Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Howard Donald (Take That) dropped fr9m Nottingham Pride after liking transphobic tweets

122 replies

AdamRyan · 17/06/2023 17:15

Such as "only women menstruate"

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/howard-donald-take-that-star-dropped-from-nottingham-pride-festival-after-anti-lgbtq-twitter-likes-12904325

He did also like some tweets by Andrew Tate but that's less problematic apparently.

He is now taking time to "educate himself". Good luck with that then!

Howard Donald: Take That star dropped from Nottingham Pride Festival after 'anti LGBTQ+' Twitter likes

Howard Donald had been due to perform at Groovebox's Nottingham Pride event in July, but has now been removed from the line-up, telling fans he's "disappointed" in himself for his "uneducated actions".

https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/howard-donald-take-that-star-dropped-from-nottingham-pride-festival-after-anti-lgbtq-twitter-likes-12904325

OP posts:
Clementineorsatsuma · 17/06/2023 21:55

CremeEgg1983 · 17/06/2023 21:46

@Clementineorsatsuma Surely it's up to him what posts he 'likes'.

Of course, but he is a grown up and needs to see that actions have consequences

RufustheSpecuIatingreindeer · 17/06/2023 21:55

Clementineorsatsuma · 17/06/2023 21:51

@mangoontoast
Careful- we wouldn't want facts getting in the way now, would we?

Absolutely

so it was groovebox pride?

same question….

risefromyourgrave · 17/06/2023 21:59

Clementineorsatsuma · 17/06/2023 21:45

Support for a man who likes Tate? Really?

Yes, I sent support to a man who I have liked since I was 13 who is likely getting really shitty messages from people who don’t allow anyone to have nuanced thinking. He liked a Tate tweet, he didn’t come out and say ‘I think Andrew Tate is a great bloke and I support his rapist ways’, unless there’s another tweet I’ve missed?

I like Howard Donald and I am offering him my (useless and probably unwanted) support, nothing more or less than that. I sincerely doubt he is homophobic, he has kept it very quiet for many years whilst playing at gay clubs if he is.

CremeEgg1983 · 17/06/2023 21:59

@Clementineorsatsuma Cancelling someone because they hold different views is ridiculous though. So we all have to conform?

Farmageddon · 17/06/2023 22:03

CremeEgg1983 · 17/06/2023 21:59

@Clementineorsatsuma Cancelling someone because they hold different views is ridiculous though. So we all have to conform?

Apparently so. It's the brave new world.

The thing is, I actually find it incredibly offensive when people claim the biological sex isn't real or doesn't matter, as it's harmful to women and girls. But nobody cares if women are offended, just the special identity people.

CremeEgg1983 · 17/06/2023 22:05

@Farmageddon I agree, it's draining. I find it offensive being called a cis woman - no I'm a woman!

Gothambutnotahamster · 17/06/2023 22:13

Completely agree @Farmageddon

IamMummyhearmeROAR · 17/06/2023 22:14

It's well known in the fandom who is behind this. A thoroughly unpleasant individual.

Gothambutnotahamster · 17/06/2023 22:17

Who? @IamMummyhearmeROAR

LillyoftheMountain · 17/06/2023 22:22

AdamRyan · 17/06/2023 21:37

Maybe...seems an odd thing to say about a UK popstar on a UK forum. So I didn't think it could be that....

I’d read up in the story about Howard before posting here. He’d been liking tweets that supported Trump so it was easy for me to identify the typo.

I guess what’s odd is that anyone is taking what a 90s pop star is doing seriously. I’ve never looked to him as a moral compass.

extramaturecheddarcheese · 17/06/2023 22:43

See, this is what puzzles me.

We all agree that trans women are women, yes? Wink

If that's the case then the statement 'only women menstruate' is true. How can this statement be offensive to anyone because trans women are women aren't they, and therefore saying only women menstruate includes all women, trans or otherwise, surely?

So how can it be offensive? Who is it offending? The only people excluded from this statement are men, who don't menstruate. I'm lost as to what women are offended by this.

LillyoftheMountain · 17/06/2023 22:48

extramaturecheddarcheese · 17/06/2023 22:43

See, this is what puzzles me.

We all agree that trans women are women, yes? Wink

If that's the case then the statement 'only women menstruate' is true. How can this statement be offensive to anyone because trans women are women aren't they, and therefore saying only women menstruate includes all women, trans or otherwise, surely?

So how can it be offensive? Who is it offending? The only people excluded from this statement are men, who don't menstruate. I'm lost as to what women are offended by this.

