https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/real-life/article-11060345/Trolls-call-Gold-Coast-mum-monster-lasering-port-wine-stain-birthmark.html?ito=social-facebook-uknews&fbclid=IwAR2xahVdB9xjf6EZoPMxkQbuQ7Qy-mwKLdAccsojjpAMc6IRs2Mb9PAhidA
This isn't particularly sex and gender related, but it 100% deserves some appreciation in my opinion so I'm throwing it here and bringing this thread back from the dead (even if the title of the article makes me feel a certain type of way).
As someone who had a port wine stain across my jaw/cheek/ear and went to many different hospitals before settling on GOSH to have it laser removed from 18-24 months of age all the way up till I was 15 or 16, I can tell you with complete certainty it's not painful, they use numbing cream, it's a bit sore and tender after but it's no worse than a bruise with some heat...
That's literally it.
I've had injections of all things be more painful than the laser.
As the article itself goes into, PWS's don't stay the same.
'They can develop a "cobblestone" appearance, with raised bumps, ridges and the risk of vascular blebs, where they dangerously bleed.
'Once a port wine stain gets to this stage, it is often very difficult to treat and laser barely has any affect, as the skin is already far too damaged.'"
They change, darken over time, and can actually cause damage to the skin. They're not "just a slight different in colour". They "set" into the skin to the point where laser won't even do anything, you HAVE to do it as soon as possible to prevent issues later on.
And that's not even going into the bullying side of things from your peers.
The mum is not a monster, people are just grossly uneducated about PWS's and about the treatment for them.
Just because something looks painful doesn't always mean it is.