Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans rights activism, a GC male perspective

477 replies

RealityFan · 01/04/2023 16:07

Hallo Mumsnet allies, from recently-joined new comrade in arms. And a male to boot.
I've been deliberating leaving some thoughts on the scarred landscape that is trans activism, from an XY perspective. I'm unsure of how much interest a guy's thoughts are here.
My opinions range from the autogynephile/porn "sharp end" of the phenomenon, through my views as a male non parent on the phenomenon amongst teens, through the threat to free speech/institutional capture area, segueing nicely into the Labour Party's position and what this means post-2024 GE.
I need to be frank in this discussion, and some of what I might say may rub some readers the wrong way, but it's my heartfelt analysis.
I'm seeing very little from GC men online, save for Graham Linehan, Malcolm Clark, Dennis Noel Kavanagh, Simon Edge, Colin Wright, Billboard Chris, Wesley Yang, Jon Pike.
My take is of someone who's really thought a lot about this subject, has really weighed up lots of factors, and has really come down on the GC side, indeed is working hard to reconcile very strong emotions on the subject.
I'll post my thoughts if that's wanted, let me know.

OP posts:
PomegranateOfPersephone · 06/09/2023 19:24

I seem to remember that Maria Montessori wrote about a sensitive period for the development of erotic arousal which fits really well with the example of the 12 year old boy and the wet suit.

This is one of the many reasons why we should be protecting under 18s from exposure to pornography and other explicit imagery. It would allow them to develop a more natural set of desires around intimacy and to develop at their own pace.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 06/09/2023 21:14

Deadringer · 01/04/2023 16:37

I wish more men were allies. Most of them don't give a stuff because it doesn't affect them really. Some men identifying as women and entering female spaces, sports, competitions, whatever leaves less 'weirdos' in theirs.

I totally agree.

And sadly nothing will change with this until men start saying "hang on a minute, this makes no sense".

Because, sadly mens' views count for more than womens'.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread