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Is any one just a little bit gleeful right now?

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Appalonia · 30/01/2023 22:53

After so many years seemingly howling in the wind, FINALLY the MSM are taking the issues , seriously, it's on front page news, discussed in Westminster, BBC, ITV, C4,it's all over Twitter, even the bloody GUARDIAN is reporting on it, and, by the outrage over Adam Graham, the convicted rapist being put in a women's jail, it looks like we are on the right side of history after all...

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TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 11:15

And yet here we are - it is the rapists in prison issue that has peaked people. But why now? Why not Karen White or Tiffany Scott or all the other cases? Scotland has been putting violent men in the women's estate for nine years, after all.

Yes, really interesting question.

I didn't think it would be women prisoners either. I thought it would be sportspeople.

But my suspicion is that the picture of Isla/Ad am did a lot of heavy lifting. The ridiculous juxtaposition of cosplay as woman, while still accentuating the cock.

It captures the absurdity of the trans identifying position. The brazenness of these men. The offensiveness of it all. He's taking us all for fools and that picture captured it perfectly.

The way in which the media positioned it also told its own tale, with some outlets cropping at the waist and others not. Why desist from showing the full image? What kind of craven position is that?

So actually, I don't think it is about the women prisoners, sad a conclusion as that is. People don't want to be openly mocked and that is what Adam is doing.

Boiledbeetle · 31/01/2023 11:20

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 11:15

And yet here we are - it is the rapists in prison issue that has peaked people. But why now? Why not Karen White or Tiffany Scott or all the other cases? Scotland has been putting violent men in the women's estate for nine years, after all.

Yes, really interesting question.

I didn't think it would be women prisoners either. I thought it would be sportspeople.

But my suspicion is that the picture of Isla/Ad am did a lot of heavy lifting. The ridiculous juxtaposition of cosplay as woman, while still accentuating the cock.

It captures the absurdity of the trans identifying position. The brazenness of these men. The offensiveness of it all. He's taking us all for fools and that picture captured it perfectly.

The way in which the media positioned it also told its own tale, with some outlets cropping at the waist and others not. Why desist from showing the full image? What kind of craven position is that?

So actually, I don't think it is about the women prisoners, sad a conclusion as that is. People don't want to be openly mocked and that is what Adam is doing.

Plus the timing has been fortuitous. had this happened in November it would be very different right now.

Also I think some press were just waiting for the chance to show the absolute absurdity of the whole thing. Considering their wings are currently clipped on what they can say, it must be infuriating for some of them.

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 11:21

Plus the timing has been fortuitous. had this happened in November it would be very different right now.

Also I think some press were just waiting for the chance to show the absolute absurdity of the whole thing. Considering their wings are currently clipped on what they can say, it must be infuriating for some of them.

Yes totally agree

EndlessTea · 31/01/2023 11:24

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 11:21

Plus the timing has been fortuitous. had this happened in November it would be very different right now.

Also I think some press were just waiting for the chance to show the absolute absurdity of the whole thing. Considering their wings are currently clipped on what they can say, it must be infuriating for some of them.

Yes totally agree

I don’t really think of it as fortuitous, more that there are enough of these men doing this at any time, that it was bound to happen.

DameMaud · 31/01/2023 11:29

DarkDayforMN · 31/01/2023 10:32

www.hup.harvard.edu/catalog.php?isbn=9780674707580

Is it this? My memory dredged up the term “preference falsification.” I seem to remember an interesting podcast on the subject but I haven’t read the book.

How weird! Was listening to this last night. Could be this?
podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-4-conformity-and-preference-falsification/id1547906133?i=1000508197168

CatOutOfTheGoldLameBag · 31/01/2023 11:29

TheKeatingFive But my suspicion is that the picture of Isla/Ad am did a lot of heavy lifting. The ridiculous juxtaposition of cosplay as woman, while still accentuating the cock.
It captures the absurdity of the trans identifying position. The brazenness of these men. The offensiveness of it all. He's taking us all for fools and that picture captured it perfectly.

But but Jordan Grey?? Talk about accentuating a cock

OvaHere · 31/01/2023 11:33

I'm mostly still very angry. Everything that has been highlighted and talked about in the MSM could have been talked about 5 -20 years ago.

Yes it's good seeing Sturgeon and others put on the spot but the way we've been gaslighted over all this and still are to a large extent is infuriating and painful.

This has all been a solid battle victory and we've taken significant ground but around us the war rages on.

DameMaud · 31/01/2023 11:36

RoyalCorgi · 31/01/2023 10:17

One of the many mistakes the tras made was to think that bullying in to silence is the same as agreement.

Definitely. A lot of people who were previously too scared to say anything are now speaking out.

And this reminds me (I may even start a separate thread). A few years ago someone on here recommended a book by an American academic. It was about how governments are often blindsided by sudden shifts in popular opinion, and the rise in populist movements. The argument was that a lot of the time people go along with the dominant liberal view because they are too scared to dissent, but that if something happens to make it acceptable to express these views, there'll be a massive shift of people apparently changing their opinion. I meant to read it then, but didn't, and have now forgotten the author and the book title. Please, someone, tell me what it was!

