"It doesn't cost anything to be nice....."
That's where you're wrong. A lot, if not most of us, started off with exactly that attitude. Be kind. Be nice. Be accepting. Be accomodating.
Until that wasn't enough anymore and we were forced to change our language, forced to accept males in women's spaces, forced to give up our privacy and dignity. Forced to acknowledge a legal and social fiction that males can be women in EVERY way. It is never enough. Unless you capitulate 100% and deny even biology and reality, then you are a "transphobe" and a "bigot". We've heard the trope "they just want to PEE, they just want to live a QUIET life" time and time again. It's not enough that they want to use our spaces, they want us to applaud them for doing it.
"Maybe all the nasty people that hate trans people should move out of scotland if they don’t like how progressive it’s becoming?"
As a Scot living in Scotland, all I can say to this is, I am a proud Scot, I love my country, but I HATE what this ideology is doing to it. I have no intention of moving ANYWHERE and I will continue to fight for the safety and privacy of my two daughters.
How DARE you tell people to move because they don't subscribe to your gender fairy ideology! Because they don't want to see children sterilized, mutilated with unnecessary surgeries, sacrifice their safety to males who WILL AND HAVE taken advantage of the law to gain access to women's spaces, give up their hard won rights, job opportunities, sporting opportunities etc.
I don't subscribe to your religion of gender. How dare you try to impose your shite on other people and then tell THEM to leave if they don't like it?
As for "progressive"? - any normal person will still know what a man and what a woman is. However "progressive" you think the country is becoming, THAT will never change, and I believe people will rise up and challenge this utter bullshit when they see exactly what is will mean for our country and the safety of women.