Most men, men in my family included, who are not of the political affiliation that sees virtue signalling on set topics as crucial to their credentials and identity, just don't care about women or the lives of women. Not because they're unpleasant or intentionally uncaring, but because of the male privilege they're unaware of even possessing, that permits them the ability to see only things of direct relevance and impact upon them as worth engaging with and sparing thought for.
As a much loved male relative said to me, "but this doesn't affect me, does it?" Much as mother's day and the kids' homework etc doesn't affect him, but does considerably affect his wife.
When I pointed out the direct impact upon him by what his daughters would experience at school, his mother on a hospital ward or in nursing care at home, and his wife in her local gym, he got extremely angry and wrote to his MP. Sadly at this point it's largely because now it's about other men interfering with his property and he is directly aware of his skin in the game.
I can't imagine how lovely it must be to be able to exist in this way where what happens to other people just isn't your problem and you don't have to worry about it or have that mental load.