, too. It's if it's a fashion, or a mindset.

Or even something more profound than that.

The problem is, that people are building laws around it. Laws that restrict and limit women and subject them to male predation.

Hence I find the demand to accept one's 'inner glow' as profoundly selfish, instead of progressive and interesting.

The I'm alright Jack, because my inner glow makes me look good on stage, whereas it subjects you to a rapist in your cell, attitude, is unbelievably self centred.

Gen Z are going to graduate in the degrees that lead to jobs in politics, the law, medicine, arts, social sciences, STEM/engineering.

Policies we profoundly disagree with will be promulgated as Gen Z entrench.

And unlike all other generations, the current crop of young people will become more Left, less conservative as they get older.

I don't think the Tories realise how existential is the threat of their total wipeout, and how they won't have a voter base to recover in 2028 or beyond.

StillWantingADog · 26/06/2023 11:09

I first noticed him a few years ago when he was still a “she” and found her quite mesmerising.

saw a clip the other night but was quite taken aback with the toplessness so changed channels again quickly- dc
were in the room and I wasn’t up for questions at the time

I will check out the whole set on iplayer now though if people think it’s worth it.

MsFogi · 26/06/2023 11:11

I'm lost now about the BBC guidance - so a bloke can have his nipples on display but a woman cannot. What about a trans man or trans woman - if I identify as a man can I go on TV and display my nipples but if my husband identifies as a woman he can no longer show them?!?

RealityFan · 26/06/2023 11:15

MsFogi · 26/06/2023 11:11

I'm lost now about the BBC guidance - so a bloke can have his nipples on display but a woman cannot. What about a trans man or trans woman - if I identify as a man can I go on TV and display my nipples but if my husband identifies as a woman he can no longer show them?!?

Can we just have a NO FUCKING NIPPLES PLEASE! policy. Men, NB, women, trans, alien invaders etc.

Dianbeatthis · 26/06/2023 11:31

I think you’ll find that there are some female transitioners who have their nipples removed during their double mastectomies. Dr Gallagher certainly offers it as an option. It looks really odd but some prefer the blank canvas look. I guess it’s more ‘non-binary’ to have a nipple-less chest (even though both sexes have them?)

Anyway I’m not a fan of Christine and the Queens’ music although admire their obvious talent. Always seemed terribly pretentious and po-faced and theatre-school. Give me PJ Harvey any day - raw, pure poetic talent, guts and phenomenal musicality. I didn’t see CATQ’s performance at Glasto but I will go and watch and report back if I feel any differently. I’m always prepared to listen without prejudice and change my mind.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 26/06/2023 11:46

They see feminism as having reached its zenith with females able to have kids whenever they like, often not at all. Parity on pay, or getting there. Total freedom/access to the pill, abortion on demand, sex work, porn.

They may think that, but in reality:

able to have kids whenever they like, often not at all. Still considerable social judgement either way, and many social and career consequences that don't land (or not as hard) on men.

Parity on pay, or getting there. Haven't got there, still a long way to go.

Total freedom/access to the pill, But only a pill for women, unequal burden of contraception, many forms still heavily gatekept.

abortion on demand Not the case in the UK, very definitely not in the US.

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