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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Boycott New Zealand

694 replies

Clymene · 26/03/2023 16:48

Let's hit the state sanctioned violence against women where it hurts - in their pockets.

Off the top of my head:

Wine - Oyster Bay, Villa Maria, the Ned, Wairau Cove, Brancott Eatate, Cloudy Bay
Lamb - check the label to make sure it's British
Manuka honey and ordinary honey - M&S stock quite a few.
Wool
Allbirds shoes
Canterbury clothing.

Have I missed anything?

Also write to the PM: [email protected]
Minister for trade: [email protected]

And tell them you're boycotting and why. There's no point if they don't know you're doing it!

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suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:10

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 12:06

The links to the sources of the data are shown in the right hand corner of the graphic. I'm sure you are as capable of typing them into a search engine as I am.

The data are from:

  1. His Majesty's Prison Service
  2. The ONS

The ONS data are derived from the last census, in which the question about gender identity was optional. Anyone who felt uncomfortable about stating their trans status could opt not to answer. Only 6% of the population chose not to answer (link), so it's pretty unlikely that large numbers of trans-identifying people were missed.

6% of the UK population is a huge figure - 2.9 million people - say around a third of them were transwomen that were unhappy to identify as such that would approx increase the number from 48,000 to 1,048,000.....

Which would take the figure to 87 out of a million, or less than a quarter of the figure for male sexual offenders.

Of course this is all speculation, but we know the huge unwillingness to identify as trans on surveys due to the historic (and unfortunately present) climate we live in of discrimination against trans people, and this is likely to massively skew figures.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:12

Hepwo · 27/03/2023 13:00

The UK is a great place to live! You should read something other than the Guardian.

To be fair Hepwo, I have seen enough negative generalisations about Australia during my time on MN. Quite often they are from people who don't have any depth of knowledge about Australia and I just ignore it because I have witnessed enough of the same from Australians about British people.

But it does happen. And I have seen posters I respect making them and not making them in jest or tongue in cheek.

Both Australia and UK have their own unique issues to deal with. Both places are great places to live.

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:13

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 12:58

Let's not bother waiting though for answers to any questions about that significantly clipped transcript. We know that they will not come. Instead it is just the usual doubled down cherry picking of words that when in context simply don't stand up to scrutiny to show what some posters have stated they mean in a significantly reduced transcript.

Strange though, suggestions has access to the full transcript yet continues to post the clipped one missing all the context.....

And I am sure will deny dishonest intention.

I give you permission to copy and paste my transcript next time suggestions, let's keep it honest.

I'm very happy that people read the full transcript - I don't know why you think I wouldn't be?

I don't have endless time to transcribe prejudice and bigotry so I focussed on the most salient parts, but I'm glad that you do have this time to write it all out.

The prejudice and bigotry is there for all to see.

Alondra · 27/03/2023 13:14

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MarshaBradyo · 27/03/2023 13:14

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Why don’t you apologise?

Nasty nasty

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Lockheart · 27/03/2023 13:22

I'm curious as to why it's ok to question the ethnicity / origins of some posters but not others. This has been going on all weekend -posters being told they're lying about being from NZ or of Maori heritage when they disagree with the main thrust of opinion.

None of us know who we all really are behind the screen.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:25

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:13

I'm very happy that people read the full transcript - I don't know why you think I wouldn't be?

I don't have endless time to transcribe prejudice and bigotry so I focussed on the most salient parts, but I'm glad that you do have this time to write it all out.

The prejudice and bigotry is there for all to see.

So then post it next time.

Stop posting a truncated version that cuts out the context.

Yes, having flexible work hours can be a bonus if it means I can spend time to type out an extra couple of paragraphs that you couldn’t be arsed to.

The words ARE there to see. You have not yet in the what? three times you have posted this?? been able to point out exactly where the prejudice and bigotry is.

Do you think a male exposing themselves in a female single sex space is not ‘creepy’?

Maybe your boundaries are so low that you cannot recognise sexualised behaviour and behaviour of males who cross the line into sexual abuse, but I doubt many other readers cannot read the words and see what she is trying to say.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 13:28

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:10

6% of the UK population is a huge figure - 2.9 million people - say around a third of them were transwomen that were unhappy to identify as such that would approx increase the number from 48,000 to 1,048,000.....

Which would take the figure to 87 out of a million, or less than a quarter of the figure for male sexual offenders.

