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Kellie-Jay Keen (AKA Posie Parker) appreciation thread

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TotallyTERF · 25/10/2022 18:35

I just love this woman! She undoubtedly has the Midas touch when it comes to marketing and publicity.

I have been to several of her events over the years, and she has time for each and every woman who comes to see her.

Any other fans here?

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Datun · 13/01/2023 10:43

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 10:40

I though GC feminists were largely pro freedom of speech?

Why so many attempts to shut it down on this thread?

Hypocrisy much?

Someone has suggested that ELO actually start their own thread. Can't be more pro free speech than that.

free speech doesn't mean you approve of the derailing of an appreciation thread with absolute drivel.

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 10:47

Datun · 13/01/2023 10:43

Someone has suggested that ELO actually start their own thread. Can't be more pro free speech than that.

free speech doesn't mean you approve of the derailing of an appreciation thread with absolute drivel.

Ok so your version of free speech means nobody gets to challenge content in threads if you don't happen to like it.

Riiiiiight.

DialSquare · 13/01/2023 10:53

How can anyone challenge my appreciation of KJK?

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 13/01/2023 11:03

There was a thread on aibu the other day

Something like 'does everyone like their Samsung telly'

2nd post on was 'I don't have a telly'

I mean why? What's the point?

Helleofabore · 13/01/2023 11:04

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 10:40

I though GC feminists were largely pro freedom of speech?

Why so many attempts to shut it down on this thread?

Hypocrisy much?

Why conflate 'freedom of speech' with allowing misrepresentation and lies?

But I and others have encouraged the poster to keep posting, preferably with some actual engagement rather than the repeated lies and misrepresentations. Or start their own thread.

Datun · 13/01/2023 11:04

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 10:47

Ok so your version of free speech means nobody gets to challenge content in threads if you don't happen to like it.

Riiiiiight.

I'm not sure you understand the concept of an appreciation thread.

Datun · 13/01/2023 11:08

Or the concept of free speech, either for that matter.

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 11:16

Datun · 13/01/2023 11:08

Or the concept of free speech, either for that matter.

I'm pretty clear you have no concept of the idea of free speech!

So if someone posted an appreciation thread for a surgeon carrying out gender affirmation surgery here, you, and all other GC feminists on these boards, would presumably let others crack on with that appreciation?

Or would you be hypocritical and maybe post something?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 13/01/2023 11:20

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 10:47

Ok so your version of free speech means nobody gets to challenge content in threads if you don't happen to like it.

Riiiiiight.

Comment is free but facts are sacred innit?

if you say things that just aren’t true people will notice (here at least)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2023 11:21

I've spoke to quite a few of you KJK fans before and most of you were Tories and actually transphobic instead of genuinely concerned about women and girls' safe spaces.
Bindel and Women's Place got the measure of Posie very early on. Maybe because they are real working class feminists who are not using the very real fears of women and girls concerned about gender ideology and the erosion of women's rights to build the fascist tendency and make Posie plenty of dosh. Not too smart eh ?

Royal Family threads getting boring at the moment?

Helleofabore · 13/01/2023 11:25

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 11:16

I'm pretty clear you have no concept of the idea of free speech!

So if someone posted an appreciation thread for a surgeon carrying out gender affirmation surgery here, you, and all other GC feminists on these boards, would presumably let others crack on with that appreciation?

Or would you be hypocritical and maybe post something?

Again. There is a difference between 'free speech' and posting misrepresentation and lies. If someone has something to add that is based on facts and not guilt by association and partial truths or lies and can support it, why wouldn't they be welcome to post on threads?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/01/2023 11:27

NecessaryScene · 13/01/2023 08:10

I guess when you're someone who advocates for letting men into women's prisons you have to try really really hard to find some way to make anyone look morally worse than yourself.

So you have to do things like say "holocaust denial" a lot.

It's a weird sort of whataboutism - "okay, a lot of women might get raped in my plan, but don't think about that - think about the holocaust, it's not as bad as that".

But even then it doesn't work because even a holocaust denier isn't actively supporting an ongoing holocaust, unlike those who are actively supporting putting men into women's prison's now.

Those like ELO supporting that are directly supporting an immediate ongoing crime against humanity.*

They don't get to have any moral high ground by being concerned about previous ones.

"Okay, so I'm doing this to you, but I feel really bad about what happened to those other people. Don't go asking her for help - she once stood next to someone who thinks that other thing didn't happen. So I'm just going to keep doing it. Shut up."