Private Truths, Public Lies: The Social Consequences of Preference Falsification by Timur Kuran www.goodreads.com/book/show/1016932.Private_Truths_Public_Lies

This book?

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 11:44

But but Jordan Grey?? Talk about accentuating a cock

Yeah, but in an 'entertainment' context it feels quite different. I use that word very loosely.

Beamur · 31/01/2023 11:51

I don't think it's a coincidence that Scotland's attempt to change the law and England's response to scupper it was swiftly followed by pink penis leggings.
Someone saw a fortuitous gap in Nicola Sturgeons armour and has poked a hole.
NS has been toeing the line for the Green vote but I think had an eye on leverage for independence.
I think she may have picked the wrong issue. This chap wasn't the first heading for a cushy time in the women's prison but he has been the fall guy for this nonsensical policy.

hryllilegur · 31/01/2023 12:00

think there are two ways to mentally reconcile Sturgeon's "solution" of sending Bryson to a man's prison with her previously stated views. The press is focusing on the explanation that she's admitting that TWANW; TWAM even if only in a few select situations. But the other possibility is that Bryson is not a transwoman.

Yes. I suspect that we will see a separation between real TW and fake TW, and a doubling down on (real) TWAW.

Obviously, it can only be a good thing if the idea that not all men presenting as TW are genuine, or doing so for acceptable reasons, means the authorities and TRAs need to recognise the importance of checks and oversight.

But I think they’re going to double down on the TWAW while obfuscating and distracting to avoid answering any definitional questions that would enable anyone to distinguish between real and fake TW. There will be much more vitriol around ‘bigotry’ as a way of preventing any sensible discussion of what a woman is and how you could possibly know who is really a woman and who is actually just a predatory man.

And that’s also reinforcing the stupid distinction that keeps getting repeated about (real) TW vs ‘predatory men’, as if there’s no possibility that someone could be both. The argument seems to go ‘stop equating TW with predatory men’ as a means of shutting down any discussion of the overlap between the two categories. I worry that the rhetoric will seek to further sanctify the TW category by creating the fake TW/predatory men category as a foil. We simply won’t be able to talk about the problematic people and behaviour of TW because ‘they’re not real TW’.

Note to the deliberately obtuse: asking questions about this stuff is not the same
as saying that all TW are predatory or problematic. We need to stop positioning some groups as beyond question (it is always exploited).

Helleofabore · 31/01/2023 12:07

I am looking forward to the checklist being published so we can definitively know which are real and which are not.

I think we can keep asking for that every time. Maybe they will get the hint and cease the extreme demands and actually be forced to discuss realistic solutions that don't affect women and children's safety, opportunities, and the need for dignity and privacy.

maybe.

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 12:07

I worry that the rhetoric will seek to further sanctify the TW category by creating the fake TW/predatory men category as a foil. We simply won’t be able to talk about the problematic people and behaviour of TW because ‘they’re not real TW’.

In this case, the TRAs will need to get a lot more specific on what defines a TW.

Currently it's anyone who says they are. No questions, no debate.

But what actual workable definition/criteria could differentiate from those who 'really are' and those who 'say they are'?

hryllilegur · 31/01/2023 12:16

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 12:07

I worry that the rhetoric will seek to further sanctify the TW category by creating the fake TW/predatory men category as a foil. We simply won’t be able to talk about the problematic people and behaviour of TW because ‘they’re not real TW’.

In this case, the TRAs will need to get a lot more specific on what defines a TW.

Currently it's anyone who says they are. No questions, no debate.

But what actual workable definition/criteria could differentiate from those who 'really are' and those who 'say they are'?

I think they’ll follow Sturgeon and totally fudge that.

They’re not going to openly discuss what the objective criteria might be … because all that will do is force them to admit that there’s nothing but stereotypes and nonsense to base their ideas on.

There’s material reality - actual biology - and as soon as you move away from that, there really isn’t anything that isn’t a more or less offensive stereotype to base the claim to womanhood on.

So they’ll fudge it. TWAW at all times. Because they say so. But obviously not that rapist. Because… mumble… mumble … you’re all bigots.

TheKeatingFive · 31/01/2023 12:19

So they’ll fudge it. TWAW at all times. Because they say so. But obviously not that rapist. Because… mumble… mumble … you’re all bigots

I totally agree that's what they'll try to do. But after last week it's going to be very hard to maintain that fudge.

I don't think the war is won, far from it, but the sunlight that's been shone on the charming Adam has changed the terms considerably.

justasking111 · 31/01/2023 12:26

We're in Wales so if our MPs AMs cock up like this their card is marked. Locals will chase down pictures, interviews and put them up at every opportunity to remind us what they said, what they believe during their term when elections draw near. They just don't get in again.

The SNP have a big problem with low grade MPs which needs addressing

BlackForestCake · 31/01/2023 12:33

But if some TW are admitted to be “fake” then the whole self-ID project goes down the toilet and we’re back to “gatekeeping”.

