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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Update from CF

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DerekFaker · 07/06/2023 08:28

This sounds horrendous. How can the police do this.

And yes, it was exactly as we predicted in the previous thread.

Should a certain police officer pop up in this thread, please try not to get drawn into protracted, repetitive arguments with him. Please!

https://twitter.com/CF_Farrow/status/1666337645427847169?t=LWaRDewlk7r_8pVTdkE_tw&s=19

https://twitter.com/CF_Farrow/status/1666337645427847169?s=19&t=LWaRDewlk7r_8pVTdkE_tw

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MerlinsLostMarbles · 08/06/2023 15:01

SinnerBoy · 08/06/2023 14:51

zibzibara · Today 14:48

What is "tr**ns"?

Oh, I thought it was people from a town in Ayrshire...

Troon is a pleasant affluent seaside town in West Scotland, you can golf and fish.

As with most things, it's all about context.

Needmoresleep · 08/06/2023 15:02

MerlinsLostMarbles · 08/06/2023 13:19

She has very extreme religious views is against gay rights as well as trans rights, she is against abortion too. Anyone thinking of donating to her keep that noted.

She is not on the side of feminism.

Merlin, is there anything wrong with people being devout. I know religious Muslims, Jews and Christians who are good people. A couple of the most giving people I have known have been Jain, and Hindu.

I personally struggle with some of the beliefs within world religions, and believe me Islam is not alway great on homosexuality. However your snidely snarky superiority is getting to me. What belief structure do you hold that makes you so think you are so inherently better than others.

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2023 15:07

Redshoeblueshoe · 08/06/2023 14:06

Also I must have missed the memo - but is it compulsory now to put a disclaimer at the end of each post

Only when you put 'we just don't know' on every post when you're the only one on the thread that doesn't know and can't be bothered to read the back story. Then I or others will remind you after every post that actually a lot of people have been following this and do know and that a friend of the person whose back story you couldn't be bothered to check out is actually on the thread and 100% does know 😶

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2023 15:08

Brisland · 08/06/2023 14:10

@Redshoeblueshoe only if you want to be helpful to the people who want to skip over your posts without reading them. It works as a good marker/highlights which posts to scroll down past….

But yeah this as well!

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2023 15:11

SinnerBoy · 08/06/2023 14:51

zibzibara · Today 14:48

What is "tr**ns"?

Oh, I thought it was people from a town in Ayrshire...

I'm gonna be honest for some reason when I've seen it on tweets as I'm skimming I've assumed it was football related.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 08/06/2023 15:12

Merlin's a TRA, and that trumps any other SJW cause you can think of.

Merlin's visa simply says TWAW, on one side and 'Trans Rights are Human Rights', on t'other.

Any questions raised, or criticism levied, is simply batted away and declared 'transphobic'.

Boiledbeetle · 08/06/2023 15:14

Pixiedust1234 · 08/06/2023 15:00

Ahhhh...all the mras/tras are hitting this thread. They are obviously worried that women will see how badly the police are behaving over a woman having free speech, so they are filling it up with crap. Haven't they learnt yet that the more they post in a particular thread the more interesting and important the original post is about 🤔

I reckon @DerekFaker has changed washing powder, fabric conditioner, flea spray, something because they are flocking to DFs threads

DerekFaker · 08/06/2023 15:15

zibzibara · 08/06/2023 14:48

It's a somewhat disparaging term for men who call themselves women. Both the "*" are "o" in the uncensored word.

It comes from the forum Something Awful. Users called themselves goons, and trans users called themselves trans goons, then shortened it.

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Zebracat · 08/06/2023 15:18

As Merlin has now posted stuff on a thread on a site with Known t*fs and transphobes, where tr*n has been written, is he now also a transphobe?

Zebracat · 08/06/2023 15:19

Sorry if I’ve misgendered you Merlin, I don’t know your preferred pronouns.

zibzibara · 08/06/2023 15:20

I wonder if xis username is a reference to getting the snip

MerlinsLostMarbles · 08/06/2023 15:29

Zebracat · 08/06/2023 15:18

As Merlin has now posted stuff on a thread on a site with Known t*fs and transphobes, where tr*n has been written, is he now also a transphobe?

