Glinner posted on yesterday, a transman/detransitioner after 5 years of wrong sex hormones. They were 21, balding and looked sad and tired but very like a young man. They were talking and, to me, this woman's hand suddenly came in from the side of the shot and touched their head. I realised (duh!) It was their...her hand, she was just scratching her ear.
Of course, all the comments from transpeople and tras were so nice and supportive. Like feck, they were nasty, cruel, full of spite but, to me, also fear.
I doubt she'll read this post but I wish her all the best.