I am a woman, I am a feminist, I am not a GC feminist because I cannot agree with the GC belief that transgender people literally do not exist.
If a feminist isn't gender critical, they don't understand feminism.
The reason I know you're not a feminist is because you think gender critical means anti trans. It doesn't. It means critical of gender - society's expectations imposed on people due to their sex. Which disadvantages women, while advantaging men.
Women are oppressed because of their biology, and gender is the means by which it's done.
Transactivism claims that gender is innate. If feminists believed that, feminism wouldn't exist.
You're not a feminist, because you believe there are certain men who can violate women's boundaries, invade their privacy and make them uncomfortable. Not all men, just the ones you choose. Because that's how male supremacists think.