Speaking from my own perspective:
Maybe, due to the violence and aggression that TRAs seemingly enact whenever their view is challenged (or whenever women just want to gather and speak), some females feel like me, and are not able to put themselves on the “front-line”.
I would be no match for any shouting and physical aggression - I have medical conditions, disabilities and am a single parent. I cannot put myself in such a potentially violent situation.
This in no way lessens my support and commitment.