I don't have an account on there.

Also thanks for the misgendering(again).

SerafinasGoose · 08/06/2023 15:34

Pixiedust1234 · 08/06/2023 15:00

Ahhhh...all the mras/tras are hitting this thread. They are obviously worried that women will see how badly the police are behaving over a woman having free speech, so they are filling it up with crap. Haven't they learnt yet that the more they post in a particular thread the more interesting and important the original post is about 🤔

Yep, this thread has noticeably brought them out of the woodwork.

As for the derogatory term used to describe trans people, I've never even heard of it.

I'd point out that TERF is a derogatory term too. And as for 'bleeder ..., or reducing even the words 'woman' and 'feminism' to taboo, dirty words, it's very clear what's driving that particular agenda. Under the guise of protecting one small group of people, there's a fully-armed attack mode being deployed against the only majority that has ever been treated as a minority.

To pick up on a further point upthread, I couldn't give a monkey's if CF is not a feminist, or whether or not all her views happen to chime with mine. She's a woman, and she's being persecuted by aggressive MRAs. We need to choose which issue is currently more urgent. The UK isn't the USA; our right-wing politics are not the same as the US alt right (which the lacking-in-nuance TRAs are constantly and wrongly trying to align with UK feminists. More forced teaming, as if they hadn't got through with LGBT). In Europe, despite the fiasco that is Brexit, issues like capital punishment and denial of the right to abortion are not coming back. They are no longer part of the fabric of our politics - those days are gone.

The assault against free speech and erasure of women are the most serious and urgent issues - not just feminist issues but fundamental human rights ones - I've ever witnessed during my lifetime. To me there are clear ethical choices to make, and these are not comfortable if you happen to stand on the pro-quality rather than pro-quantity side of the 'life' debate. But it's a case of deciding which, in the UK's specific current circumstances, are the most pressing.

For me there is no question. Today it's CF, JKR and Stock. Tomorrow it could be any of us. What's happening to CF is unconscionable: there can be no reason or excuse for it, particularly when it's very evident whose specific vendetta has made her the target.

BezMills · 08/06/2023 15:34

I don't know Merlin's gender, or anyone else's gender. If that leads to me misgendering any of you, I'm as sorry as I possibly can be about that.

I'm non-gender. You can genderise me how you like because I don't have some need for you to care about my (non-)gender.

and gender is a lot of specious bollocks that can get itself in the bin, in my opinion

Needmoresleep · 08/06/2023 15:37

CF seems to be like catnip to our monitors.

BezMills · 08/06/2023 15:39

it's all pushing the thread up the Trending section, bumpity bump bump bump.

FredaWallace · 08/06/2023 15:42

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SerafinasGoose · 08/06/2023 15:42

Needmoresleep · 08/06/2023 15:37

CF seems to be like catnip to our monitors.

Yeah. Like sharks smelling blood.

And that's obvs the attraction. Putting heretical women in their place, and if they can intimidate or torment them into the bargain, so much the better.

The DARVO is transparent, as is the way they get their kicks.

Zebracat · 08/06/2023 15:44

Merlin, I meant THIS THREAD. And I’ve already apologised for the possibility that using the pronouns appropriate to your name, which is male gendered, if my understanding of the abstract concept that is gender is correct, is offensive to you, as an actual person.

Emotionalsupportviper · 08/06/2023 15:48

SerafinasGoose · 08/06/2023 15:34

Yep, this thread has noticeably brought them out of the woodwork.

As for the derogatory term used to describe trans people, I've never even heard of it.

I'd point out that TERF is a derogatory term too. And as for 'bleeder ..., or reducing even the words 'woman' and 'feminism' to taboo, dirty words, it's very clear what's driving that particular agenda. Under the guise of protecting one small group of people, there's a fully-armed attack mode being deployed against the only majority that has ever been treated as a minority.