Totally normal non-psychopathic behaviour.

*(Yes, sorry, women do count as humanity. Sorry to be pedantic about this.)

This.

Datun · 13/01/2023 12:11

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 11:16

I'm pretty clear you have no concept of the idea of free speech!

So if someone posted an appreciation thread for a surgeon carrying out gender affirmation surgery here, you, and all other GC feminists on these boards, would presumably let others crack on with that appreciation?

Or would you be hypocritical and maybe post something?

Good lord.

The denial of free speech is not women objecting to an oddly repetitive poster blurting out 'Holocaust denier' every other post! 😁

honestly. These people.

DaughterOfPsychiatrist · 13/01/2023 12:20

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 11:16

I'm pretty clear you have no concept of the idea of free speech!

So if someone posted an appreciation thread for a surgeon carrying out gender affirmation surgery here, you, and all other GC feminists on these boards, would presumably let others crack on with that appreciation?

Or would you be hypocritical and maybe post something?

I think we’d probably just point out this was unlikely to be an efficient board for such a post?

Much tidier to mod-move it to the LGBT Parents section (although MN might have concerns that it was advertising-by-subterfuge and remove it, which would be their right).

Such a thread would be likely to gain a more appropriate audience over on one of the two transgender uk-specific subreddits or the transgender surgeries sub, or one of the many transgender topic Facebook groups or forums (such as Susan’s Place or TS Angels).

HTH!

beastlyslumber · 13/01/2023 12:38

LOL. I think you'll find that even incredibly annoying people who tell lies and insult others are allowed to speak on these boards. The only thing TRAs ever get reported for is transphobia, racism or personal attacks.

It's hardly shutting down free speech to ask people to take their hatred to a different thread.

beastlyslumber · 13/01/2023 12:44

What do you think free speech is @suggestionsplease1 ? It's not the right to say anything you like unchallenged. If you want to speak, expect to be challenged and have to defend your speech.

If people want to come onto an appreciation thread and tell lies about the subject of the thread, then they can't honestly expect that to go unchallenged. Of course they're going to be asked to defend their speech, bring evidence, build a coherent argument, etc. And of course people are going to question their motivations in commenting off topic in this thread, rather than starting a thread of their own.

EastLondonObserver · 13/01/2023 12:47

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 13/01/2023 10:14

I really think you should give this one up, the more you protest the more it sounds like you just didn't know what gatekeeping means.

Verb or no, you know what it means

Whether you feel a word is being used incorrectly as a verb or not doesnt affect the intention

If someone on here said they were feministing or womanning wrong it doesn't take a genius to work out what they mean

The debate I opened up wasn’t about what it means. You can scroll back and see for yourself.

It was about whether “to gatekeep” is commonly used - i.e. as a verb.

It’s not - and certainly not in business, contrary to what has been suggested upthread.

“I gatekeep the diversity policy at HSBC” said no one ever.

SinnerBoy · 13/01/2023 12:48

Really, Marg, you are a billy of the very silliest variety!

ArabellaScott · 13/01/2023 12:50

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 13/01/2023 11:03

There was a thread on aibu the other day

Something like 'does everyone like their Samsung telly'

2nd post on was 'I don't have a telly'

I mean why? What's the point?

😂you've got to admire that, on some level!

beastlyslumber · 13/01/2023 12:56

EastLondonObserver · 13/01/2023 12:47

The debate I opened up wasn’t about what it means. You can scroll back and see for yourself.

It was about whether “to gatekeep” is commonly used - i.e. as a verb.

It’s not - and certainly not in business, contrary to what has been suggested upthread.

“I gatekeep the diversity policy at HSBC” said no one ever.

You must know this is nonsense.

What would it be, if not a verb? You can't really use it as a noun, can you? It's not an adjective or an adverb or a preposition or a conjunction.

Here's a dictionary definition for you:

gatekeep
verb

  1. To limit (sometimes manipulatively, rather than directly) how much role another party, often a spouse, has in some task; for example, to limit how much one's husband can raise one's children
  2. To control or limit access to something
ArabellaScott · 13/01/2023 12:59

Of course some people will invent the most absurd straw squirrels to detract from the point of the thread.

suggestionsplease1 · 13/01/2023 13:18

beastlyslumber · 13/01/2023 12:44

What do you think free speech is @suggestionsplease1 ? It's not the right to say anything you like unchallenged. If you want to speak, expect to be challenged and have to defend your speech.