Of course this is all speculation, but we know the huge unwillingness to identify as trans on surveys due to the historic (and unfortunately present) climate we live in of discrimination against trans people, and this is likely to massively skew figures.

Oh come off it. You are clutching at straws. You disputed my data sources and, now you see how solid they are, you are trying to find some other excuse to disbelieve them.

In any case, @TommyNever has already provided the MoJ figures:

Of the transwomen in UK prisons, 58.9% had at least one sexual offence conviction.
Of the men in UK prisons, only 16.8% had at least one sexual offence conviction.
Of the women in UK prisons, a tiny 3.3% had at least one sexual offence conviction.

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:28

I didn’t see anyone else tell a Maori person they’re not Maori, other than what just happened. There’s a poster who last year was racist to a Maori poster and, and I searched this, since that date had been using Maori words ( often incorrectly ) and then followed me around in the weekend when I joined making disparaging remarks including about my family. Their posts were removed for that reason and because they insulted another poster in Maori. Although from looking at the history of said poster they did not identify themselves as Maori before they were racist to the woman last year, nobody I think ever said: you are not Maori, to them. Just to me. Their comments were removed for personal attacks, not because they included Maori words

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 13:30

To be fair Hepwo, I have seen enough negative generalisations about Australia during my time on MN. Quite often they are from people who don't have any depth of knowledge about Australia and I just ignore it because I have witnessed enough of the same from Australians about British people

Yes, most Brits are convinced you cannot set foot in Australia without being bitten by a snake, terrorised by a spider and eaten by a croc. Laughable as, of course, this is only actually true in Queensland.

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:32

Well I’m kiwi and terrified of snakes, every time I go to Australia I see them!! But nobody I know living there does much. Maybe my fear attracts them 😂

MarshaBradyo · 27/03/2023 13:32

If people posted yes I condemn the violence I’d understand

But so much is not that. It’s bizarre

Imagine being for violence against women.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 13:35

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:32

Well I’m kiwi and terrified of snakes, every time I go to Australia I see them!! But nobody I know living there does much. Maybe my fear attracts them 😂

Like cats 😉

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:37

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 13:30

To be fair Hepwo, I have seen enough negative generalisations about Australia during my time on MN. Quite often they are from people who don't have any depth of knowledge about Australia and I just ignore it because I have witnessed enough of the same from Australians about British people

Yes, most Brits are convinced you cannot set foot in Australia without being bitten by a snake, terrorised by a spider and eaten by a croc. Laughable as, of course, this is only actually true in Queensland.

😂 and yet, the huge majority of us Queenslanders do manage to grow up to adulthood.

MerlinsLostMarbles · 27/03/2023 13:40

Clymene · 26/03/2023 22:46

Because the police let men assault women. They were also going to deny a woman an entry visa, searched her on entry, cancelled her hotel room and left aggressive messages under her hotel room door.

New Zealand is not a safe country for women. I feel really sorry for the women who are stuck there. It's a horrendous dangerous country. Not much bette than Afghanistan.

Sexual harassment is taken seriously in NZ. In 2020 a sexworker won a 6 figure payout.

You mentioned Afghanistan, what do you think happens to women (sexworkers or otherwise) who make a complaint of sexual harassment?

https://www.stuff.co.nz/business/123694563/sex-worker-wins-sixfigure-settlement-in-sexual-harassment-case

NotHavingIt · 27/03/2023 13:43

Alondra · 27/03/2023 12:53

No worries Kiwis, this is MN as its finest. Let's bash NZ (as Australia is every month) for

their politics
their people
their creepy crawlies
their climate

Considering the UK is in a mess with stagnant wages, impossibility of getting a face to face GP consultation, people turned away from A&E without a minimum of tests (which should have done by the GP anyway)

They have problems with having enough pharmacists and getting prescriptions without a problem. They have problems with ambulances that never arrive.

Their social fabric is crumbling but let's bash NZ. It's so fucking ridiculous, it's beyond hilarious.

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It was you who started the bashing with your morally rigtheous tone; and your depiction of the many varied women who post, or look in here, as right wing bigots or colonialists.

The NHS may be under a lot of presure at present, but it doesn't stop ambulances turning up within 10 minutes ( personal experience over the last few weeks), getting hold of prescription medications or any of the other situations you blow out of proportion for effect.

Remember you came on here all guns blazing - what on earth did you expect in response?

