It's finally happened, I've been "told" to put my preferred pronouns in my email signature at work.
I've emailed back saying my preference is that I don't do this. But I'm feeling a bit anxious 😬.
Please can I get some advice on what to say if they come back with questions or pressure to comply?
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Declining to put my preferred pronouns in my email signature
HowDoIGetThisThingOff · 23/05/2023 13:11
SaltyColin · 23/05/2023 15:42
Guaranteed this poster will come back and say "but how does it affect you/why does it bother you/what difference does it make to you?"
Girlboss1989 · 23/05/2023 15:20
Why don't you just include whichever pronouns you want people to use for you?
PermanentTemporary · 23/05/2023 15:46
@determinedtomakethiswork I've certainly sent emails saying stuff like 'Jane, I'm copying you in because Dawn said you were interested in this project. She told me that you were on a similar team in your last job' etc. Of course pronouns get used.
Also I am not always aware of what names from other cultures imply about sex in that culture.
BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 23/05/2023 16:00
My sex has no factor on any element of my job. Therefore my pronouns are not required in order for me and others to work effectively together.
I file this under the same as which political party I would vote, whether I have a religion etc. Its unnecessary data, on me, that is not required in order for everyone to perform their duties at work.
Girlboss1989 · 23/05/2023 15:20
Why don't you just include whichever pronouns you want people to use for you?
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ArabeIIaScott · 23/05/2023 15:23
Some of us are unsure of what our pronouns are. What do we put?
Girlboss1989 · 23/05/2023 15:20
Why don't you just include whichever pronouns you want people to use for you?
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