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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Legal change could make Scotland into a trans haven

119 replies

Igneococcus · 30/10/2022 05:48

Not only for people from the rUK but from other countries as well it seems:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/9d26228a-5703-11ed-a3b8-342870f8e8b9?shareToken=f502598a888cce4ae0a39881f395b6c8

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Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 11:15

FemaleAndLearning · 30/10/2022 10:45

This is the problem when we mess with language and have words that have more than one meaning. For some a lesbian is same sex attracted for others it's same gender attracted. The word lesbian is taken and means same sex attraction of women, the adult human type. The word woman is also taken. Language does change but the meaning of these words will not. TQ need to find their own words or just make some up. They have been very good at making up words so it shouldn't be too difficult. There wouldn't be so much conflict if women's words and their meanings had not be colonised by men.

Totally disagree as you don’t get to tell a lesbian who they are attracted to. The one lady that says she’s a lesbian and doesn’t agree with trans women fine that’s her opinion but I can tell you and show you other lesbians that are cool with trans people and even dating them to and still classify themselves as lesbian because life is complicated

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 11:16

TeenDivided · 30/10/2022 10:30

If you see any transphobic posts then report them to MN and if they agree they will delete them.

Just seen they have deleted them

HepzibahGreen · 30/10/2022 11:24

Are you ^ing at me? What's transphobic about saying that men who identify as lesbians are erasing the category 'lesbian'?

No Pattihews, not that post, some of the others.

DullAndOvercast · 30/10/2022 11:25

BillyBigot · 30/10/2022 10:31

I don't think wee Nicola cares that much about trans rights. Why would she have this obsession with one thing (apart from independence). But its a good way of try to destabilise the UK by trying to push contrasting laws in a boarderless country, where the impact on the rest of the UK would be significant. What better way to force the independence agenda. Nicola doesn't care about trans rights, she cares about independence, and will do what ever it takes to get there.

I have to admit that I was starting to think along these lines - though Scotland already has a separate legal and education system to rest of UK.

Though here in Wales and in N.I education is also different - not sure about legal situation in N.I and Wales is increasingly going it's own way on many matters.

WanOvaryKenobi · 30/10/2022 11:27

You write like a child.

Asdavaluesausage · 30/10/2022 11:32

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 11:15

Totally disagree as you don’t get to tell a lesbian who they are attracted to. The one lady that says she’s a lesbian and doesn’t agree with trans women fine that’s her opinion but I can tell you and show you other lesbians that are cool with trans people and even dating them to and still classify themselves as lesbian because life is complicated

Life is complicated but sexuality is not. Lesbians don’t date males. Even those wearing a dress. A lesbian Is a female homosexual. To claim otherwise is extremely homophobic. As transwomen are male, no lesbian will date a male. But as you also have Males claiming they are lesbian, it’s no wonder you’re confused.

PriOn1 · 30/10/2022 11:44

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Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Many such posts are made and very quickly are screenshotted and circulated on Twitter by transactivists. Somehow, the activists always get the screenshots, even when Mumsnet delete them very quickly. An amazing coincidence that they are always on Mumsnet just at the right time, don’t you think?

Pugdogmom · 30/10/2022 11:46

So much hysteria about all of this.

www.transactual.org.uk/facts-about-trans

Asdavaluesausage · 30/10/2022 11:50

Ooh transactual. What beacons of sanity… not. 🙄🙄🙄
yes @PriOn1 it’s like a miracle how they’re always on the right threads at just the right time to grab screenshots from first time posters….

BillyBigot · 30/10/2022 11:57

DullAndOvercast · 30/10/2022 11:25

I have to admit that I was starting to think along these lines - though Scotland already has a separate legal and education system to rest of UK.

Though here in Wales and in N.I education is also different - not sure about legal situation in N.I and Wales is increasingly going it's own way on many matters.

I'm not convinced that Scotland's legal system can (legally) undermine the whole of UK law though. And this is what will happen if this goes through in Scotland. I don't know whether Westminster will challenge it, but I am convinced that Nicola's entire reasoning for this is nothing to do with trans rights, and everything to do with undermining the UK legal system to further her independence bid. Trans issues are just a vehicle to her achieving this. The more I think about it, the more convinced I am that this is what she's doing. It's quite ruthless really. But not surprising.

CovertImage · 30/10/2022 12:10

Totally disagree as you don’t get to tell a lesbian who they are attracted to

Yes you do. "Lesbian" is a definition. If a lesbian is attracted to males (TW or not) they're not lesbians. It isn't rocket science

Baldieheid · 30/10/2022 12:20

Oops, I totally got the tone wrong there. I was actually chortling at the paradise-found idea of Scotland being this kind of haven for trans. Worded it really badly, but I bloody live here and it's truly not a rainbow filled festival of light and worship of the trans. I consider my wrist well slapped.