I don’t think many people would with that trans woman are woman.

By your rational trans men are men. But trans men could menstruate. So you wouldn’t say only woman menstruate 🤷‍♀️

Why is a trans woman a woman but a trans man not a man?

CremeEgg1983 · 17/06/2023 22:48

@extramaturecheddarcheese Is a trans woman a man who wants to identify as a woman?

Anotherblueday · 17/06/2023 22:48

extramaturecheddarcheese · 17/06/2023 22:43

See, this is what puzzles me.

We all agree that trans women are women, yes? Wink

If that's the case then the statement 'only women menstruate' is true. How can this statement be offensive to anyone because trans women are women aren't they, and therefore saying only women menstruate includes all women, trans or otherwise, surely?

So how can it be offensive? Who is it offending? The only people excluded from this statement are men, who don't menstruate. I'm lost as to what women are offended by this.

I imagine it was trans men who had a problem with the statement. But carry on blaming trans women for everything.

extramaturecheddarcheese · 17/06/2023 23:00

By your rational trans men are men. But trans men could menstruate. So you wouldn’t say only woman menstruate 🤷‍♀️

Fair point. I hadn't thought of it from that POV

Farmageddon · 17/06/2023 23:10

Anotherblueday · 17/06/2023 22:48

I imagine it was trans men who had a problem with the statement. But carry on blaming trans women for everything.

I don't actually care who had a 'problem' with that statement. The statement is factually correct, why are we expected to pander to people who want to ignore reality?

Anotherblueday · 17/06/2023 23:18

Farmageddon · 17/06/2023 23:10

I don't actually care who had a 'problem' with that statement. The statement is factually correct, why are we expected to pander to people who want to ignore reality?

None of that is relevant to the point I was making.

Pixiedust1234 · 17/06/2023 23:23

Well...I cant really argue with him liking this even if it was Tate.

Other likes from Donald's account included a tweet from controversial social media influencer Andrew Tate, claiming "the only superhero a boy should have is his father" and another listing "realities" including "there are only two genders,"

yetanotherusernameAgain · 18/06/2023 08:16

Re SF Gay Men's Chorus, the Daily Mail did a balanced article at the time. The song was satirical - converting kids to be tolerant. No mention of criminal records - perhaps the allegation came to nothing.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9772837/amp/The-San-Francisco-Gay-Mens-Chorus-received-death-threats-convert-children-satire.html

PorcelinaV · 18/06/2023 08:33

yetanotherusernameAgain · 18/06/2023 08:16

Re SF Gay Men's Chorus, the Daily Mail did a balanced article at the time. The song was satirical - converting kids to be tolerant. No mention of criminal records - perhaps the allegation came to nothing.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9772837/amp/The-San-Francisco-Gay-Mens-Chorus-received-death-threats-convert-children-satire.html

You shouldn't be targeting children for ideological indoctrination.

As parents you get to raise your own children with your own values to some degree.

But you can't target the neighbours kids and say, "it's just tolerance I'm teaching them".

Abhannmor · 18/06/2023 08:38

Clementineorsatsuma · 17/06/2023 21:55

Of course, but he is a grown up and needs to see that actions have consequences

They do. What worries me is that the actions of intolerant bullies will have consequences at the ballot box eventually. Probably in the form of the next far right Tory populist to rock up.

Frauds like Trump and Johnson are just symptoms of an underlying disease. Starmer will have one term to convince people he can improve their material conditions. He won't fob anyone off with pretty lanyards and pronoun badges.

Rightsraptor · 18/06/2023 08:55

Apologies @Valour, I'd thought that the comment about defund Disney came from you.

Did you see that our old friend India Willoughby has tweeted that Take That owe their success to the LGBT 'community'?

What those people have achieved is nothing short of miraculous.

Tsuipen · 18/06/2023 09:20

I think I know exactly who you mean.

Tsuipen · 18/06/2023 09:21

IamMummyhearmeROAR · 17/06/2023 22:14

It's well known in the fandom who is behind this. A thoroughly unpleasant individual.

My l’as t post was supposed to quote you. 🤣

CoolShoeshine · 18/06/2023 09:25

Rightsraptor · 18/06/2023 08:55

Apologies @Valour, I'd thought that the comment about defund Disney came from you.

Did you see that our old friend India Willoughby has tweeted that Take That owe their success to the LGBT 'community'?

What those people have achieved is nothing short of miraculous.

there is some truth in that statement though, Take That’s early success and fame was largely through playing gay clubs, before they came to wider prominence.