To pick up on a further point upthread, I couldn't give a monkey's if CF is not a feminist, or whether or not all her views happen to chime with mine. She's a woman, and she's being persecuted by aggressive MRAs. We need to choose which issue is currently more urgent. The UK isn't the USA; our right-wing politics are not the same as the US alt right (which the lacking-in-nuance TRAs are constantly and wrongly trying to align with UK feminists. More forced teaming, as if they hadn't got through with LGBT). In Europe, despite the fiasco that is Brexit, issues like capital punishment and denial of the right to abortion are not coming back. They are no longer part of the fabric of our politics - those days are gone.

The assault against free speech and erasure of women are the most serious and urgent issues - not just feminist issues but fundamental human rights ones - I've ever witnessed during my lifetime. To me there are clear ethical choices to make, and these are not comfortable if you happen to stand on the pro-quality rather than pro-quantity side of the 'life' debate. But it's a case of deciding which, in the UK's specific current circumstances, are the most pressing.

For me there is no question. Today it's CF, JKR and Stock. Tomorrow it could be any of us. What's happening to CF is unconscionable: there can be no reason or excuse for it, particularly when it's very evident whose specific vendetta has made her the target.

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zibzibara · 08/06/2023 16:08

MNHQ mopping up Freda's trolling pretty swiftly, must be a lot of eyes on this thread!

BreadInCaptivity · 08/06/2023 16:18

zibzibara · 08/06/2023 16:08

MNHQ mopping up Freda's trolling pretty swiftly, must be a lot of eyes on this thread!

Indeed.

However sometimes I have mixed feelings about this.

I think sometimes the awful TRA posts ought to be left to stand.

There is something really quite telling about the mindset of a person to come to a feminist board and deliberately be insulting and provocative.

I'd also question just how many deletions one poster can get before the ban hammer comes out?

Felix125 · 08/06/2023 16:23

BezMills · Today 12:27
We can't assume that just because a person is female and associated with a church that they can't be a mass-murdering terrorist with a basement full of Sarin gas and who is secretly married to Kim Jong Il and Vladimir Putin.
FFS

And I have not said that Caroline is any of these things. You seem to only have a 'one extreme or the other' view point. There is a huge grey area in the middle. And it is quite possible that a person can be violent, a threat and female and be in this middle ground.

All I am saying is - we can't just assume.

Brefugee
Women who are being clearly abused (mentally and physically) by a partner, with documented abuse going on for ages.....

DVPO's can be authorised at the first point of contact by the reporting person. So there doesn't have to be a history at all - it can the first occasion.

And we still don't know what Caroline was arrested for. There is no such offence as 'hurty words' so there must be a substantive offence which is being investigated.

The court have not dismissed this order today - they have allowed an adjournment for Caroline's defence to be put forward. If there was nothing to substantiate the grounds for the order, the court could have dismissed it - but they haven't.

So lets not assume at this stage as we all really don't know this ins & outs of the case.

Disclaimer - I am using 'we' to mean me and most others on here. I acknowledge that some on here will know or have been told the details of the complaint and I am aware that Caroline may have access to this thread or indeed people close to her. I also acknowledge that the reporting person, OIC and direct witnesses may also read the thread and hence will not be included in the term 'we'.

OldGardinia · 08/06/2023 16:27

AlisonDonut · 07/06/2023 09:10

She had been keeping a diary of her movements day in day out to prove that she couldn't have been a poster on Kiwi Farms as she was in the shops/playing the organ in church/in a meeting at the time of posting.

The reason they have given the very short notice of the accusations is so that she cannot cross reference and disprove these allegations.

They weren't going to give her the allegations at all before court. I'd be interested to know how often that happens.

There are 22 pages in this thread so somebody else has probably already made this point... But you shouldn't have to prove that you're not a particular poster on KiwiFarms. It should be on them to prove that she is. Innocent until proven guilty. If you reverse that then a country goes to a bad place very quickly.

This is clearly vindictive.

And FWIW, I don't think someone should be prosecuted for what they say on KiwiFarms even it had been her. Assuming it's not literal libel and is just an opinion.

SabrinaThwaite · 08/06/2023 16:32

And we still don't know what Caroline was arrested for.

Yes we do. October last year for malicious communications. AKA hurty words on the internet. This was widely reported at the time, including all the Farrow household’s devices being seized.

Many also know who the complainant is, and know of the numerous other cases this person has brought over the years.

There have been civil claims involved as well.

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