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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Legal change could make Scotland into a trans haven

119 replies

Igneococcus · 30/10/2022 05:48

Not only for people from the rUK but from other countries as well it seems:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/9d26228a-5703-11ed-a3b8-342870f8e8b9?shareToken=f502598a888cce4ae0a39881f395b6c8

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roarfeckingroarr · 30/10/2022 13:36

Cismyfatarse · 30/10/2022 09:56

It seems we have been wrong all along. Wee Nic is simply trying to repopulate the Highlands and find people to manage the sheep on all those abandoned crofts.

Well yes, I imagine having extra strong women with big hands will be very helpful for the sheep rearing and highlands life

roarfeckingroarr · 30/10/2022 13:42

@Freespirit42 lesbian by definition means same sex attracted. So a woman who claims to be lesbian will only be attracted to biological women.

If a woman is attracted to women and trans women then that would be bisexual or pansexual. It doesn't really matter what they say they are - I could say I'm French when I'm not - but if they don't fit the definition of same sex only attracted, they're not lesbian.

roarfeckingroarr · 30/10/2022 13:48

Poor otters, getting dragged in by an angry child.

I've seen one "transphobic" post on this thread and it was rightly deleted swiftly. As they always are.

This argument always descends and it's never the GC among us who resort to anger and insults.

ilovepixie · 30/10/2022 14:33

What is TQ please.

WanOvaryKenobi · 30/10/2022 15:11

Part of the LGBTQ+++ ever growing assortment of letters.
T: Transgender
Q: Queer

FrippEnos · 30/10/2022 16:36

Pugdogmom · 30/10/2022 11:46

So much hysteria about all of this.

www.transactual.org.uk/facts-about-trans

Thanks for that

The problem is that several include intersex and they have repeated asked to be left out of this.
A couple are the same.
The access to single sex spaces isn't entirely true.
The Olympics one is technically true but ignores that trans people have won at various sports displacing women and doesn't include the non-binary footballer.

Also it switches from trans to non binary and back again.

deca34r · 30/10/2022 17:29

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 10:04

Just for the record many gay and lesbians are fine with the TQ some are not yes but many are so stop stereotyping lgb people

Just for the record.

it has been proven multiple times that the majority of the lesbian gay and bisexual people do not support the TQ community.

waterwitch · 30/10/2022 20:10

So, correct me if I’m wrong Freespirit,
‘woman’ is anyone who says they are
‘lesbian’ is anyone who says they are

What about ‘DBS checked’, is that anyone who says they are?
How about ‘child’?

JanieAllen · 30/10/2022 20:13

sigh Scotland already has the highest incidence of Multiple Sclerosis in the WORLD. We can't afford to have this frankly unhealthy population move here and eat up healthcare resources. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26857201/

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 20:21

Asdavaluesausage · 30/10/2022 13:21

Careful @Freespirit42 your homophobia is becoming extremely transparent. A lesbian is a female homosexual. They sleep with females only.

males claiming they are ‘lesbians’ are no different than the blokes down the pub saying the same thing. Both disgustingly homophobic. Fuck off with that shit. The word lesbian is taken and it does not include males in any way shape or form.

Stop calling people homophobic because they say that some lesbians do in deed date trans women that’s not homophobic at all because it’s actually true

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 20:28

To the person that put it has been proven that more lesbians hate trans or don’t support trans people that’s not true is it if you look at pride marches etc so many more lesbians happy to support their trans sisters even this article shows how many more supported them sadly for some on here that don’t want to accept that www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/lesbians-stand-trans-women-open-letter-dangerous-bbc-article-rcna3903

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 20:29

roarfeckingroarr · 30/10/2022 13:48

Poor otters, getting dragged in by an angry child.

I've seen one "transphobic" post on this thread and it was rightly deleted swiftly. As they always are.

This argument always descends and it's never the GC among us who resort to anger and insults.

Nope it’s never the gc it’s just as you said you saw transphobic post actually a couple that got deleted and passive aggressiveness but nope you r right your side is just full of sweet angles, I am not a child either I am 42

ArabellaScott · 30/10/2022 20:57

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:34

It’s not about thinking differently that’s like racists say oh well I think diff about black people yes you can think trans women are not women but the rudeness that your posts were deleted and picked up by otters shows a level of transphobia

Is that you, Nancy?

ArabellaScott · 30/10/2022 20:58

Wait, otters?

Confused
ArabellaScott · 30/10/2022 20:59

Sturgeon is not interested in Independence. Sturgeon is interested in her career post-First Minister. It won't be long now; she'll be wanting a cushy seat somewhere impressive.

suggestionsplease1 · 30/10/2022 22:08

TeenDivided · 30/10/2022 12:29

But lesbian has a specific meaning 'same sex attracted females'.

You can't redefine a word unilaterally. I could say I'm fit, or a giant or an olympic athlete. Saying something doesn't make it so, even if I truly believe it.

They're not redefining it unilaterally.

Whether people on this board like it or not there is a broad consensus of young gay women now who support the inclusive definition and use it naturally without a second thought.

Language evolves. There is no one authority over it.

suggestionsplease1 · 30/10/2022 22:12

deca34r · 30/10/2022 17:29

Just for the record.

it has been proven multiple times that the majority of the lesbian gay and bisexual people do not support the TQ community.

What absolute bollocks 🤣😂🤣

waterwitch · 30/10/2022 23:06

Deca34r and Suggestionsplease there’s no point in just claiming victory - you need to support your statements with evidence! My experience is that many young lesbians don’t want to entertain the idea of partnering with any male, but can find it difficult and dangerous to express that view among their peers. But that’s just my experience, and my understanding of the attitude of a small number of teenagers proves nothing without wider evidence to back it up. Do you have any?

waterwitch · 30/10/2022 23:10

Oh, and maybe one of the new contributors who believes TWAW would like to have a go at the challenging question of defining the word ‘woman’ without circular references or relating it to undefined feelings

HootyMcboob76 · 31/10/2022 00:27

"It doesn't cost anything to be nice....."

