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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Re: Starmer

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EpicChaos · 15/02/2023 22:12

I hope that starmer, having possibly wetted his finger and stuck it in the air to see which way the wind is blowing,following Sturgeons resignation, doesn't think, that if he starts to be a bit GC, that women will be keen to vote for him!
The man has already planted his flag and just like Sturgeon, he chose to plant it on the north face of the Eiger. More fool him! imo.

I've already seen the colours that he wears and they aren't green, purple and white!
Women don't owe him a damned thing!

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FigRollsAlly · 19/02/2023 00:04

jgw1 · 18/02/2023 18:14

In a two party system, which is what we have in the UK, it is not unreasonable to consider the only alternative and what they may do. Especially given the alternative also happen to be the government who have introduced many of the things some posters on this thread are deeply concerned that Starmer might do.
I know, I know, the point of going on and on about gender is to try and bash Starmer in some way, but it is all rather transparent.

Seeing as this board is called “Feminism: sex and gender” it’s a bit rich to accuse us of “going on and on about gender”. If Starmer wasn’t so disappointing on self ID the discussions on here would be very different.

DemiColon · 19/02/2023 01:06

TBH I think people are continuously amazed that he continues on the same course. With each thing, you imagine, well, now he must see the issue. But he keeps on with the same stuff. The fact that he seems like a reasonably intelligent, nice person makes it more remarkable.

jgw1 · 19/02/2023 06:28

FigRollsAlly · 19/02/2023 00:04

Seeing as this board is called “Feminism: sex and gender” it’s a bit rich to accuse us of “going on and on about gender”. If Starmer wasn’t so disappointing on self ID the discussions on here would be very different.

I think it would be better named Starmer and Gender.

Floisme · 19/02/2023 08:35

Is it me or are even the Labour Women's Declaration beginning to lose patience? I've not seen them say anything outright rebellious yet but their retweets are getting more and more interesting e.g. Decca Aitkenhead's interview with Angela Rayner (Sunday Times today) that very politely and even regretfully skewers Rayner to the floor. I don't think LWD would have posted that a year ago.

Floisme · 19/02/2023 09:03

And then you've got Joan Smith (not sure of her connection with LWD but she always retweets them) barely disguising her contempt when she talks about Starmer and posting more and more photos of birds and the river, almost visibly trying to calm herself down.

These women aren't keyboard gobshites, they've given years of service to Labour and if even they're starting to lose their cool then I think things could get interesting.

NotHavingIt · 19/02/2023 12:09

scaredoff · 18/02/2023 01:21

It's not a good look denying what went on. I don't know why you'd do that.

You see the problem is I CAN'T deny "statements" like "I saw a sudden influx of anti-Semitic crap in my Tritter feed". They're undeniable, because they're not based on any verifiable evidence. Like pretty much the entire sorry saga.

Margaret Hodge put in 200 complaints to the Labour party abour instances of antisemitism and then went public complaining about the lack of results. On further investigation, it was established that only 20 of those concerned Labour members. 😀 Apparently it was Jeremy Corbyn's responsibility to deal with EVERYBODY'S antisemitism! So pretty much like the Luciana Berger thing you're on about here.

Luciana Berger and Frank Field come to mind specifically on anti semitism. You know this.

You seem to have a real problem following a train of thought from one post to another. Let me recap:

A claim was made that Corbyn didn't expel Labour members, the way Starmer has done. You countered with a load of absolute bullshit that the members who had to hire bodyguards and install panic buttons because of him were effectively forced out. You gave Luciana Berger as an example.

When I pointed out that all the people convicted of antisemitic acts against Berger were not Labour members, most of them being known neo-nazis, and anyway none of what happened to her is evidence of a widespread problem causing MEMBERS to need bodyguards and panic buttons, you said you were talking about politicians (thus a complete non sequiter from the original question).

So, OK. The next installment: Apparently now Frank Field also needed to hire bodyguards and install panic buttons, until he was finally forced out in fear for his life, did he? Quite a scoop you've got there, considering he never even said anything to that effect himself.

You see, I never actually asked you to provide a list (of two) of "politicians who resigned from the Labout party under Corbyn because they didn't like him". But you don't seem to recognise the difference between people leaving because of the impact of bullying and antisemitism towards them (your original claim) and people leaving claiming the existence of bullying and antisemitism towards others as a reason why (like Field, or Chuka).

Most of the parliamentary party were not on board with Corbyn's project and a good number of them were willing to stoop to any lengths to destroy it, including colluding with a media-led frenzy about antisemitism consisting almost entirely of the kind of supposition, implication, hearsay, unproven or unprovable claims and outright lies that you've parrotted here, and that keep falling to pieces at the slightest examination. It's not like their opposition to him on ideological grounds was any kind of secret.

So please don't accuse me of denial until you have something meaningful that can actually be confirmed or denied (and the capacity to remember it from one post to the next). Hint: "Somebody who had a vested interest in doing so said lots of people were nasty to them, and some of them may even have been Labour members so it's definitely Jeremy Corbyn's fault" ain't it.