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:25

Asdavaluesausage · 30/10/2022 11:32

Life is complicated but sexuality is not. Lesbians don’t date males. Even those wearing a dress. A lesbian Is a female homosexual. To claim otherwise is extremely homophobic. As transwomen are male, no lesbian will date a male. But as you also have Males claiming they are lesbian, it’s no wonder you’re confused.

Again stop doing this as I keep telling you there are indeed lesbians that say they are lesbians dating trans women so it’s not for you to tell them that they are not lesbians that is wrong.

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:26

CovertImage · 30/10/2022 12:10

Totally disagree as you don’t get to tell a lesbian who they are attracted to

Yes you do. "Lesbian" is a definition. If a lesbian is attracted to males (TW or not) they're not lesbians. It isn't rocket science

No as there are lesbians dating trans women because they see them as lesbians stop trying to redefine things if they say they are lesbians they are indeed lesbians

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:27

Baldieheid · 30/10/2022 12:20

Oops, I totally got the tone wrong there. I was actually chortling at the paradise-found idea of Scotland being this kind of haven for trans. Worded it really badly, but I bloody live here and it's truly not a rainbow filled festival of light and worship of the trans. I consider my wrist well slapped.

passive aggressive still can’t hide how it’s wrong that trans people just can’t live their life without twats being disgusting about them

334bu · 30/10/2022 12:29

Again stop doing this as I keep telling you there are indeed lesbians that say they are lesbians dating trans women so it’s not for you to tell them that they are not lesbians that is wrong.

Why not? They are not lesbians.

TeenDivided · 30/10/2022 12:29

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:26

No as there are lesbians dating trans women because they see them as lesbians stop trying to redefine things if they say they are lesbians they are indeed lesbians

But lesbian has a specific meaning 'same sex attracted females'.

You can't redefine a word unilaterally. I could say I'm fit, or a giant or an olympic athlete. Saying something doesn't make it so, even if I truly believe it.

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:30

BillyBigot · 30/10/2022 11:57

I'm not convinced that Scotland's legal system can (legally) undermine the whole of UK law though. And this is what will happen if this goes through in Scotland. I don't know whether Westminster will challenge it, but I am convinced that Nicola's entire reasoning for this is nothing to do with trans rights, and everything to do with undermining the UK legal system to further her independence bid. Trans issues are just a vehicle to her achieving this. The more I think about it, the more convinced I am that this is what she's doing. It's quite ruthless really. But not surprising.

If they see it as a health issue ie trans women or men let’s not forget about men we all concentrate on women any way if they get their certificates yuckier making them feel better then as they have control over their health and their laws to a certain degree what can England do? The only reason why certain people in England won’t like it as they feel trans women or men from quicker but that really doesn’t impact anyone . The tories are using this as a culture war stuff to not just the SNP

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:31

334bu · 30/10/2022 12:29

Again stop doing this as I keep telling you there are indeed lesbians that say they are lesbians dating trans women so it’s not for you to tell them that they are not lesbians that is wrong.

Why not? They are not lesbians.

Because they see trans women as women just for instance if trans women had full operation and bodily looks like a woman acts like a woman is a woman that lesbian will think she is still a lesbian . You need to go on other forums etc this happens i

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:33

TeenDivided · 30/10/2022 12:29

But lesbian has a specific meaning 'same sex attracted females'.

You can't redefine a word unilaterally. I could say I'm fit, or a giant or an olympic athlete. Saying something doesn't make it so, even if I truly believe it.

No because it’s how you define a woman it’s not just about chromosomes though is it and that’s the thing as I say there are indeed lesbians that do date trans women prob after full operation and think they are dating a woman like some gay men do date some trans men that is a thing

Baldieheid · 30/10/2022 12:33

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:27

passive aggressive still can’t hide how it’s wrong that trans people just can’t live their life without twats being disgusting about them

I think differently to you.
Get over it.

334bu · 30/10/2022 12:33

So they are bisexual. What's the problem with that?

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:34

Baldieheid · 30/10/2022 12:33

I think differently to you.
Get over it.

It’s not about thinking differently that’s like racists say oh well I think diff about black people yes you can think trans women are not women but the rudeness that your posts were deleted and picked up by otters shows a level of transphobia

Freespirit42 · 30/10/2022 12:35

334bu · 30/10/2022 12:33

So they are bisexual. What's the problem with that?

Nothing I don’t give a fig but the lesbians don’t define themselves that way and you guys need to understand this as it’s wrong to portray your values on what others think. I am not gonna make you think trans women are women but my values shows me they are that’s how we differ

334bu · 30/10/2022 12:38

the thing as I say there are indeed lesbians that do date trans women prob after full operation and think they are dating a woman

Are you implying that some transwomen will deliberately conceal their male sex to have sex with a lesbian?