That's where you're wrong. A lot, if not most of us, started off with exactly that attitude. Be kind. Be nice. Be accepting. Be accomodating.
Until that wasn't enough anymore and we were forced to change our language, forced to accept males in women's spaces, forced to give up our privacy and dignity. Forced to acknowledge a legal and social fiction that males can be women in EVERY way. It is never enough. Unless you capitulate 100% and deny even biology and reality, then you are a "transphobe" and a "bigot". We've heard the trope "they just want to PEE, they just want to live a QUIET life" time and time again. It's not enough that they want to use our spaces, they want us to applaud them for doing it.

"Maybe all the nasty people that hate trans people should move out of scotland if they don’t like how progressive it’s becoming?"

As a Scot living in Scotland, all I can say to this is, I am a proud Scot, I love my country, but I HATE what this ideology is doing to it. I have no intention of moving ANYWHERE and I will continue to fight for the safety and privacy of my two daughters.
How DARE you tell people to move because they don't subscribe to your gender fairy ideology! Because they don't want to see children sterilized, mutilated with unnecessary surgeries, sacrifice their safety to males who WILL AND HAVE taken advantage of the law to gain access to women's spaces, give up their hard won rights, job opportunities, sporting opportunities etc.

I don't subscribe to your religion of gender. How dare you try to impose your shite on other people and then tell THEM to leave if they don't like it?
As for "progressive"? - any normal person will still know what a man and what a woman is. However "progressive" you think the country is becoming, THAT will never change, and I believe people will rise up and challenge this utter bullshit when they see exactly what is will mean for our country and the safety of women.

Baldieheid · 31/10/2022 08:51

HootyMcboob76 · 31/10/2022 00:27

"It doesn't cost anything to be nice....."

That's where you're wrong. A lot, if not most of us, started off with exactly that attitude. Be kind. Be nice. Be accepting. Be accomodating.
Until that wasn't enough anymore and we were forced to change our language, forced to accept males in women's spaces, forced to give up our privacy and dignity. Forced to acknowledge a legal and social fiction that males can be women in EVERY way. It is never enough. Unless you capitulate 100% and deny even biology and reality, then you are a "transphobe" and a "bigot". We've heard the trope "they just want to PEE, they just want to live a QUIET life" time and time again. It's not enough that they want to use our spaces, they want us to applaud them for doing it.

"Maybe all the nasty people that hate trans people should move out of scotland if they don’t like how progressive it’s becoming?"

As a Scot living in Scotland, all I can say to this is, I am a proud Scot, I love my country, but I HATE what this ideology is doing to it. I have no intention of moving ANYWHERE and I will continue to fight for the safety and privacy of my two daughters.
How DARE you tell people to move because they don't subscribe to your gender fairy ideology! Because they don't want to see children sterilized, mutilated with unnecessary surgeries, sacrifice their safety to males who WILL AND HAVE taken advantage of the law to gain access to women's spaces, give up their hard won rights, job opportunities, sporting opportunities etc.

I don't subscribe to your religion of gender. How dare you try to impose your shite on other people and then tell THEM to leave if they don't like it?
As for "progressive"? - any normal person will still know what a man and what a woman is. However "progressive" you think the country is becoming, THAT will never change, and I believe people will rise up and challenge this utter bullshit when they see exactly what is will mean for our country and the safety of women.

Same here. I'm ashamed of my government.

Someone telling me to move away from my home...........well, it's just a modern day highland clearance, isn't it?

RoyalCorgi · 31/10/2022 09:00

"It doesn't cost anything to be nice....."

The problem in a nutshell. Perhaps if you're white, middle-class, heterosexual, happily married, lead a generally comfortable life, it doesn't cost you anything to be nice.

The people at the sharp end of this are vulnerable women: those in prison, using rape crisis centres, fleeing home to live in a domestic violence shelter, or lesbians wanting a safe space to meet other lesbians. It's not surprising that the majority of women supporting the rights of men to enter women's spaces are white and middle-class because they know, or at least believe, that they will never share a prison cell with a violent rapist or flee traumatised to a domestic violence shelter to be confronted by a man who walks around with his dick out. Quite easy to congratulate yourself on how "nice" you are and let other women bear the brunt.

JanieAllen · 31/10/2022 09:08

Lets spell it out its poor women in Edinburgh, Midlothian and East Lothian who have to use the shoddy services of Edinburgh Rape Crisis which will not give women - women only trauma care after rape. Middle class women will pay for private counselling. Middle class women will go to private gyms where they don't have to change and shower next to men as you have to in Edinburgh Leisure. And its poor women who end up in jail and will have to have men pretending to be women in their spaces because they want a cushy time in jail and lots of victims handily around.

ArabellaScott · 31/10/2022 09:37

"Maybe all the nasty people that hate trans people should move out of scotland if they don’t like how progressive it’s becoming?"

A short note. Most people in Scotland cannot just 'move out of Scotland'. Houses here are far cheaper than they are in the rUK.

This is why we have had a big influx of people selling up in England and moving into Scotland. The same thing can't happen in reverse.

It slightly reminds me of someone suggesting that Xhosa people in South Africa should have just 'moved out of South Africa' if they didn't like the new colonists arriving and taking over.

puffyisgood · 31/10/2022 09:52

on the positive side, recent footage from the Scottish ladies' Premier League is suggestive some exciting, high scoring games ...âš½