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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Munroe Bergdorf has a Glamour Woman of the Year award

117 replies

AngeloMysterioso · 12/11/2022 02:36

GLAMOUR and UOMA Beauty's Beauty Game-Changer of the year apparently.

Guess they couldn’t find any actual women deserving of the accolade… wonder how hard they looked?

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Charley50 · 12/11/2022 13:37

Shame that MB and other ultra-feminine Transwomen don't try to push the bandwidth of what being a man means, like Marilyn, Boy George (yuk), Marc Almond, David Sylvian, David Bowie, Leigh Bowery and Divine did, in their different ways. Instead they steal words and awards from women, while actively expressing hate towards us.

Sausagedoggy · 12/11/2022 13:38

beastlyslumber · 12/11/2022 07:23

Munroe is not a woman. Therefore should not be getting an award for being a woman. That's all.

This.

Helleofabore · 12/11/2022 14:01

So a male with extreme plastic surgery has won a glamour award?

And people remain shocked by the announcement that there is one group of 18 year olds getting pre-emotive Botox so they don’t get wrinkles.

And that there is another group of teen girls saying they are boys.

And a male with extreme plastic surgery is deigned the most glamourous of all?

Our teenagers are being told their worth in decisions like this and we are supposed to celebrate it. Fuck off.

Snoozer11 · 12/11/2022 14:24

I despise this cretin.

Sausagenbacon · 12/11/2022 14:29

I remember, a year or so ago when the FT listed them as one of their women of the year.

LadyApplejack · 12/11/2022 14:46

JaninaDuszejko · 12/11/2022 13:26

Is there a bot checking posts that they get removed so quickly?

Definitely, just had my first ever deleted post! Speaking facts is against MN guidelines apparently.

Babasghost · 12/11/2022 14:50

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Fuckedoffteacher · 12/11/2022 14:54

Helleofabore · 12/11/2022 14:01

So a male with extreme plastic surgery has won a glamour award?

And people remain shocked by the announcement that there is one group of 18 year olds getting pre-emotive Botox so they don’t get wrinkles.

And that there is another group of teen girls saying they are boys.

And a male with extreme plastic surgery is deigned the most glamourous of all?

Our teenagers are being told their worth in decisions like this and we are supposed to celebrate it. Fuck off.

All. Of. This!

Helleofabore · 12/11/2022 16:09

Soontobe60 · 12/11/2022 08:46

Plastic surgery can do wonders!

Having your face peeled off and completely reshaped should mean that you are ‘gorgeous’. Isn’t that the aim?

BettyFilous · 12/11/2022 17:38

Woman of the Year? It has to be Mahsa Amini (posthumously) for me. The fact that Glamour awarded it to Bergdorf just tells me how shallow and pointless the award is. Best ignored.

RambamThankyouMam · 12/11/2022 18:34

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ErrolTheDragon · 12/11/2022 18:51

I think the deletions have mostly (if not all) been for 'misgendering' . Best to just avoid pronouns tbh.

LadyApplejack · 12/11/2022 19:45

ErrolTheDragon · 12/11/2022 18:51

I think the deletions have mostly (if not all) been for 'misgendering' . Best to just avoid pronouns tbh.

Didn't know compelled speech was a feature of the MN Talk Guidelines!

Farmageddon · 12/11/2022 20:31

ErrolTheDragon · 12/11/2022 18:51

I think the deletions have mostly (if not all) been for 'misgendering' . Best to just avoid pronouns tbh.

I was deleted fairly sharpish. They seem to be waiting in the wings on the FWR board, whereas on other topics it takes ages.
Also, I don't think I mentioned pronouns, but said something about the extremes of plastic surgery. I don't think it was offensive...at least I don't think it was as offensive as a person cheating to win an award they are not eligible for and basking in praise for pretending to be something they aren't - but hey, I'm just a regular woman, so my opinion doesn't matter.

NotBadConsidering · 12/11/2022 20:40

VladmirsPoutine · 12/11/2022 11:51

It depends on your worldview, I am not of the opinion that people can change sex - it's biological. That is a given but I am also not going to antagonise someone's preferred identity - I gain nothing from calling transwomen men in dresses or whatever. I have no dog in the fight. I do however have huge interest in and quite an extensive background in race-related issues; so when she spoke about (the difficulties, among other things) about being mixed race I completely resonated with it. Some people wouldn't give a shiny shit about her race, or indeed race issues at large, but for me it's massively important.

But that’s not the question I asked. I didn’t ask why Bergdorf talking about race was interesting or why it resonates. I asked how you can believe it. Bergdorf is prepared to make stuff up about themselves in order to elevate Bergdorf’s standing. Why wouldn’t Bergdorf do this with race as well?

Or are you saying because the race part is something you’re interested in it means you feel no need to challenge the veracity of any of it?

When a male tells me they’re a woman, I cease to take anything they say to be true at face value. If they told me they had toast for breakfast I would raise an eyebrow. So you say when Bergdorf spoke about being mixed race it resonated, but how do you know any of it was real?

VladmirsPoutine · 12/11/2022 20:58

But that’s not the question I asked. I didn’t ask why Bergdorf talking about race was interesting or why it resonates. I asked how you can believe it.

I answered that it depends on your worldview. Her experiences of being mixed race resonate with my own of being mixed race. Not every mixed race person will have the same view or experiences of it.