SinnerBoy · 31/01/2023 12:36

TheKeatingFive · Today 11:15

So actually, I don't think it is about the women prisoners, sad a conclusion as that is. People don't want to be openly mocked and that is what Adam is doing.

Sadly, I think that there's a lot of truth in what you say. On the other hand, it's has certainly gained a lot of attention and people who may previously have been ambivalent about the subject are now thing: "WTF? Most of them don't have surgery? I thought they all had to, to get a certificate."

A lot, possibly most, won't think it through much more than that, but a reasonable number will take an interest, discuss it with family and friends and give it longer currency. That has to be a good thing, don't you think? Keep it going as a pot boiler and every time there's a similar case, speaking up about it.

Prior to last week, it was only the Mail and a few other tabloids reporting the subject with any degree of balance, or honesty; now, the broadsheets and TV news have picked up on it as a big story (well, perhaps excepting the BBC).

Boiledbeetle · 31/01/2023 12:43

SinnerBoy · Today 12:36
Sadly, I think that there's a lot of truth in what you say. On the other hand, it's has certainly gained a lot of attention and people who may previously have been ambivalent about the subject are now thing: "WTF? Most of them don't have surgery? I thought they all had to, to get a certificate."

I'm wondering how many people have assumed that any of these grown adult men giving diversity talks at work, joining the police, going into your children's schools, going into the women's changing rooms, toilets, prisons and rape centres and women's hostels have been cockless with a GRC. Because I'd bet they would be surprised to find out that probably most of them still had a penis and had no GRC.

DerekFaker · 31/01/2023 12:43

BlessedKali · 30/01/2023 23:24

I think the cat is out of the bag. I think people might try to ram the cat back into the bag, people might try to ignore the cat, and the cat might get a bit stuck at times. But the cat is definitely getting the fuck out of that bag.

I agree. There has been and will be more desperate pivoting and we can't afford to be complacent. But this is a big win.

SinnerBoy · 31/01/2023 12:46

Boiledbeetle · Today 12:43

Because I'd bet they would be surprised to find out that probably most of them still had a penis and had no GRC.

Well, basing that on what we know about it, I'm certain that you're correct.

potniatheron · 31/01/2023 12:48

Yes I do feel gleeful.

I'm loving it in fact.

When I spoke about this issue 3 years ago people would look disapprovingly at me because they honestly thought T was a subsector of LGB and that T people had all had SRS.

Now the cat is out of the bag, I can talk about it in public and normies not only know what I'm talking about and agree with me.

TWAW is a dead slogan.

Watching the TRAs currently tie themselves up in knots makes me laugh, almost as much as I laugh at @MargaritaPie

Boiledbeetle · 31/01/2023 12:53

SinnerBoy · 31/01/2023 12:46

Boiledbeetle · Today 12:43

Because I'd bet they would be surprised to find out that probably most of them still had a penis and had no GRC.

Well, basing that on what we know about it, I'm certain that you're correct.

When they realise self ID is actually already here, via be kind and if you're not you're a bigoted terf, in all of the UK whether it's in legislation yet or not people aren't going to be that impressed.

People generally, don't like being lied to or misled. Both leave a very unsavoury taste in the mouth.

DerekFaker · 31/01/2023 12:53

StalkedByASpider · 31/01/2023 05:19

If you believe that trans women ARE women, then they belong in women's prisons regardless of the crime they commit.

If you believe that trans women ARE women, you believe that rapists and those who sexually assault exclusively women belong in a women's prison.

Because a woman - regardless of her crime - does not ever belong in a men's prison. Women who have committed a crime against another woman don't get put in a men's prison. Because they're women.

So, what is it? Either trans women actually AREN'T women - or else they ARE women and putting rapists in female jails is OK. Pick which camp you're in.

If you think trans women really are women and you're supporting them to live their lives in exactly the same way as a woman, then you can't argue against a trans woman rapist being put in a women's jail.

For any sane person, very obviously a trans woman who sexually assaults, murders or attacks women should not be in a women's jail. Because they're male-bodied, and it puts the women in jail at risk.

Let's see how many of the TWAW crowd want to support rapists in female prisons. Because if they do, that shows how little they really do care about women's safety. And if they don't support trans women in women's prisons, then that proves that trans women aren't actually the same as women after all.

Checkmate.

MIC DROP.

RoyalCorgi · 31/01/2023 12:53

DameMaud · 31/01/2023 11:36

Private Truths, Public Lies: The Social Consequences of Preference Falsification by Timur Kuran www.goodreads.com/book/show/1016932.Private_Truths_Public_Lies

This book?

That's it. And the other link you posted, to the podcast, took me to an accompanying blogpost:

4w.pub/identity-crisis-conformity-and-preference-falsification/

I have ordered Private Truths, Public Lies now and look forward to reading it.

I do wonder, though. I think the majority of people are opposed to gender ideology. But there are a few hardcore types who really believe in it, and will continue believing in it even in the face of the absurdity of Isla Bryson. Will they eventually cave in? Or will they fight to the bitter end?