If people want to come onto an appreciation thread and tell lies about the subject of the thread, then they can't honestly expect that to go unchallenged. Of course they're going to be asked to defend their speech, bring evidence, build a coherent argument, etc. And of course people are going to question their motivations in commenting off topic in this thread, rather than starting a thread of their own.

So what are the lies that have been said about KJK?

And I suppose it's you/ GC feminists in general that get to determine what is a fact, what is opinion, what is truth, what Is lies? Am I right?

Helleofabore · 13/01/2023 13:19

FFS. I have my Marketing text book right here in front of me from 1991. It discusses 'gatekeeping' under the chapters about Industrial Buying Processes and communicating to opinion leaders. That is just one text book.

I also remember it discussed rather a lot in my Organisational Behaviour unit. And I remember it discussed very clearly in the sales theory courses and practical courses. And in business strategy unit.

You are absolutely talking bollocks when you say It’s not - and certainly not in business, contrary to what has been suggested upthread.

Look.... here ... very first google entry regarding 'marketing'

www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/gatekeeper-marketing

I know you said you worked in advertising ELO but I cannot believe it when you come out with absolute bollocks like this. Or were you only ever involved in the creation side and NEVER actually on the business side of Advertising?

You really could have just googled, yet didn't seem to be able to.

I am quite sure that readers did and saw your fuckwittery for what it is.

I only highlighted it because you have continued with the same kind of fuckwittery on this thread too. The fuckwittery of just typing 'holocaust denial' and believing that anyone will actually believe you.

Helleofabore · 13/01/2023 13:22

“I gatekeep the diversity policy at HSBC” said no one ever.

Actually, they very well could do!

Are you so lacking in how organisations actually work that you don't understand the relevance of this example you just posted.

If someone is actually making the decisions about what to have in the policy or not, THEY ARE GATEKEEPING THE POLICY.

They may or may not say it. It is more likely that they will be accused of it.

Really, stop with the fuckwittery.

EastLondonObserver · 13/01/2023 13:30

Helleofabore · 13/01/2023 10:18

I recommend any reader, and you particularly, use google. And see for themselves the wide range of usage for the term. It really does cover many disciplines.

And yet, just because you personally don't understand when gatekeeping is happening to you so you can use the term effectively, doesn't also mean others don't understand and will use the term.

You seem to be well stuck in a rut with repeating "holocaust deniers, anti abortionists". (I see you have started repeating US Social conservatives and now also anti-LGB bods too)

I read your OP in one of your threads that you were in advertising for 25 years! So, I guess you work on the principle that if you repeat something enough times that you will eventually convince someone.

"Yes, there’s some logic in attacking accusations of “guilt by association”. But this isn’t an undergrad seminar, it’s real world politics. The company you keep has a significant effect on your appeal."

And there is both the sleight of hand dishonesty and the very tight purity spiral polarisation.

"But this isn’t an undergrad seminar, it’s real world politics."

You obviously haven't actually thought this through.

Real world politics is ALL about presenting to a wide range of people, even those you disagree with.

Real world politics means working on committees with people you don't agree with on many, if any things, but want to make sure of an outcome that you can live with.

Real world politics means having photos taken with people you abhor.

"The company you keep has a significant effect on your appeal"

The 'company' you keep. Who is she 'keeping company with'? You mean friends? Who are her 'friends'? Do you not have friends and family you disagree with but still love? Well... adulting is very hard, we know.

Or do you mean being seen at the same conferences or events with? Do you believe that politicians never attend a conference that they disagree with the organisers on to present an alternative view? Do you believe that politicians only ever give interviews to channels that fit the purity they desire to be associated with?

Your example is quite something.

You are either now declaring that KJK is best friends with holocaust deniers,

or

you are trying to tell us that politicians don't ever appear on a program, an event or a media channel unless everything about those programs and events and media (organisers, audience and other speakers) 100% fit all their beliefs.

or

you really don't have much real life experience outside a very curated bubble.

But the conferences where she is appearing with far right/social conservative/anti abortion/anti LGB speakers aren’t engaging with diverse audiences at all. She is preaching to the converted, which is why she is invited. And the audiences she speaks to are, for the most part, small.

Appearing alongside these types is self defeating. This is because to have any meaningful effect she will have to appeal to a broad audience and these associations means most mainstream media won’t touch her with a barge pole, and she’s relegated to low-audience bottom feeders like GB News.

its a dumb, self defeating political strategy.

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