Bergdorf is prepared to make stuff up about themselves in order to elevate Bergdorf’s standing. Why wouldn’t Bergdorf do this with race as well?

I don't doubt many people make stuff up about the various parts of their identity to push another agenda but what she said about being mixed race - in one particular interview (granted I haven't seen everything she's ever said about race), resonated with me.

Or are you saying because the race part is something you’re interested in it means you feel no need to challenge the veracity of any of it?

Again, mixed race people all have different experiences of our cultures and racial makeup. I do find myself interrogating a lot of what people say about the mixed experience but again I cannot challenge the 'veracity' of a mixed race person saying they for example were not accepted by either their white or black side because there is no universal fact-based science on the experiences of mixed people. I would sound rather bigoted telling someone who explains their experiences of racism that it didn't really happen because it never happened to me or that there is no scientific paper that quantifies their experience.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/11/2022 21:01

Didn't know compelled speech was a feature of the MN Talk Guidelines!

Not exactly... you don't have to actually mis-sex anyone.

BedTaker · 12/11/2022 21:10

Helleofabore · 12/11/2022 14:01

So a male with extreme plastic surgery has won a glamour award?

And people remain shocked by the announcement that there is one group of 18 year olds getting pre-emotive Botox so they don’t get wrinkles.

And that there is another group of teen girls saying they are boys.

And a male with extreme plastic surgery is deigned the most glamourous of all?

Our teenagers are being told their worth in decisions like this and we are supposed to celebrate it. Fuck off.

Fucking THIS!!!

All those influencers who go on about how terrible it is that young women feel such pressure to look like flawless bow up dolls, are the exact same people who cheer on Munroe and celebrate Munroe winning women's 'beauty' awards.

It's fucked up hypocrisy.

ResisterRex · 12/11/2022 21:10

Vladamir perhaps you missed it but I posted upthread about Bergdorf and race, who was dropped by L'Oreal and then "stepped down" from a Labour post.

Does it sound bigoted to say that:

white people’s "entire existence is drenched in racism".

?

Here's the source:

https://www.politicshome.com/news/article/controversial-race-row-model-munroe-bergdorf-resigns-as-lgbt-advisor-to-labour

NotBadConsidering · 12/11/2022 21:15

I answered that it depends on your worldview. Her experiences of being mixed race resonate with my own of being mixed race. Not every mixed race person will have the same view or experiences of it.

So because your worldview is to be interested in race you don’t worry about truth, as long as it resonates?

I don't doubt many people make stuff up about the various parts of their identity to push another agenda but what she said about being mixed race - in one particular interview (granted I haven't seen everything she's ever said about race), resonated with me.

Again, Bergdorf has made up something pretty fundamental about themselves. Doesn’t that set off alarm bells? But because it resonated with you, you don’t have any alarm bells?

I do find myself interrogating a lot of what people say about the mixed experience

But you don’t feel the need with Bergdorf. Why? What was so convincing about how Bergdorf told this part of their lives that is any different to how Bergdorf emphatically tells us Bergdorf is a woman?

I would sound rather bigoted telling someone who explains their experiences of racism that it didn't really happen because it never happened to me or that there is no scientific paper that quantifies their experience.

So even though Bergdorf emphatically tells us something that can be objectively shown to be not true - that Bergdorf is a woman - it’s perfectly reasonable to believe something Bergdorf tells us that is completely subjective?

That makes no sense to me. If someone so blatantly defies objective reality then any subjective reality they describe would be instantly less believable. If someone concurs with objective reality I’m much more inclined to believe their descriptions of other aspects of their existence.

VladmirsPoutine · 12/11/2022 21:21

@ResisterRex To me no it doesn't but I knew when those words were uttered the show was absolutely over. Thing is when you live in a country which was built on the slave labour of your ancestors, when your country of origin was enslaved and your ancestors were subjugated and treated as subhuman it does have affect on you. When people naively or oftentimes conveniently think racism is of a bygone era but for some odd reason people who look like you are more likely to end up dead during childbirth, arrested/harassed by authorities or when you go for countless interviews and are told you are lovely but 'wouldn't be a good fit' it does make you wonder. Even small things like when your friends want to plan a weekend getaway but then you remember the destination would render you in a very awkward position where you'd be the 'only black' in the whole village thus the holiday would be less relaxing and more anxiety inducing. The thing is even at work when they do their D&I initiatives in October I tend to just smile and nod because offering up my opinion would render me jobless and I have quite a penchant for Chanel Smile And that small matter of having young black nieces who from a scarily early age hated their blackness and wanted to be more like 'the blonde barbie' because in their eyes nothing about them was regarded as pretty.

beastlyslumber · 12/11/2022 21:26

You're American, Vladimir? Munroe's British.

Kiwimommyinlondon · 12/11/2022 21:28

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elephantseal · 12/11/2022 21:28

Oh ffs

elephantseal · 12/11/2022 21:29

InterestingUsernameTBC · 12/11/2022 07:26

I once heard Heather Brunskill-Evans speaking about the time Caitlyn Jenner won Glamour Woman of the Year. CJ was in various magazines taking about what being a woman meant to them. And Heather wrote a piece about what being a woman meant to her, spoiler: it was based on being female. She was told she wasn't allowed to write about that. That it invalidated the lived experience of someone like CJ. That's why stuff like this matters. How long before our daughters only see representations of women performed by men in the media?

Yes! 👏👏👏

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