@Somanycats BS why?
I suspect I have ADHD. My life has been severely impacted by symptoms that correlate with it. My bother and my nephew both have a diagnosis from young age and I suspect my mother has always had it.
My understanding is that women were rarely diagnosed in the past because they do not cluster around the mean of symptoms that men and boys often do and so were overlooked.
I went to my NHS doctor to say I would like an evaluation. I was told it was not possible for adults to be assessed on the NHS unless I was in a mental health unit for another problem, like depression say (London borough)
I phoned up a leading mental health charity and they confirmed this but sign posted me to charities for advice.
I looked at the price it costs for a private consultation at the time it was £700 - £1,200
I found one for £500
I had to stop and consider spending that money which was huge for me. I have severe chronic allergies and have been spending my money on that and then I was going to swallow it, but the pandemic started and all my savings went on normal life as I couldn't work.
So I couldn't afford it and I still can't. I believe I have it, and have had it all my life but have to carry on suffering with a lower quality of life and struggling at work to not make mistakes and struggling to keep everyday normal stuff going.
In the past I've been called lazy (I'm religious and I even prayed whilst crying, not to be lazy because I couldn't understand why I'm not motivated to do things like other people, the effort is huge. It's so hard) been told I'm 'Away with the fairies' for my chronic inattention. Get asked repeatedly 'if anyone is home' my family repeatedly ask me if I heard them whilst talking because I've gone off into space, and I have learned to pretend I've been listening after realising I've zoned out even on MN I sometimes write half a thread then need to give up.
My employer recorded a message for me yesterday presumably about something really important to the business that she has mentioned before- I'm trying to work out how I'm going to find out what it is whilst pretending I remember. I must of zoned out or not registered it and I have chronic serious avoidance and constant anxiety and double check everything I do for fear of the mistakes. I still make them.
I will say it's just like anxiety. Many people and celebrities started saying they suffer with anxiety, when it was intermittent normal anxiety everyone has, leaving true sufferers of chronic anxiety to feel their condition was now trivialised.
Yes big pharma is corrupt and exploits everything to make money, but this does harm to genuine sufferers who on basis of programs like this (and I haven't seen it but it appears it was somewhat shallow in its analysis) will be treated with scepticism.
Private treatment requires saving for many people, particularly if they don't have insurance, and so you would feel you meet the criteria for this thing even if it later turns out you don't.