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:43

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:32

Well I’m kiwi and terrified of snakes, every time I go to Australia I see them!! But nobody I know living there does much. Maybe my fear attracts them 😂

You learn how to deal with them. At 4 I had one slither a foot in front of me and my mum yelled at me to stand still. You can betcha I was a statue !

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:44

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 27/03/2023 13:28

Oh come off it. You are clutching at straws. You disputed my data sources and, now you see how solid they are, you are trying to find some other excuse to disbelieve them.

In any case, @TommyNever has already provided the MoJ figures:

Of the transwomen in UK prisons, 58.9% had at least one sexual offence conviction.
Of the men in UK prisons, only 16.8% had at least one sexual offence conviction.
Of the women in UK prisons, a tiny 3.3% had at least one sexual offence conviction.

The raw data figures for transwomen - the sample size, is really too small to draw any valid conclusions here. I followed the link and it refers to a total of 129 transwomen in jail, 76 of whom have been jailed for sex offences (compared with 13234 men in jail for sex offences in an overall prison population of 78781 men).

Any good data analyst would not be happy with drawing conclusions from such a small sample size, especially in the light of the major problems already noted with how trans status is recorded.

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:51

@Helleofabore yes I’m sure if you lived with them it would be like any other creature you grow up with and you’d learn how to deal with them. It is weird how just across the ditch there’s snakes but none in nz. Although they’ve found a couple recently and one expert said he wouldn’t be surprised if it became common.

NecessaryScene · 27/03/2023 13:51

Any good data analyst would not be happy with drawing conclusions from such a small sample size, especially in the light of the major problems already noted with how trans status is recorded.

I'd agree that with those sample sizes the error margins make it hard to say anything definitive about a difference between transwomen and general male offending rates.

But it's absolutely a sufficient sample size to be certain that the transwomen offending pattern is nothing like the female one. The gulf is huge.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:52

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:44

The raw data figures for transwomen - the sample size, is really too small to draw any valid conclusions here. I followed the link and it refers to a total of 129 transwomen in jail, 76 of whom have been jailed for sex offences (compared with 13234 men in jail for sex offences in an overall prison population of 78781 men).

Any good data analyst would not be happy with drawing conclusions from such a small sample size, especially in the light of the major problems already noted with how trans status is recorded.

And twist.

What an amazing group that can have their crimes discounted because ‘too small a sample set’, yet use the call to ignore the harm caused because ‘too small a sample’.

How about we accept that this is probably close to reality. Because just as there are trans people not declaring their status and how unclear that is, there is the very well known confounder that males who rape are rarely reported and even when they are the chances of the victim getting justice with a conviction is low.

It doesn’t matter how much you which to dispute it, these are males who commit sex crimes at the rate at least comparable to all other males. If you want to dispute that, well, let’s see you try.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2023 13:53

Whaeanui · 27/03/2023 13:51

@Helleofabore yes I’m sure if you lived with them it would be like any other creature you grow up with and you’d learn how to deal with them. It is weird how just across the ditch there’s snakes but none in nz. Although they’ve found a couple recently and one expert said he wouldn’t be surprised if it became common.

You can blame us for the possums 😔.

MarshaBradyo · 27/03/2023 13:53

This sums up a few posters on these threads

Boycott New Zealand
TommyNever · 27/03/2023 13:53

suggestionsplease1 · 27/03/2023 13:44

The raw data figures for transwomen - the sample size, is really too small to draw any valid conclusions here. I followed the link and it refers to a total of 129 transwomen in jail, 76 of whom have been jailed for sex offences (compared with 13234 men in jail for sex offences in an overall prison population of 78781 men).

Any good data analyst would not be happy with drawing conclusions from such a small sample size, especially in the light of the major problems already noted with how trans status is recorded.

suggestionsplease1 said:

"The raw data figures for transwomen - the sample size, is really too small to draw any valid conclusions here. I followed the link and it refers to a total of 129 transwomen in jail, 76 of whom have been jailed for sex offences (compared with 13234 men in jail for sex offences in an overall prison population of 78781 men)."

The sample size is not small - it represents 100% of the transwomen in UK prisons at the time. The number is small because transwomen are a small minority of the general population.

Of course one can draw valid conclusions from such figures, and indeed one must conclude that if a transwomen has scored a prison sentence, it is much more likely to be for a sexual offence than is the case for any other category of prisoner as defined by "gender".

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