I live in a Liverpool constituenecy that was once represented by Labour MP Louise Ellman. I'm also a now ex Labour party member. She was bullied out of that constituency by some people with very big axes to grind, and deep hatred of the fact that she was a 'Friend of Israel'. She was replaced with a Momentum shoe-in in the form of Kim Johnson. Louise Ellman was just one victim of the local CLP purges that went on under Corbyn.

The moment my views on Corbyn changed came as a result of watching clips of some local CLP meetings, at which he was present, in which MPs were publicly abused and humiliated. I waited for a swift rsponse and rebuttal from him, which sadly never came. He over-saw, stood by and watched, as hard working local MPs were hounded and bullied, and he said nothing.

ThisIsMyGCname · 20/02/2023 12:53

This is a response from KS office to one of the automated emails I sent.

“Thank you for your recent email. Our office has received a large number of emails on trans rights and legislation in the Scottish Parliament to update their Gender Recognition Act in recent weeks.

We know that many xxxxx have strong feelings about these matters, often due to their personal experiences. Keir believes that we need to work through these issues with respect and sensitivity.

To be clear on Keir’s position, we are providing anyone who has written to us on these matters with the same response.

Labour is the party of equality. We want trans people to be treated fairly and we also support the protection of certain spaces that are for biological women.

That’s why Labour supports modernisation of the Gender Recognition Act and the protection of the Equality Act, including its provision for single-sex spaces.

It’s right that we consider how to include trans people fairly in ways that do not disadvantage biological women.

Labour believes that the current process to obtain a Gender Recognition Certificate is out-of-date. It asks people to go through a very arduous process and obtain the consent of their husband or wife (if they have one) to change gender.

All the political parties agreed that the process needed modernising, but the Conservatives dropped their plans, and now seem to be playing political games with it. Meanwhile, trans people still face discrimination and are still faced with the same outdated process.

A future Labour government would address this with a better process to support people who identify as a gender that’s different to the one they were born in.

We would also uphold the Equality Act that allows for certain spaces for biological women. The vast majority of the time, trans women are rightly treated with respect and compassion as women. However, the law rightly protects some spaces for biological women, and allows for trans women to be excluded from those spaces in specific circumstances. The Equality Act makes provision for this when it is a ‘proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim’.

Labour is steadfast in our commitment to tackle violence against women and girls and advocate for women’s rights. We created the law that protects single-sex spaces for biological women - and we will always keep those protections.

For example, it’s right that women leaving domestic violence are able to seek safety and security in a women-only refuge - and this is recognised in law.

Now is a time when we need to see all politicians behaving in a sensitive and grownup way about these serious issues. We can only find solutions to these issues by bringing people together, not pitting them against each other.

Thanks again for your message.

Best wishes,”

SinnerBoy · 20/02/2023 15:09

It asks people to go through a very arduous process and obtain the consent of their husband or wife (if they have one) to change gender.

I'm pretty sure that that's incorrect.

IcakethereforeIam · 20/02/2023 15:16

There's the spousal exit clause, @tinselangel knows the in and outs of that. If he's suggesting getting rid of that then he's out of order. As I understand it, it protects a non-consenting partner from suddenly being in a same sex marriage.

SinnerBoy · 20/02/2023 15:24

As I understand it, it protects a non-consenting partner from suddenly being in a same sex marriage.

That was my impression, that a partner can have the marriage annulled, easily, with no fault attached.

NotHavingIt · 20/02/2023 15:27

ThisIsMyGCname · 20/02/2023 12:53

This is a response from KS office to one of the automated emails I sent.

“Thank you for your recent email. Our office has received a large number of emails on trans rights and legislation in the Scottish Parliament to update their Gender Recognition Act in recent weeks.

We know that many xxxxx have strong feelings about these matters, often due to their personal experiences. Keir believes that we need to work through these issues with respect and sensitivity.

To be clear on Keir’s position, we are providing anyone who has written to us on these matters with the same response.

Labour is the party of equality. We want trans people to be treated fairly and we also support the protection of certain spaces that are for biological women.

That’s why Labour supports modernisation of the Gender Recognition Act and the protection of the Equality Act, including its provision for single-sex spaces.

It’s right that we consider how to include trans people fairly in ways that do not disadvantage biological women.

Labour believes that the current process to obtain a Gender Recognition Certificate is out-of-date. It asks people to go through a very arduous process and obtain the consent of their husband or wife (if they have one) to change gender.

All the political parties agreed that the process needed modernising, but the Conservatives dropped their plans, and now seem to be playing political games with it. Meanwhile, trans people still face discrimination and are still faced with the same outdated process.

A future Labour government would address this with a better process to support people who identify as a gender that’s different to the one they were born in.

We would also uphold the Equality Act that allows for certain spaces for biological women. The vast majority of the time, trans women are rightly treated with respect and compassion as women. However, the law rightly protects some spaces for biological women, and allows for trans women to be excluded from those spaces in specific circumstances. The Equality Act makes provision for this when it is a ‘proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim’.

