Yes, I hate that 'you need educating thing'. It does sound sinister I think because it's an American term that doesn't translate very well into English. Over here we used to say 'you need to learn more about it' which sounds much less threatening.
I'd love to see the questions, but I don't expect to. TBH I think the whole trans thing generally doesn't like any questions, no matter how innocent, it much prefers unquestioning compliance.
As a slightly side note, as a ex-nurse and therefore having worked with many, many Drs I am amazed that this Dr thinks it is professional for making it all about them and posting that ridiculous photo on twitter. Who cares if he/she/they found some of the questions stressful. It's not about them, it's about patient health.
You know things are bad when even Drs are making it all about them.