Labour is steadfast in our commitment to tackle violence against women and girls and advocate for women’s rights. We created the law that protects single-sex spaces for biological women - and we will always keep those protections.

For example, it’s right that women leaving domestic violence are able to seek safety and security in a women-only refuge - and this is recognised in law.

Now is a time when we need to see all politicians behaving in a sensitive and grownup way about these serious issues. We can only find solutions to these issues by bringing people together, not pitting them against each other.

Thanks again for your message.

Best wishes,”

Some of that suggests a slight more affirmative shift towards protected categories for biological sex, and other sections are just patronising and dismissive.

"Now is a time when we need to see all politicians behaving in a sensitive and grownup way about these serious issues. We can only find solutions to these issues by bringing people together, not pitting them against each other"

Thanks again for your message.

NotHavingIt · 20/02/2023 15:28

It also doesn't deal with the issue of child transition - other than an implicit suggestion that they would support it.

ThisIsMyGCname · 20/02/2023 15:45

I agree with you all, Icake, Sinner and Not.

I immediately thought that the marriage part was wrong and that it didn’t mention children. Those bits of dis-misinformation made me doubt the rest.
Although I was glad biological women were mentioned, though I would question what other sort are there?

Abhannmor · 20/02/2023 16:58

Tanith · 17/02/2023 14:12

Yes, he did. He expelled three Labour members in Surrey for backing an NHS candidate against Jeremy Hunt when JH was Health Secretary.

Oh please. You campaign for a different candidate and expect to remain in your own party. In what universe does that happen?

Imagine if Corbyn just said ' ah well at least they didn't work for the Hunt himself so that's cool'
That would really go down a treat with the local Labour Party.

Floisme · 20/02/2023 18:01

Thanks for posting that email response ThisIsMyGCname. Do I detect a slight shift in tone around single sex spaces? Which is welcome as far as it goes but what I'm really looking for is some action e.g. talking in public to the Labour Women's Declaration - does anyone know if they were invited to the event at the weekend?

teawamutu · 20/02/2023 18:05

That's not the worst response I've seen.

He's going to need to do more to actually support women's rights, rather than just 'ceasing to shit on us', though.

Engaging with groups in His Own Bloody Party would be quite a good start.

Floisme · 20/02/2023 18:12

Engaging with groups in His Own Bloody Party would be quite a good start.

Yup. The day he does that is the day I'll start taking serious notice.

ThisIsMyGCname · 20/02/2023 19:47

I spoke to the Labour Women’s Declaration at the WPUK conference a few weekends back. They said KS had said he didn’t know they existed?!

Floisme · 20/02/2023 22:32

ThisIsMyGCname · 20/02/2023 19:47

I spoke to the Labour Women’s Declaration at the WPUK conference a few weekends back. They said KS had said he didn’t know they existed?!

I honestly don't know how they stand it.

Floisme · 20/02/2023 22:33

Although does that mean they were allowed at the event this time? (Hopeful)

Floisme · 20/02/2023 22:34

Nah - on second thoughts, forget I asked that. It's time to have a little self respect.

Trainnerd · 20/02/2023 22:49

Floisme · 16/02/2023 11:10

I can't imagine being keen to vote Labour again. That ship has sailed and my respect and loyalty has gone down with it. (Excuse mixed metaphors.) I'm also pragmatic and would lend them my vote again if they changed course, it's just that I can't see myself ever thinking of them as 'my party' again.

This is how I feel too

howmanybicycles · 21/02/2023 02:45

NotHavingIt · 20/02/2023 15:27

Some of that suggests a slight more affirmative shift towards protected categories for biological sex, and other sections are just patronising and dismissive.

"Now is a time when we need to see all politicians behaving in a sensitive and grownup way about these serious issues. We can only find solutions to these issues by bringing people together, not pitting them against each other"

Thanks again for your message.

It also says that trans people are still facing discrimination but fails to state that so are women.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 21/02/2023 07:43

Thank you for your recent email. Our office has received a large number of emails on trans rights and legislation in the Scottish Parliament to update their Gender Recognition Act in recent weeks

And there's the problem that will never be fixed. Women are contacting Starmer's office about women's rights but are totally erased from the conversation. Despite a bit of lip service in an attempt to shut us up, we are not a consideration at all. Only one issue matters to Labour. I have no idea why anyone is giving them the benefit of the doubt. What's the point of voting for them in a forlorn hope they'll change if they get into office when they won't?

Floisme · 21/02/2023 08:20

What's the point of voting for them in a forlorn hope they'll change if they get into office when they won't?
I can't speak for anyone else, seahorses, but what I'm doing right now is watching what they say, what they do and who they talk to. I'll make up my mind about voting when they put out their manifesto.
Even if I had decided, there's no way I'd declare my hand this point. I don't see any point in telling them with 18 months to go, 'Whatever you do I'm going to vote for you anyway.' My vote is just about the only bargaining chip I've got.

ThisIsMyGCname I misread your post last night and thought you'd talked to LWD at the Labour event in Scotland, not at the WPUK conference, so my reply was a bit nonsense, sorry!